Do guys ever get over their first love?

Anonymous
I was his first love we dated for almost two years, our reason for breaking up was we fought too much which was almost always due to jealousy. When we first broke up he tried very hard to make me jealous and now after we have been broken up for about 4 months he has been going through girl after girl. He "dates" some poor girl for about a week then moves onto a different one. He goes through phases where all he wants is my attention and all he wants to do is be my friend and then all of a sudden he hates me and wants nothing to do with me. As a couple we did everything together and if we weren't together (rare) we would be constantly texting and calling each other (if I fell asleep I would wake up with missed calls and many texts from him) the only time we would actually fight was when we weren't with each other and we were worrying about each other. As I described how everything is it may seem as if I broke it off but it was him so that just makes the situation that much more confusing for me. So does a guy ever get over his first love? If so how long does it take? And could anyone explain to me why he is behaving this way?
Do guys ever get over their first love?
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