I found out about my husband's weird behavior online, on his secret FB account. I installed a key logger and went into this FB account he made and I read all the messages. He has ALL women, no men, in there. He listed himself as single and interested in women, and he was hitting on all of them, especially the 17-22 year olds (slutty types on bikini and duck face shots). He's a manager at Waffle House, just got the job, and he's hitting on the waitresses from another store he was training at, offering to buy them dinners, flowers, etc, and he's also going after another manager in Orlando who has slutty poses, bikini shots, etc. He was also telling all of them how horrible I am, that he can't have his freedom with female friends, that I don't let him hang out with them, how he wants our marriage to end. Most of them know me because I pick him up/ take him to work. I feel like a total clown because he's been badmouthing me around and hitting on these girls big time. I am a good wife, we've been married for 11 yrs, no kids. I'm going through nursing school full time, I take care of the house, thrifty type of person, never deny him sex, and overall a cheerful person. So what's wrong with me? Is his behavior normal? He told me if I "interfere" with his female friends again, he will throw me out of the house and, according to him, I am not entitled to anything. He said either I am out of here or he moves out and lets the house go back to the bank (mortgage). I have no family nearby and I don't have a job now because of my full time nursing school schedule. He won't go to counseling w me. What to do?
My husband is acting like a dog in heat, chasing all girls around. What to do?
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