He proposed then ended things 2 weeks later
Two weeks ago me and my boyfriend of one and a half years went on holidays, we went on a trip to visit some of his extended family across the country from us, for 2 weeks. On our way driving he proposed, I said yes, right afterward he called his parents to share the good news. We got back on our way, I met his family, he shared the news, everyone was congratulating us, we stayed for a week with them, doing various outdoor activities, had a few minor disagreements, but we worked everything out right away. Then we started are way back home with a week stop in to see his sister and spend some time with their kids. He wasn't hesitating on sharing the news, even with comlete strangers. Then suddenly today we finished up our drive home, a couple of hours away and he suddenly ended things. There was absolutely no arguments on the drive back so this hit me out of no where. I found out shortly after we got engaged that he had told my best friend 4 months ago that he was going to propose on our trip. He also had told his mom the week before we left. The proposal wasn't a big surprise because we had picked out the ring together 2 months back. So basically, the decision to propose was one he thought out long and carefully and was planning for awhile even well before picking the ring. Out of no where when we were driving home he just started saying that he wasn't the type to settle down and commit and that he wanted to be a "playboy and sleep with lots of women" and "he missed the chase of trying to find someone" The thing about this is, he's never been the one-night stand type of person, he prefers to sleep with someone he has feelings for and he's definitely a one woman guy. No one was pressuring him to propose, he was the one who brought it up to family, and it was something we discussed before. He started talking about wanting to go see strippers and try hitting on them (we have been out to watch strippers a few times together as part of foreplay). His behavior is so unlike him, I'm not sure what to think, if he just got really scared suddenly at the enormity of marriage, or what. He told me he still loves me, and admitted that from the day he propsed to today the only thing that changed was putting a ring on my finger, and that he had no doubts whatsoever when he asked, but now he just wants to "see what's out there" I don't know what to do, I'm devastated.
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