me and my ex broke it off about a month ago, actually she broke it off with me saying she things were going fine and she wanted to end it while we are still friends. as BIZARRE as I saw this there is nothing I could do except agree. so we went our merry ways, it was about a week wen I meant this new chick and started messing with her. me and my new gurl was at the movies when I saw my ex and some of her gurls and went over to say hi she was all cheery until she saw my new gurl come over and wrap around my arm. wen we got in the theater she sat right behind me with her gurls and kept kickin my chair talking to me and just straight C-blockin HARD! then she called me that night and told me I was in considerate, that I didn't care about our relationship, that I should have fought for her etc...etc. oh and she would talk to me bout guys that was trying to get wit her too! lets not leave that out lol
my 1 q is: ladies do you agree with this chick?
2nd: did I do something wrong here?
3rd: is she just a crazy ass bitch?
ladies its one of ur own I completly understand...but be real with a brother, ok?
how often do women do this? don't you think its kind of moronic?
She wanted you to fought for her. But I think she didn't expect for you to move on like that. She wanted some groveling. I don't agree with her, but I understand how she feels, cause I wanted my ex to fight for me too and stuff, if the ex doesn't fight he's saying "i don't care" at least that's how I (and it seems your ex too) see it. BUT IT WAS COMPLETELY WRONG to act so childish and rude! She IS a crazy bitch ( kicking your chair? how old is she ?!) She's just jealous that you got a girl to go out with you quicker than she could get a man to go out with her.
3. Nope. She is just still in game playing mode. She is not crazy, but we are taught some crazy things about dealing with guys by our friends, family and the media. She probably wanted you to protest when she broke up with you and she probably wanted you to mope around instead of moving on so quick.
I think it is moronic. We should all just communicate with each other what we want, but men and women don't.
She is playing games. When she saw you with the other girl it hurt her pride that you were not sitting at home sulking around waiting for her to come back. You did nothing wrong but move on with your life...
I don't agree with her. First, she broke it off, which gives you both rights to date other people. No, you didn't do anything wrong, because you just went up to your ex and said "hi," like normal friends do. I wouldn't call her a crazy ass bitch, but she's clearly in the wrong. I can understand her being jealous, but, again, SHE'S the one who broke it off, and her accusations are a little bit unrealistic.
I think she was just hurt and kind of jealous that you moved on so fast...like one week? But you didn't really do anything wrong, cause she is the one that broke it off with you and she had no right ruining your date.
Sometimes people in longer relationships break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend because they want the excitement of a new relationship back. She probably broke up with you intending to break up and seeking for a new exciting spouse, but then when you didn't beg for her back, she realized that SHE wanted you back. She probably realized she made a dumb mistake
I'm not saying that it's right, (what she's doing) I'm just saying that's how she's feeling most likely. And she's still attached to you, because 8 months makes her feel like you are still hers, even though you broke it off. (so when she saw you and your new girl, she was extremely jealous and mad)
And you're right, she probably did want you to cry ! But since she dumped you, it's your choice, and if you want to move on, it's her loss !
I do not agree with her, and I think that your ex is over reacting, but maybe she was offended at how fast you moved on. It depends on how long you two dated, six months, it would have been respectful to wait a little longer, but a month of dating, it would be okay to date a week after the break up.
She's just jealous. sorry, girls are sometimes over dramatic.
try to get as far away from her as possible, give her an "adult" conversation and seem serious to her. Tell her that she broke up with YOU and to stop being so fuking immature and to leave you alone. I'd never do that to my ex-bf there's something seriously wrong with her
i wouldn't call it moronic, but stupid on our account.
sometimes we aren't sure what we really want so we leave the one we love and then when their gone we realize how much we really loved them. and if we see them with another gurl we get mad just because we love them and wish we never called it off.
I completely agree with amberview. She is 100% correct. Yet, I do understand where she's coming from. She just feels really weird with seeing you and another girl. And to your update, it has happened to me. And like when they say you should've fought for them and stuff if makes you feel guilty and they want to guilt trip you into dumping your Girlfriend and go back to her. Just ignore your ex's requests and have fun with this new girl
She's just a little immature girl that can deal with a guy that ain't gonna put up with her sh*t. She had another thing coming, and her c*ck-blockin' was just a lame attempt at trying to get back at you cause she's jealous of your new girl. She was trying to make you jealous too.
You did nothing wrong here man. She started playing games, and you kicked her to the curb. She's just looking for a rise out of you, and if you play it cool she'll move on to some other poor sap.
Bro, if she dumped you for pretty much no reason and you didn't make a fuss, then found a new honey, and were nice enough to great your ex, but she giving you a hard time, she is a b*tch and I wouldn't worry about her. Life is too short to be dealing with drama girls.