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Hey people, here's my story. After breaking up with my girlfriend TWICE (and both driven by her decision, as she stated she was not prepared for a serious relationship) and also a confusing episode including her cheating on me with her previous ex while we hadn't officially broken up yet. I am still hurt somehow, since the relationship was one of nicest I ever had. Anyways, I think I really need to move on, howbeit since we broke up she still is smsing me and giving me missing calls, I even received a sms from her wishing me Happy Holidays (she broke up with me 10ish days ago). I was very kind and didn't want to confront her and save the "hate speech", but I think I need to release and tell her how unkind her behavior was. I'm not the kind of person that likes to confront people, but perhaps this time is necessary to turn the page. What do you fellas think about this?
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What Girls Said 5
If you want to talk about the break up and the relationship and her behavior during that, ask her if she's willing to meet up to talk since you have some things you want to say. If she doesn't want to, ask her why, if she doesn't give a good reason, tell her again you need to get some things off of your chest.
If she really doesn't want to, tell her that you want to be left alone for a while, since you need time to get over her and the relationship you had. If she doesn't get it and keeps texting or/and calling you, ignore her and if that's hard, block her number.
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