After dressing to impress and making sure I'm feeling confident (its shows!), I tend to talk about general topics. I like to keep things light hearted and avoid any negative comments, from ones about ex-boyfriends to even how much I hate football. By keeping things fun and flirty and being more interested in them (but not giving third degree) more likely to get that second date as you seem to be up for a good time without being too serious. Oh not too much drink and definitely no sex!