So basically I've asked friends, family everyone what they think a man should and should not do on a date. So lets get stuck into it!!
Dont be late! When it comes to women waiting for a guy to show up for a date, we're not overly good at it, lets just say the term "fashionably late" accounts for nothing on a first date!
Do not be a slob when it comes to eating. We dont exactly want to see how many times you chew your food before washing it down with your drink. If we're out and it doesn't even matter where try to be classy with the digestion of your food.
Make sure you are dressed for the occassion. If you're going to a nice restaurant then wear the right attire for it, the same goes for if you're going to a skatepark or a basketball game where the proper stuff, for instance if you're going to a really nice restaurant the girl is obviousy going to wear a dress of some sort, your job is to match her and wear a suit! Also if a guy smells good he is immediately made that much more attractive!!
Be a gentleman! It doesn't matter where you are every woman wants to be complimented and acknowledged, we want the whole stereotypical gentleman who we can go out with and their eyes are on us and us only, no sneaky looks at the girl across the room in the skimpy dress! We want the guy who will pull our seats out for us, who will open doors for you and who will brush the hair out of our faces. The guy who will make eye contact with you and who will just listen to what you have to say with such intensity that you know he actually wants to know what you have to say. We want one of them.
We DO NOT want to know about your past relationships or how good you are in bed, so kindly keep those things to yourself. Thats fairly straight up.
Give us something to talk about. If a guy is constantly agreeing with what we are saying it gets more then a little aggitating we want somebody who will challenge us and make us think about something and why we come to a certain conclusion, we can't do that if your agreeing with everything, we want a debate and by giving us that you show that you have brains which is actually really sexy if its not overboard.
Okay so next I personally am not a very big fan of drinkers, so if I'm on a date with a guy I can guarantee I wouldn't appreciate him getting drunk of his head, as I'm sure a lot of woman would agree that it is quite unattractive being on a date with a guy who in the ends up slurring his words and talking nonsense cause he's wasted, so DO NOT get drunk on a date.
Dont spend the night complimenting us because in the end it ends up being awkward and we do believe it or not get uncomfortable after like the 3rd compliment, a date can't revolve are two people talking about how "great" the other persons eyes are or how "stunning" someones face is! like Geez you might aswell turn around and just be like "I want to make out with your face" which by the way you should definitely not do!!
Okay next while us females do like talking we can't hold a conversation with ourselves, yes while asking a female about herself is a good thing and shows that your interested we'd like to know a bit about you aswell, like whats your favorite sport? Dream car? favorite actor? Do you believe dance is a sport? so on so forth we want to know about you!!
A massive no is phones... During a date keep the damned thing off, we dont want to hear your phone buzzing while we are eating or while we are having a conversation! We dont want to have to pause a conversation while you answer your phone! We DONT want to be in a restaurant and see the luminescent light casting all sorts of ungodly shadows along your face so turn it off!!
And seeing as I can't really think of anything else we'll wrap it up with this...
Who pays? While I said I wanted a gentleman, I personally have a strict "no one pays for me" rule!! However some women might like that thing, to decide which one you have Insist upon paying the bill, if they refuse and are quite stubborn on the matter and begin to get worked up about it, do not persist split it, because believe me if you pay for it by yourself or let them pay then carefully sneak their $30 bill into their mail box, they will lose it and could possibly be quite angry for their next date.
That's all I really have feel free to add things onto the list and to leave your opinions on whether this helped or not.
Oh Oh Oh and after the date dont sit in you car and watch her walk to the front of her house get out and walk her to her front door step, take her hand, thank her for the night and if you want to kiss her, do it!! aslong as its on the hand because that is some serious class!!