How can you tell if a stripper actually likes you?

[Everysunday]

I went to the strip club with my friends and they bought me a lap dance with the girl who I choose, then I was unable to go out with them for like 6 months to this one club because of my soccer. Then I go back to this club and take a dance with this girl and she remembers me from 6 months ago and tell me to take her for more songs, so I did next time I was in, and when she gives me my dances its more of talking and getting to know each other and she like does stuff to me like the way she rubs against me and touches me like intending she wants to kiss me and like hugs and all that, and when I am there she always try to get my attention when she is on stage and walking around to floor.

I'm wondering if she likes me or just plays that way to keep me coming back to her?

[Dela1111]

An easy way to tell is if you're still paying her for her time, she doesn't like you. If she's giving you it for free or giving you her phone number then she does like you. Don't fall for this stripper game, they make a living by making guys think that they like them.

[Everysunday]

The thing is the type of strip it is that she can't give free dances because it is a well oragnized club and the owners get a cut of what the girls make, she does extend our time as best as she can do though, the reason I don't have the number is because I don't want to ask and feel like an idiot if she says no

[Dela1111]

Listen bro, firstly you need to stop trying to justify her actions, that's the worst thing you can do, because you'll just fool yourself into thinking she wants you.

I'm not saying ur not a good guy, all I'm saying is that if she hasn't GIVEN you her number then she's not interested. You need to stop wasting your money at strip clubs and go meet a descent girl.

[Everysunday]

I agree with you, if she doesn't give me her number then there is no point in continously getting dances with her, lol and I'm wasting my money on drinks not her, I don't take dances a lot just had a few that why I was wondering if the behaviour from a stripper is normal

[boi818]

If she likes you, she'll just want to talk to you or take things outside of the club. Whatever it is, it shouldn't lead to you having to tip or pay her for anything.

[Everysunday]

We spend the majority of out dance time talking to each other

[boi818]

She does that with every guy though..that's part of her job.

[Stevepro68]

My girlfriend is a stripper. We met at the club I was a peripheral customer. Not a regular. The ones who acted like they liked me, I knew that it was their craft. To make guys feel special. And yes its for money. So how do you tell. This is the only truth. If they like you they ask you out. Or to go somewhere, not to take them for an expensive meal. Not to sell you more lap dances.
My girl asked me out. After a long time of friendly chats at the club, and a few lap dances. I was never one of her regulars.
She just flat out asked me out for Chinese.

She always thought I was handsome.
She noticed that I never bullshit, or try to make myself more rich or important.
She also said that when she talked to me I always looked her in the face. Not staring at her body.
I was there regularly but not every day. I was actually single! She had plenty married guys try to convince her otherwise.
I never ever said anything bad about the other girls. Never shared info about other dances I had with other strippers.
She just felt I was a really nice guy so she asked me out.
So did I know... Hell no. I thought she was into girls really. She was/is 20 years younger than me. Gorgeous. She gave no signs that I can see. She laughs at me now about this.
I knew her for 2 years before she asked me out. We maybe had a total of 6 lap dances.
1 year into our relationship. We are both pretty happy.
I would say 90%of the girls did with me what you are experiencing. If don't smell bad and are easy to talk to, spend money. They will be generous to a point. Chat for free with no dance. Look for you when your there. Regulars they like, are the great white Buffalo of the stripper world. Like... Yes
Want to keep you around? Yes.
Date you... Sorry buddy no.
If they like you that way you won't have to guess or figure it out. They tell you. If they aren't telling you that they want to date you... They don't. No matter how nice they act in the club.

[tzdc21]

Dude, don't even. Do not generate feelings for a stripper. It'll do you more harm than good in the future. Besides, I think that was more for her job than her actually liking you.