It sounds like she's still hurt. So she is being passive aggressive, and spiteful. She probably thinks "I'll show him how much I don't care" but she probably does still care. The people we care for are the people that can hurt us the most. She is reacting from emotions she feels and isn't responding in a mature way. All women are not like this. She's probably young, and still doesn't know how to handle her strong emotions.
You can contact her and tell her that you still care for her, and it is not OK to talk about you with other women or any other person. You are not doing this to her, and you expect the same in return. You can be polite and professional. You can send her an email or call her if you're comfortable with that. If she gets nasty you can say you don't accept people treating you with disrespect and tell her you're hanging up.
It's hurts when someone treats you this way, and I'm sure you don't deserve to be treated like that!
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I was fine with my ex and tried being nice to him until I found out he a) cheated on me b) was spreading rumors about me c) was telling guys to stay away from me and threatening to beat them up. Then I told him we can't be friends and it's over. So my meanness was more of a combination of wanting to get rid of him and being hella angry that he made a fool out of me. But instead of spreading rumors and being truly mean, I just deleted him and moved on. Cutting all ties seemed the best option for my sanity and his.
On a side note: 'you kinda love her' is not really good enough for the basis of a relationship. Maybe it's time to move on because it's more painful for both parties to hang onto something that didn't work and never will.
They don't necessarily, but it's clear that break-ups are easier to implement if you just set down that iron curtain and don't let the other person back in. For most people that does involve a bit of mental and emotional ingenuity. You need to convince yourself that you no longer value the EX in that way, that you NEED to distance yourself because he/she is no good for you. Feelings of resentment naturally arise as a list of reasons WHY the person is no good for you starts to form. HATRED is perhaps not the bet word, but certainly pain, anguish, resentment, etc. all apply. It's just natural for most people to go through that emotional circuit.
Perhaps she's been heartbroken. but other times, chances are she's either a troublemaker, just plain mean, insecure, emotionally turbulent, or don't know how to handle matters like this the right way, etc. these are my personal opinions.
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Because you broke up. You may have been in love when you were together but now that you are seperated it because hate the fact that she loved you and you are no longer together or that she regrets you. Not to be harsh.
She is upset about the break up. She lost you from her life and that hurt, so she wants to upset you back.
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