If you realized you made a mistake with rejecting someone, what do you do?

[Anonymous]

Do you approach them first?

Do you expect them to continue contacting you?

Or will you changing your mind and feelings towards someone never, ever happen.

Talking about people who have been in/out of relationships, not turning down strangers.

[-Darling]

I don't expect him to conact me and nag about going out with him. If he does I will automaticly lose all interest, unless I have a huuuggeee chrush on him or something. If I rejected a guy but changed my mind afterward I would approach him myself asking if his still interested in whatever he asked me out to. Movie or whatever.. I'm not sure why your asking this queation but if you have been rejected and think about asking her again, I would say no don't bother.

[Asker]

You're probably right, I don't know why I keep trying to think otherwise.

[Anonymous]

It depends if I know I was wrong I would do my best to mend things and work it out..if it was all him I can't say much because every situation is different .At times id like to give up and let it go but I can even if I rejected him I'd find away to keep him in my life

[honeypie01]

My boyfriend initially rejected me because of his own personal issues. He came back and told me that he made a mistake, and what he was dealing with. He was open and authentic. We have been together ever since and very happy.

[honeypie01]

I definitely believe that the reasons for initial rejection mean alot. By no means am I condoning accepting back a flakey wishy washy man. If he has a real reason, and is heartfelt about his comeback its at least worth the listen.

[Anonymous]

4 words to fix the situation. Walk up to her and say

Me Make Boo Boo

[-Darling]

Huh? :s

[Anonymous]

I rejected a guy that I Really liked but I chickened out. I honestly don't know what to do, I'm going to look like an idiot no matter what I do, so I haven't done anything.