Aww, I've had this happen to me before. In fact, I'm kind of in this situation right now! lol
I'm not really a shy person, but I tend to get more shy around a guy that I REALLY really like. Especially if I'm not really sure how he feels about me. :-/
I really don't know if a guy would like a girl again if she wasn't so open to his advances in the past, or perhaps was kind of coy with her interest.
I think it's possible, but I guess it also depends on how interested the guy was in the first place, how obvious you are being with your interest, etc. I don't know...I think anything is possible.
Like I said, I'm in this same predicament too so...I would HOPE the guy would like the girl again! :-D
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I think it is possible, if they found you desirable once they can again
Anything is possible when it comes to people and emotions. You have to think about it simply: I liked this girl for whatever reason and when she did not reciprocate the feelings, rather than waste time, I moved on. This does not mean the same qualities that made her attractive disappeared, just naturally, I moved on to preserve time.
This has actually happened to me several times. It's easy to re-acknowledge feelings for someone because usually, they are the same person you were once attracted to, especially if they play a major role in your life (most people keep people in their life whom they get along with, trust, care for.)
Good luck, I hope he likes you again!
Depends really, on how much I liked the person and how bad the signs were that she wasn't interested. If the signs were cold, or shallow then once was more than enough, and I wouldn't consider liking her again. If the signs were her being flattered I liked her, but would rather us remain friends then it is entirely possible for me to start liking her again.
So really, it depends on how she responded.
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If she was really nice about it at the time of me making my move on her, then in the future she was interested in me and I was single, then id definately be happy to try things out with her. However if she was rude, dismissive, or nasty towards me at the time of me making my move, I would never give her a 2nd chance!
While a second attempt at something leaves you open for heartbreak again it still has potential to work out.
If you were attracted to her once, it is no surprise that you're attracted to her again. However the things that led to the break up will probably come up again, and it is highly likely that you'll break up again.
It is still possible for you both to make it, for me she would have to let me know she was interested before I put myself out a second time... You can only shoot me down once
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