How do I break the ice with a cute girl I only see once a week?
From this class I'm in which we only attend once a week. We haven't really spoken properly yet, not properly anyway. It's a class in which we sit...
Most Helpful Girl
I think that if you are interested in her that you need to let her know. My best suggestion is to just be yourself. There is nothing worse that a really corny come on line or someone who is really obviously trying to pick you up. Just be who you are and strike up a conversation with her. Maybe what do you think about this class etc. If she is sending you body language signals that she is interested you need to let her know that you are interested too. Smile back and be friendly and open. She might be shy and scared as well. Good luck!
What Girls Said 5
You have a class with her so you can start a convo about homework or an assignment or anything as you're walking into or out of class! She seems interested by the smile, so approach her and be friendly, I'm sure she will be friendly too! Or even, start talking to girls she's friends/talks to in that class if you're too shy to talk other especially, and then join her in the convo naturally!
ask your lady friends ,maybe they can help..if not send her a note
ask her for help with the homework or something
or just ask if she wants to go for coffee
Lol, I was the cute girl in a scenario like this recently.
So you're a shy guy and she's a shy girl. One of you will have to take the first step and I think it should be you. She smiled with you for no apparent reason - I don't know if you can imagine just how much courage she had to muster up just to do that. Take this as an invitation to talk to her. Next time you see her make sure you keep eye contact with her for about 5 to 8 seconds and smile. If she blushes, pay her a compliment or make a joke about something your teacher did in class and introduce yourself. Maybe you could invite her to a club meeting or something, just so to make small but innocent conversation. If she holds her head down, smiles a lot and basically acts like a dummy when you try talking to her...she totally likes you and you shouldn't give up on her...just be patient and friendly tease her. These are all the words I wish I could give my crush.
What Guys Said 6
the common ground you have with her is class...so walk up to her after class (the smile she gave you was a signal!) and say something about interesting/boring you thought the class was, and what she thought of thr class.
Then casually mention that she has a nice smile (so she knows you noticed het smiling at you), and let the conversation roll. :)
Do you see her around at all outside of class and do you at least have facial recognition? If so, then use that to your advantage. Introduce yourself as one of the guys from the class and then invite her for coffee or dinner.
Walk right up to her and talk to her after class. About anything. It's done miracles for me.
try help each other with homework and something like that then get to know her better
Just man up and start talking to her. =P
I have been in this situation myself - you just have to stop thinking about it next time you see her, just walk up and talk as if to anyone else.
This is how you should talk to yourself - if I don't speak to her I will never have a chance.
Once you start talking you'd realize it just feels normal.
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