My boyfriend wants me to move to another state to be with him

Shayberry09
my boyfriend wants me to leave the only home I've ever known to move to a state where I have no family or friends him and his family will be all I have. I want a life with him but I want him to understand that I feel like I'm giving up everything but he took it as I was saying no all together and we got into a huge fight. his answer to me feeling like this was fine stay there I'll be fine. It really made me feel like he never wanted me there in the first place or he had other plans for me to get up there and just use me. I need all the advice I can get so all answers are wanted if this was you how would you feel and handle this problem
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He did ask me to marry him but right now I'm the one with a stable income and my own place. I feel like he thinks I should uproot my life were I have family and friends to move to a state were all I would have is him and his family. In the end he isn't really giving up anything. I held him down while he was locked up. I feel like he thinks that because I was loyal then I should be the same way now and do what makes him happy even if something doesn't feel right about it more advice wanted
My boyfriend wants me to move to another state to be with him
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