Should I be upset if my girlfriend is wearing a necklace that an old boy friend gave her?

[Anonymous]

Should I be upset if my girlfriend is wearing a necklace that an old boy friend gave her? Should I ask her to stop wearing it ? What should I do?/

[SparkstheTalent]

If her wearing the necklace bothers you because you feel like it means she still has an emotional attachment to her ex then you should tell her that. If you don't want her to wear it because her ex gave it to her and you feel like your her new boyfriend and she shouldn't wear it because he gave it to her then you should get her a necklace to replace that one. If you go about it the correct way she won't get offended and assume you're trying to be mean or controlling. She probably just enjoys the necklace design, it probably holds no emotional or sentimental value.

[rachiee]

If it bothers you and makes you jealous then you should ask her to take it off and tell her how it makes you feel. Then I suggest you buy her a replacement necklace that came from YOU to wear around. Usually when a girl wears a necklace from an old boyfriend it doesn't mean that she still has feelings for him, it just means that she likes the necklace and wants to wear it. But regardless if its something that is bothering you then you need to talk to her about it and let her know.

[naturaldisaster]

No, you shouldn't be upset that she wears it. I doubt that the necklace reminds her of her boyfriend, more likely she likes the necklace itself. Women love jewelry...well most of us do, you should tell her it bothers you that she wears it! I know I would.

[toosexualcat]

That depends... Why does she wear it? Does she like it or is it sentimental? Find out.

IF she just likes it, then stop worrying about it.