Ok first off, cheating is wrong...completely wrong on all levels, especially if you're about to marry a girl, so it is completely unacceptable to cheat during your bachelor party. A guy who sees that logic because she'll be the only one he'll ever sleep with has no morals when it comes to relationships That particular guy is a moron.
But to answer your question, I would say no, most guys don't cheat on their bachelor parties. I have been the best man for two weddings, meaning I've planned two bachelor parties. For both parties, we spent a few nights at the beach...we'd go out a night and drink, but none of us was ever in the situation to meet girls etc. Personally, as the best man, I most certainly wouldn't let the groom do that, but the two guys I was best man for never would have.
Bachelor parties are pretty much just a last celebration for the groom to hang out with all his buddies at once. It can be anything, anywhere...we would play games, hang out at the beach/ocean, go out on the town at night, but we would never meet any girls.
Yeah, there are guys out there who want strippers and stuff at their bachelor parties, but I don't know if that's cheating...its debatable, but I've never known a guy to get laid at his own bachelor party (or anything similar) but I imagine it has happened.
I can say this...if my fiance cheated on me at her bachelorette party...we would be done...there would be no wedding.
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i don't know, but I think that a bachelor party with plenty of girls and strippers around does not sound good. what the f*** are you getting married for? steady p****? to me even if you don't cheat, going to a trip club for a bachelor party sounds sh*t
think about it, a bunch of drunk guys partying with often strippers involved yes what else would happen? do you really think with no one there to check their behavior, that they would just stop at a lapdance and that's it? I think most, or at least a lot of guys think this way, why else do you think your boyfriend felt comfortable enough to say it? I say that's the one get out of jail free pass both soon to be husband and bride should have with no questions asked. he can get him a hot stripper and you can meet up with a hot ex or have a fling and move on with your lives
Wow. Can you boyfriend have any less respect for women?
You shouldn't be getting married if you don't love and respect your significant other. If you love and respect them, you'd never want to cheat on them.
The guys that *I* know don't do the strip club business at their bachelor parties. They do fun things, like paintballing, etc. So they don't cheat.
I guess maybe brides to be should start asking if he will and telling him it's only fair if he cheats than she should be able to too. It's only fair is he is going to be the only person she has sex with the rest of her life too.
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It depends on how you define cheating. If you're one of those idiots who thinks looking at a pair of t*ts is cheating then yes.
If you mean penis inserted into some females body cavity, then no.I wouldn't... I mean damn! If I decided to marry a girl why the f*** would I ruin the magic and commitment by just f***ing a random hooker. I would have just stayed single if I wanted that. I wouldn't be able to look into her eyes at the alter if I did that.
Please tell me you dumped this guy after he said that.
Frankly it's foolish to be dating a guy that already has a built-in "excuse" for cheating.None I've been to.
Lapdances yeah at most. But that was it.
Strip club is quite different from 'hiring strippers'.its a secret...strippers & lap dances absolutely are OK but any more is not OK in my opinion. your boyfriend has an interesting perspective that if I had a girlfriend w that view I would leave her...js
wtf? that's not the point of bachelor's party!
it's because of pricks like your boyfriend that women think all men are pigs and cheaters!I wouldn't, but I guess I'm kind of old-fashioned that way. I can't speak for anyone else though, none of my friends are married.
About the same amount as women cheating at their bachelorette parties.
The same reason girls will tell a guy "You're a really good guy", then tell them they just want to be friends, and go for some exciting a**hole.
...And you're still with him because?
Some do.
Yes
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