I've spent the whole 2 and half days with my boyfriend on a holiday.
From waking up till sleeping (with few hours break). This was our first time where we had spent the whole days together.
What happens after?
We had a really lovely time together, lots of laughing and cuddling etc Since leaving (he is still there, he was also there to try and finish his project), he has not contacted me once in 3 days.
Do guys just need to catch up on your work/self for couple of days?
Or should I be worried?
I really can't think of anything I did.
On the third day of the weekend I did noticed, he was still pleasant but was less cuddly to the first 2 days...he seemed slightly distracted with work.
I haven't texted or anything because I thought it'd do him good having a little break to concentrate on his work. because I know he was sacrificing his work time to cater me a little. I was very easy going though, didn't demand anything and was happy to just be. But he took me out to expensive dinner, breakfast by the beach, coastal walks, made dinner together, watched movies etc...
But this sudden silence is worrying me a little.
Last time we spoke, I was waiting for my flight back but was delayed so I sent him a message and also told him that I had the best weekend. He said if I wanted to, I could come and have drink with him while I wait for my flight and he said he was glad I had a good time.
I replied saying it was OK that I had a book to read and also that he should work. Also hoped that he had a nice little break as well.
That was it, haven't heard a single bleep from him...Not even a "Me too"/"I had a good time too"/"Hope you got home safe"
Is this the so called "Rubberband" theory from that book men are from Mars women are from venus?
Also in some way I feel like I'm being tested for possible signs of neediness.
the silence is just really sudden!
From waking up till sleeping (with few hours break). This was our first time where we had spent the whole days together.
What happens after?
We had a really lovely time together, lots of laughing and cuddling etc Since leaving (he is still there, he was also there to try and finish his project), he has not contacted me once in 3 days.
Do guys just need to catch up on your work/self for couple of days?
Or should I be worried?
I really can't think of anything I did.
On the third day of the weekend I did noticed, he was still pleasant but was less cuddly to the first 2 days...he seemed slightly distracted with work.
I haven't texted or anything because I thought it'd do him good having a little break to concentrate on his work. because I know he was sacrificing his work time to cater me a little. I was very easy going though, didn't demand anything and was happy to just be. But he took me out to expensive dinner, breakfast by the beach, coastal walks, made dinner together, watched movies etc...
But this sudden silence is worrying me a little.
Last time we spoke, I was waiting for my flight back but was delayed so I sent him a message and also told him that I had the best weekend. He said if I wanted to, I could come and have drink with him while I wait for my flight and he said he was glad I had a good time.
I replied saying it was OK that I had a book to read and also that he should work. Also hoped that he had a nice little break as well.
That was it, haven't heard a single bleep from him...Not even a "Me too"/"I had a good time too"/"Hope you got home safe"
Is this the so called "Rubberband" theory from that book men are from Mars women are from venus?
Also in some way I feel like I'm being tested for possible signs of neediness.
the silence is just really sudden!
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