I was with my boyfriend for almost a year and he took some time out from me then the other girl called me to tell me he was sleeping with her all because I told him no commitent = no sex. Then when I asked him about it he said I love you and want to be you. But when I get him to tell me the truth he disrespected me and said when you want to be wtih me again then I'll stop what you say I'm doing. So I left him and now I want to know when I'll be ready to be in a healthy relationship and it leads to marriage and kids.
The perfect man is a lot like the perfect pair of pants. You never, EVER find them when you're actively looking for them. In the meantime, date, have fun, live the kind of life where you have no regrets. Most importantly, love yourself, with all your virtues and flaws. By this point, you'll know how you deserve to be treated (as in, well!) and you'll choose better guys. And yes, you'll probably make a couple of wrong choices first, and get your heart broken.
Make yourself into a person that you LOVE being with, and then someone else will find you and love being with you too.
If he loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you. You deserve better than someone who isn't going to be faithful. He wouldn't have broken up with you just for saying "no sex" if he cared about you as much as he said he does.
I have been cheated on and have cheated as well and its never easy. I'm trying to fix a relationship that I messed up. People make mistakes but if he says that he will stop doing what you say he is doing if you be with him no I don't think so that's not how it works obviously he doesn't love you if he said that its not easy to move on but it is possible. If he was truly sorry he would stop at nothing to prove to you he was done with is ways and try to win you back not tell you that. don't take him back unless he proves to you that his love his real and he is gonna stop his ways not only for you but for himself. I know they say once a cheater always a cheater but its really not always the case. don't let him twist his actions and put it on you. tell him that if you love me show me by stopping what you are doin then I will be with you and if you can't do that then we cannot be togher. But if you do decide to forgive him and be with him do not rub it in his face it will make for a very unhealthy relationship and both of you will be miserable I know I'm going throught that right now because I cheated and I am sorry but I stopped and I am stopping at nothing to win him back. Follow your heart it will not lead you to the wrong place its when you think to much that will. Good luck hope it all works out.
don't take him back. a guy who hurt you once. he'll do it twice. Obviously, all he cares about is sex, he left you and cheated on you for it, so if you don't give it to him now, he'll break your heart again. I don't think you want to be in relationship and have kids with someone who disrespected you.