But I didn't respond. He was abusive during our whole relationship and lied to me alot. He wasn't even able to break up with me, he decided to ignore... Show More
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he probably was just thinking about you. during holidays regardless of how relationships are/were we tend to think about them.
I don't think you should feel about not responding and based on your description of the guy and the relationship I think you have every right not to respond.
You mentioned you miss him and are not over him. Do you miss him specifically or just having a relationship and someone you know who is out there thinking about you and caring for you? I ask because it doesn't sound like he deserves you