I've been cheated 3 and I found out each time
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The most hilarious time technically wasn't cheating, we were FWB, however we decided to only have sex with each other, so I call it that. Anyways, my close friend at the time, had brought her best-friend to my house so we could all go out, I over hear them talking about a guy while I am getting dressed. She says " what was the name of the guy I was with last night", and says oh wait "*****'. This name isn't a regular guys name so I asked to see a picture of him, and TADAH it was him. A long story short, we both got played he told her, what he told me "however", I had been sleeping with him for months she was having a one night stand. We decided to bust him which we did, by one of us inviting him to hangout with some cute friends, the idiot agreed and when he arrived at our meetup place, he looked stunned; then he asked me was "I having fun", I replied "did he have fun last night" , I'm guessing he did because it took him 5 weeks to apologize full heartily.
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Turns out, many, many times, from all 3 of my long term relationships. Just found out my boyfriend of the past 13 years has spent the last 11 of them hooking up with prostitutes and dating site meet-ups. Up until now, he seemed to be the greatest man on earth, but I just feel gutted and catatonic. I'm not sure what the future holds for us, if anything. We have made great plans for the future, and I gave up my career and home town to be "all in" with him. I am deathly afraid of what is next for me. I fear sadness, destitution, and loneliness.
Once out of my 3 ex boyfriends. Caught the asshole on Facebook. I'm not a cruel person, but it felt good to see him cry and beg me for forgiveness, knowing he would never get it. I don't understand how one can do that and then claim to have true, deep, and sincere feelings for the person they betrayed.
Depends on what you call 'cheating'.
My first love confessed having a SECRET date with a guy and kissing him.
Two years later she wanted to go for 'drinks with a guy'. I call the 2nd time emotional cheating...
From all the long term ones I have been cheated on once/ twice, depending how you look at it.
Once.
I was working a night shift. My ex and a girlfriend of hers went to a bar and got loaded. A couple of guys started hitting on them. They all went back to the girlfriends place for a few more beers. And they ended up pairing off and doing the bedboard bop.
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out of 3 relationships it's happened once that I can absolutely say 100% that he cheated. Another was long distance and the next boyfriend tried to make me believe that my ex couldn't have been faithful. That same boyfriend made moves on my friend during the relationship (he said to see if she'd be a good friend to me) and almost immediately after we broke up. So I can say 1/3 cheated, all 3 ended up being pretty shady looking back.
none that I know of. But I suspect my ex cause he was so insecure, and made so man assumptions on me and so super jealous that I suspect he must of at least once out of insecurity or thinking I did when I didn't or idk
Well my last boyfriend used to cheat a lot in the beginning of the relationship. He used to "jokingly" flirt with girls online and even asked one out. He said that it was all a joke to him and that he really liked me but who knows.
About 4 times, It teaches you a lesson about people and kinda know how to develop a sense of loving yourself before you dive into another relationship.
Cheated on by two different guys. One was a serial cheater and the other cheated on me with this girl we worked with and they ended up dating. Then he cheated on her.
4 out of 6 in long term relationships.I was married to one of them,and I doubt that I'll ever get married again.
none...but I've only been in one relationship. I hope he never does...but if so I will leave without hesitation.
More than I'm proud of. I honestly thought it must be my fault at one point but nahh I just had rubbish taste in men back then.
One that I know of, one that I strongly suspect. Luckily most of my relationships have been fine in that regard.
Zero that I know of. If it ever happens to me I'll be devastated...I know myself well enough to know that for a fact.
Cheating is normal human behavior.
Emotionally or perhaps physically, I'm confident everyone here's done it too.None that I know of. There was one boyfriend who I suspected but it was never confirmed.
Once, and that was enough for me to open up my eyes and be smarter the next time around.
Never! Can you answer my question? If you live in America this does concern you! link
never. I've only been in one relationship, though. I hope it never happens.
Been cheated on twice worst part it was the same person both times.
Twice and they both sucked...
As far as I know, zero.
zero but I only have one boyfriend :)
I have been cheated on twice.
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