Playing games will only push him further away. He'll just view you as some crazy ex Girlfriend who is like all the other drama filled girls. He's realize he made the right decisions and continue on his path.
If you really want him back, you just have to be mature about it. Make yourself a better person, improve on your faults, and talk to him about it like an adult.
Even still, I would suggest you just move on. I advise all my friends the same way. First of all, your most likely wasting your time, because 90% of the time, they're not going to take you back. The second reasons is most rekindled relationships, don't tend to be healthy relationships. It's rare that two people break up (not this week long break up bullsh*t), get back together, and live happily ever after. If they broke up the first time, it was usually for a reason.
Personally I've never regretted dumping a girl. All the girls I did dump, I did so because I learned they were crazy. I cut off all ties with them. I've had only 2 girls in my life I wish I could have stayed with. One left for college and broke up with me. She was my first love and still to this day the best Girlfriend I've ever had. The other was a girl who I dated for a short time in high school, we broke up, and then I refused her when she wanted to date me again. Fast forward about 8 years and she is now dating one of my good friends. She turned out to be an amazing Girlfriend to him and I tell her how much I respect her for her treatment of my buddy (he was an army ranger), and not cheating on him while he was overseas. Now seeing the adult she's become, I wish I would have stayed with her.
Sorry but if he dumped you, & is making no effort at all to keep in contact or anything, there is nothing you can do to make him regret it. He's not into you & very seldom guys will change their mind about a girl once they've made that decision. Just forget him & move on is the best thing you can do.
I am not really getting this. Did you two date? I cannot tell what exactly happened other than you liked this guy, you were talking and then he told you he did not want to see you anymore.
Either he was not really in to you to begin with, or he just wanted sex. In either case, you cannot make him regret dumping you. Only a guy who was emotionally attached to you and wanted a relationship will feel badly that it did not workout. I have met guys in all sorts of situations that would seem like a relationship was the last thing on their mind, but when a girl comes along that inspires them that way, they will end up in one.
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ok, my advice, don't try to make him regret it, because for one that's just cruel and immature, and 2, guys 99% of the time after we figure out that you're trying this stuff, will turn it around on you and make everyone hate you...
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