How/Should I bring up a previous problem in our relationship?
My girlfriend went on a mission trip in July that was 12 days long. When she came back she was acting weird and protective of her phone. I soon found out that she had been talking to one of the guys on the mission trip and that she had taken a few picture of him that were uploaded to Facebook. Also the day after she came back they hung out and went on a run/walk together. Since then she's deleted his number and stopped texting him back. I've been thinking recently that I was too nice when this happened. I don't feel that I got my point across of how upset and hurt I was that this happened. I want to tell her that I'm still hurt by it but I also don't want to restart a fight over something that happened 3 months ago. Any suggestions?
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I would think she doesn't sound like a good partner.Just because I feel that certain things should be open.I personally would feel insulted if my guy thought I would be upset he was texting his other female friends.now I use the word'friends' because if it is a FRIEND, there shouldn't be ANYTHING to hide.you may have been nice.I personally became more assertive because of some jerks I dated.sometimes you got to realize some girls aren't that honest.I think your feelings are validated because she hid this from you and why? why should she hide...unless it's bad.so I wouldn't get mad over it, I would almost be tempted to dump her.is there any other evidence she could be cheating on you?
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