Why do married men cheat on their wives, with their ex-girlfriends?

[Anonymous]

Why does a man who has been married for only 3 months , cheat on his wife with his ex-girlfriend? The girlfriend, that he dumped , for the one he married? Why does he continue to do this for the 2 years that he has been married? His answer was, she doesn't mean anything to me, I feel nothing for her. I was just bored.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he just has a cheating mentality. Men will usually cheat with girls who he has been with before. He may even call the ex a side chick and the ex thinks they are an actual ex. If he married her he loves her and regardless if he has s*x with the second women he still rubs his wife's back every night cooks for her, attends family gatherings and goes to sleep. he's obviously bored and is having meaningless s*x with the ex because he is a cheater. Why would a man not leave an ex if he didn't get caught for cheating the entire time they were married. A cheating man lies to the ex to get what he wants and surly the wife doesn't know. I feel sorry for everyone and especially the ex that hasn't moved on thinking she's special and the married man has the ultimate muliplative advantage. how sad

[xxangel1990xx]

Because they are scum-seriously, the men that do that are disgusting creatures. As for men not being beiologically engineered to be monogamous-what a BS excuse. Women are just the same as men in that respect, noone is engineered to be monogamous but millions of people manage to be. If you choose to be faithful and respectful of the one you're with then you will be. Simple as that. Anyone that cheats will do it again, I firmly believe that and if anyone ever cheated on me they would never get a second chance. I think women whose partners cheat on them should have some self-respect and get rid of him and find a man that will treat her like a princess.

[jfshroo]

he probly got bored of doing the same girl

as males were not biologically engineered to be monogamous

and for our sex life to be exciting we need several different partners to get more sexually aroused more often if anything if he stops he will probly lose intrest in the wife and they will definitly get a divorce soon after( that is if he stops)

this isn't a rule but its the most likely scenario

[EasyEC]

Two different personas: wife and mistress.

Figure out how to be both simultaneously and he'll probably be faithful (provide simultaneous love and lust). Or, if he becomes less attractive to other women, he'll be faithful because he simply has few options.