Questions: Break Up & Divorce
Why is my mom keep changing her mind? she say it’s my life and then say don’t do that?
I've been carrying a lot of confusion and hurt lately, and I need to share my feelings with you. When you first told me that my life is my own, it gave me such courage. It felt like you trusted me to make my own choices,...
I just broke up with my boyfriend but asked him to keep seeing each other. Is this ok?
We'd been together for 5 months (32M + 28F), but we spent so much time together, talked every day, and planned a life together because I thought we had so much chemistry. I feel sad and hopeless. Yesterday, while he was...
Was my ex a player/f*ckboy? or was our relationship just not good?
Hi. I am in the military. I dated this guy who was an NCO as I was a PFC. we were in different sections so its not fraternization. Anyways, we started dating after I had checked up on him for the fact he was sharing his...
Why did an ex delete me off social media and deleted his accounts as well?
I dont know what I did wrong. We were long distance for a few months and spent hours talking about meaningful topics and face timed but all of a sudden he started moving and rescheduling our FaceTime dates. He lives 5...
Am I overthinking and what should I do?
So me and this girl she has been my best friend and things got serious for a bit. But then out of nowhere one of her ex’s called bc they saw a picture of us together and she ignored it when I was around and I didn’t...
I regret ending my relationship?
I've been thinking a lot about my recent conversations with my mom and regarding my relationship with my ex-boyfriend. I ended things because it felt overwhelming, especially since I wasn't able to see him much due to the...
I received a text from my ex saying he died?
Last year my ex stoled from me, drank a full bottle of prune juice and took a sh*t and didn’t flush the toilet. The dirty toilet paper he threw under my bed. All because I asked him a question when I would be able to...
Perspective Needed - my ex changed his characteristic entirely and removed me. why?
Long story short, i had my last conversation with my ex weeks ago and we aligned not to reach out to each other anymore. Out of curiosity, today i check his WhatsApp and saw that he has a new branded bracelet with half...
Would you go back to the man he broke you if he offers to pay the therapy for the damage he did?
Long short story: toxic relationship. There were good moments too , of course. 4 years of living together then 2 more years of going back and fourth, trying to convincing myself he'll change. Well he didn't. Now that he...
Friends with benefits , ex, feelings?
Is friends with benefits a bad idea? I asked my ex if he was ok with never seeing me again.. he decided to tell me in person that there was obviously still feelings between us. He has noticed I changed so much since we...
What do you think is the reason some people contact their exes after 10 years?
Especially if they're married and have a child And have also been in like a 10 years long relationship after you broke up
Did I rush into cutting contact with her?
Few weeks ago, I suggested to my girlfriend that we should cut contact because I noticed she seemed to be losing interest and acting distant. Despite asking her about it several times and her insisting that everything was...
Attending a wedding soon — I’m MoH and my ex is BM. Suggestions? (See details.)?
My ex and I have a long college sweetheart relationship, but we parted ways because of diverging career paths (and some really needless jealousy issues on his part since everyone knew I was 100% committed to him, but I’m...
I can't hate people who did me wrong why can't I hate people?
there's so many guys who broke my heart in such terrible ways-- cheating on me, lying to me, using me, wasting my time and many doing it at the worst possible times. But for some reason I still care about almost all of...
Possible temporary breakup?
My 'ex' and I broke up a couple of times. We tended to push and pull each other. Couldn't find balance. We agree we rushed into a relationship, naively thought our feelings for each other would be enough. We came to find...
Will you tell your partner if you get pregnant after break up?
Me and my boyfriend break up a few days ago because of misunderstanding. He break up with me thinking i cause him stress and he said i already have enough stress with college and life. After weeping for few days i finally...
Would I be a bad psychiatrist if my ex told me he doesn't feel heard by me?
Im training to be a psychiatrist but my ex told me he doesn't feel heard by me and so he broke up with me. He said that about his first ex too. Do you think I shouldn't take it personally? How do I make him feel heard....
Why is my family still talking to my ex husband?
I’m in the middle of divorcing husband of 4 years after he began cheating on me, stealing my money to give to his drug addict mother and abusing me mentally, physically and sexually. I have since moved out, and...
