My first love and I became friends eventually, but it took almost two years. He is moving on with dating others, and I already did. However, he told me that I'll always be special to him because I was his first. I'm sure that the first girl he ever loved (you) will hold a place in his heart, even if he does move on. After all, you set the precendence for relationships and girls with him in those two years. My ex also ended it with me, but kept sort of waffling back and forth in his decision, even though we didn't ever end up back together, so I bet yours feels the same way mine did.
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Yup. I've seen it happen a lot.
Especially if she was a bitch who broke his heart.
Lots of girls don't want to believe that guys get over their first love because it makes them feel special and desired but hun;Guys get over their first love ESPECIALLY if there were areas of the relationship she failed in. Or if a new girl came along and did what his first love didn't/wouldn't/couldn't.
I'm pretty sure they do the thing is, is that they always have a place for them,...in their minds I'm sure they always reminisce about him\her once in a while.
Sane guys do, usually in one to three months. For creepy obsessive insane people like your ex the process might take a bit longer. From the way you've described him I'd get a restraining order.
It's hard, but when they meet the girl of their dreams, yes they do. Most often they get through the pain by just seeing more girls, this is often encouraged by other guys.
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yep have no feelings at towards my first love and I was with her for almost 3 years.
of course we get over it. Takes a little time to sort things out then we move on with life.
100% over all of them.
yeah -_-
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