Do what will make you happy in the long run. Since y'all aren't married, I would say no because there's no real commitment. That's what I would do. The only reason I'd move out of state is if I was married to her. Yeah, things could always get bad after a while but it's better than leaving when y'all are just BF/GF. Especially if y'all haven't been dating for long.
And just by judging what you said in your post, I wouldn't move for sure. He should be a good boyfriend and be understandable and respect your feelings and decisions. Moving out of state is not like moving to another part of town. It's a big adjustment and will take time to get used to everything.
If this doesn't help you, talk to your friends and family, those that really care for you. They'll give it to you straight, not your boyfriend.
Good luck.
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Why didn't he ask to marry you? He wants you to make this big ass commitment but will he make one for you?
"It really made me feel like he never wanted me there in the first place or he had other plans for me to get up there and just use me."
-Yeah, think about that...You might be on to something
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