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Questions To Ask Girls At School or Work
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Questions to Ask Girls At School or Work
For about eight hours of every day we are either at school or at work. Eight full hours of every single day is spent around the same people. So, for roughly one third of our life, we are always seeing the same people, and among those people there are bound to be women that we are interested in.
It's understandable that you may feel nervous about trying to approach a girl that you are interested in at work or school. After all, since you are around her every day, if for some reason you make a fool of yourself while trying to talk to her (such as trip and fall on your face or sneeze in hers, which you will live through these social suicides even though it may not seem like it at the time, trust me), you are going to have to deal with the consequences every day (most of which are in your head). However, despite how intimidating these encounters may seem, women at your school or job are some of the easiest to approach. The greatest aspect of these social situations is that you have time to build on them. In addition, there is a wealth of nonthreatening questions and conversation starters to help you build a relationship. As long as you are willing to take that first, gut wrenching step, then you should be able to build a solid and enjoyable relationship, time and time again (just make sure that your shoes are tied, and that you don't have to sneeze). |  | | Don't believe the excuses in your head. If you think that women you are around for 1/3 of your life are not approachable then you are creating reasons to take yourself out of the game. | | | | Women at school or work are the easiest to ask out because:
1) You are always around each other
2) You can get to know her over time
3) You don't have to ask her out the first time you talk to her
4) You friends can help you get to know her, and get a date. | | Work Your Advantages
Just as with everything else in life, the best way to get what you want (and to move ahead) is to use all of your available advantages to,well, your advantage. Despite all the reasons that you may have come up with in your head as to why you can't approach these women, the females at your school and job are some of the easiest to approach(at least according to Discovery Channel's Animal Planet).The reason that women that you work with (or are at school with) are so easy to approach is that you are always around them (which is absolutely your greatest advantage, and possibly your biggest fear too). Because you are always around them you are able to take you time to get to know them, and they are able to get to know you over time (so you don't have to ask for a date the first time you talk to them). | | In addition, being that you are at work (or school), chances are you have friends (some that are probably mutual), so get them to help you talk to her, and also, to talk to her for you (just make sure they won't play a practical joke on you and tell her that you have uncontrollable rectal leakage, which is very difficult to convince her otherwise, so I've heard). | | How to Talk to Girls At School and At Work
There are a lot of ways that you can talk to women that you go to school or work with. The best thing to remember is that since you are going to see them every, you have time to talk to them, so don't worry about going to the finish line (a date) the first time you talk to them. What's great is that while you are getting to know them, they are also getting to know you (actually, in some cases that might not be a good thing). As stated before, it is exceptionally easy to have a conversation with each of these girls that you see every day and here are some great ways to get it going.
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| | When you are walking into class or the office in the morning, make sure to say hi.
“Morning, how are you doing today?”
-She answers.
“So tell me, are you a morning person?”
-She answers.
“Me either, I'm much more of a night owl.”
-She agrees.
“So what do you do to keep you occupied at night?”
-She answers.
“I didn't know Howl At The Moon was a bar, I thought you meant that you actually, no never mind. Well, I gotta go,so have a great day.
-She says bye. | | | Say hello when you see them in the morning! | Amazingly enough, the main reason that guys don't get to know the girls that they are interested in is because they never say hello to them. You may be thinking that it is more complicated than that, and while holding their interest may be, taking that first step isn't. Unfortunately most never take that first step, so make sure you do.
Don't worry about having a long conversation or being overly witty or smooth (who do you think you are, James Bond). Just talk to her, and make sure that you talk to her every day (even if that is only to say hi). You want to get comfortable talking to her, and after awhile she will also start conversations with you. | | Use something you know about her to learn more about her.
| Since you have been acknowledging that she exist every morning by saying hello (unless you keep chickening out), you have been able to learn a couple of things about her. Now that you know a little about her, make the conversation a little more personal and use what you know about her to get her to open up a little more. Remember, you are going to get to know her just like everyone else in your life, the fact that you are nervous doesn't change anything (except perhaps for turning your underarms into waterfalls). | “Hi Sara how are you doing?”
-She answers.
“So how are your table tennis classes going?”
-She answers.
“I don't know too many other people that have taken table tennis classes. What got you into that?”
-She answers.
“Wow, I didn't know that you took drinking games so seriously. So you really like to party huh?”
-She answers.
“So do you have a lot of friends that share that passion?”
-She answers.
“Wow. So where do you normally go to party?”
-She answers.
“I didn't know that was a bar? Is that a really neat place?”
-She answers.
“Oh, so you like karaoke too? I didn't know that you can sing too.”
-She says she can't.
“Ha ha. Well at least you get up there. I'll have to see you butcher a song one day.”
-She quips back.
“Oh wow, I didn't know you could do that with a ping pong ball. Well you will have to show me how good you are one day.See you later.”
-She says bye. | | You have been talking to her for a while now, and hopefully you have continued to learn more and more about her (see, you should never have been nervous, she is just as weird as you are). All that you have to do at this point is keep talking to her and not only will you keep learning more about her, but she will also keep learning more about you.
Each of you will become increasingly more comfortable around each other so each conversation will become that much easier. Even with all that you have learned about her though, if you find that it is still difficult to ask her out on a date, then ask her out with some friends.That way each of you can get comfortable being out with one another.
Interesting Questions No matter how much time you to take to ease into a conversation, and regardless of how much you learn about her, you may still find that you can't think of anything to say either when you walk up to her, or even mid sentence. While you do need to come up with your own questions for each particular situation, these random questions can help get your tongue untied so that you can get back to talking. - “So did you do anything interesting this weekend?”
- “What kind of music are you into?”
- “Did you see -name of new movie-?What kind of movies are you into?”
- “What kind of things do you do for fun?”
- “Did you hear about -any current event-?”
- “Did you watch -TV series- last night?
- “What shows do you normally watch?”
Again, you can't just fire off a series of questions, but if you find that you can't think of anything to say, then use any one of these (appropriately). That way you can get her talking again and hopefully she will give you something that you can build on(and respond to). Of course, in order to do that, you will have to make sure to listen to what she is saying, and don't be overly concerned with what you are going to say next. | | Put It All Together To Get Her on a Date
The only thing to keep in mind is that while you may be interested in her, you are still just getting to know another person. You do want to ask her questions to get her talking and to get to know her, but stay away from touchy subjects. Try to stay away from deep personal matters and anything that she doesn't seem to want to talk about (she doesn't like talking about the hair in her ears either). Also, avoid talking about religion or politics, most people have strong feelings about those subjects and they are best left until you know her better. Remember that you have plenty of time to get to know her, so relax. Also, once you do say something to her, you can always talk to her again tomorrow, so don't freak yourself out worrying about everything you are going to say (just say hello). You can also always use the help of friends too, not only to talk to her, but also to setup times to get her out. | As a general rule, don't talk to her about religion or politics.
Most people have strong feelings about these subjects and they are best left until you know her better. |
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