Why is my ex so mad that I slept with his brother? We have been broke up for years and he has had a girlfriend?

my ex and I have been broke up for yrs. he has a girlfriend and although we are still friends and even occasionally have sex, he was very angry and heartbroken when he found out that I had recently had sex with his brother. his brother and I have been friends since the beginning and nothing has ever happened until recently. I don't understand why my ex is so upset he is with someone now and I don't think it is any of his business who I am sleeping with
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  • If you continue in being friends with your ex, and also still occasionally have sex with him, then your relationship with him has not ended. After all, you say that you have been friends with his brother (wow this is gettin' deep), and now you're having sex with him. Chances are that your ex would feel a little strange anyway (if he was actually your ex), if you were now sleeping with his brother, but you are now literally in bed with both of them. I suggest making you ex your ex by moving out of each others lives. By continuing on as "friends", and continuing to have sex, your just setting up yourself, and others, for misery. How does your "ex's" new girlfriend feel about you continuing to have sex with him? Ahhhhhh! Consider joining a bowling league, or finding some similar hobby, Meet a new guy, and work toward building a meaningful relationship together. Way too much drama. An assembly line of baggage. Good luck.

    • Thanks palek! you are so right about the drama! and the baggage! And you wouldn't even believe the story about the new guy and new relationship. but let me know if you want to hear it and give me some advice on that situation.....

    • Sure, let it rip. Send it to me via message if you want.

  • You're kidding right?

    MAN LAW: You can never sleep with your best friend or brother's girlfriend EVER. This rule has no statue of limitations! The only way you can get around this law is if they die first, but even then, you are playing with fire, depending on your belief system and karma.

    Lady, you got some nerve trailer-hopping. worse, this purported brother will find himself in a bad place. word like that in MAN circles don't go over too well.

    Cut bait!

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  • wow, you are dumb for asking that question, its his BROTHER!

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  • You're absolutely right, it's none of his business who you sleep with and I'm sure that he would just rather not know. But a brother is pretty close to home and will be in his face. Not good.

  • Do you honestly honestly don't understand? Really?

  • you don't sleep with a x-boyfriends brother, are you serious? Once a woman I was seeing told me that she slept with a good friend of mine and then proceeded to basically ask me if we could still sleep together and if I would have a problem with her still sleeping with my friend. I said I definitely would! He has been with her for about two years and he doesn't know we used to sleep together. Its a little too weird for me, but to each his or her own.

    • What if it was a cousin? would that be as bad?