skin color is just skin color. There is only one race and that is the human race. And if you beleive in religion or science they both say we are ALL related. To judge one on their skin color makes no sense. WE all came from Africa , so we where all dark at sometime. LOL, the fact that we will and probably always judge eachother on skin color means we as human will never evolve as beings. But than again transracial is becomming a thing, so I don't know. STOP judging on skin color it doesn't make sense in anyway.
I don't get this when it comes to guys also. It makes no sense, and that part about dark skinned girl is painfully rampant. I even made a myTake to help some of these girls out with their self-esteem. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11514-dark-skinned-girls
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Yeah. Look at okcupid statistics. Most people prefer to date within their own race, except for black guys, even though black girls are mostly into black guys. According to the stats, black guys in general prefer Latina or Hispanic women. Black women get pretty shafted... :/
But. I don't really hear much about people talking about white guys and black chicks. I wasn't aware that was an issue. Pretty much everyone you talk to says they're fine with anyone dating anyone.
Also, the biggest dick in the world is white. You could pretty much use that both ways it can be said.
OP, maybe it's cause you're an antagonistic moron, that you're seeing things that aren't there and extrapolating society-wide based on one or two experiences? Maybe. Just maybe. But I'm sure you could never possibly consider that you are wrong. Despite being factually wrong about the largest dick in the world. And, exactly where are these hate crimes going on?
I use to be very selective but after growing up I've met beautiful women from every race. Therefore I know I'm not selective of race I'm just very peculiar with their overall looks. (Despite the fact that I usually get attracted to the less attractive girl in the room).
I only date white and East Asian girls. Or a mix between the two (Eurasian). I don't care about the rest. Whites and East Asians have established the most advanced civilizations known to man. Whites and East Asians are on average the most intelligent and educated.
By the way, I wouldn't date a girl who dated a non-white non-East Asian guy. It's about class, not race. Non-white non-East Asians are the bottom of the barrel, no matter what society they live in, no matter under what circumstances.
@valeriewen - from my study of Asian ethnicities, Far East Asians included Chinese, Japanese, Korean and Taiwanese while Thai, Vietnamese, Laotian, Cambodian, Malaysian, Philippines are considered South East Asians. (Neither a complete list). Not looking for argument. Just offering my input. I've lived in Japan and Philippines for some years. im extremely partial to Asian women and cultures. All of them. I'm not into racial squabbles as I'm steadily starting to discount the whole race thing. Anyway...
Taiwanese here, when the fuck has Thailand and shit been east Asian, they're way different I can tell you guys apart from us like a mile away. That's like calling an Italian Scandinavian =_=
You are so right! I think it has to do with perceptions of femininity and masculinity among races- black men are usually perceived as being more masculine than a white counterpart with a similar personality. You're totally allowed to have your type though. And what's the stigma against dating a black girl? bull
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For me personally, and I know how stupid this sounds... But anymore i roll my eyes when i seen a black guy with a white girl. And as someone that dates mostly women of different races, its a weird situation. Black men, in my experience find white women as conquests. i know there are some that are not like that, but im willing to bet that a majority are into conquests. I actually feel bad for black women, and this sounds dumb too, but white guys that date black girls get treated like shit too.
I have to agree. I have two black kids and both their fathers left me, they werent interested in love at all, just getting off and knocking me up. there's a saying, 'Once you go black you're a single mom' There is so much truth to that!
So what you're basically saying is that getting into a relationship with a black person means you get treated like shit? Because black are the only ones that do that huh? We get into relationships with white people just to treat them bad huh? Give me break. Smh.
I'm mostly white and I've had many relationships with black women and they were good. Actually I've seen it more the other way. It seems that here in the Southeast society can accept a women of color/white guy relationship a lot better than a man of color with a white woman. Why I don't know. The group that I've seen scream more about mixed relationships are the Jewish communities. Why I don't know. I have many Jewish friends, but when it comes to mixed relationships they are very prejudiced. As liberal as they are on many issues, this is so hypocritical. And I tell them about it.
I think interracial relationships are no different than same-race relationships. I mean, I've only dated white guys, but I've been having more of a preference for black guys in the past few years. I don't think it's anyone else's business who someone chooses to love, no matter what color their skin is.
I agree completely! There are still so many hateful and close minded people out there. I can speak from experience, my boyfriend is Hispanic and I feel like there has always been this "expectation" for me to date a white guy at least from my family. They've never come right out and said anything, but I can just TELL if that makes sense.
@StreetLevel Even if they did, it wouldn't matter to me. If I love someone it's for them as a person, not the color of their skin. It's a shame that people are still so close minded today though.
The world is a mix of people. Liars, bastards, bellends, cuties, honest ones, etc. You cannot have a perfect world.
Just ignore it. Personally I prefer to date within my race but I'm not adverse to dating outside it. My brothers wife isn't white - she's Madagascan.
Just go with it. People will hate you for something whether it's your skin, gender, nose size, dick size, tummy size, foot size or whatever. Do what makes you happy and screw the world
Fucking preach the shit out of this. Like most black men are ignorant and I have yet to date one that isn't. That's why I'm not that attracted to them. I too get shit for that from my family and I fucking hate it.
This white guy would love to meet an intelligent slender/fit black woman. The same qualities I look for in all women. I'm just not into "thick" regardless of color.
People should mind their own business on who other people choose to date.
It's perceived as unusual. Chris Rock has a standup joke on this. Black men like white women, but white women do not like black men. It's just a generalization but I think most people actually believe that.
Just ignore the haters and keep going for whoever you think is attractive. They're just jealous because they want you or they feel they couldn't get somebody of a different race.
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how can girls not spot men who just want to get in thair pants, try to understand peoples characters before you fall head over heels. If you meet this guy and he is so interested in taking you home or going to your place and getting in your face then stay away lol, some women are just so in need of attention they overlook this HAHA, yah there are players who are BLACK, BROWN, GREEN, WHITE, PURPLE, YELLOW who are trying to get with you just try to be more prudent when giving out your number.
I love white guys... I lover German men. I've had the most success dating German men. When it comes to physical attraction, I'm more physically and sexually attracted to hot east Asian guys like Yoshi Sudarso <3 <3 <3
There is definitely a double standard. Society is more accepting to BM/WW couples, than the other way around in the united States. In Europe, it's the other way of around. In Europe it mostly BW/WM that you see more often...
I've only ever dated outside of my race and culture, and I've had black men who just got through talking about how they dislike black females, or brag about how they love IR, turn around and question my dating choices when I mention that I prefer white men. I'll date ANYTHING, but I've had the most success with white men. My preference isn't superficial and is based off of looks the way other people's preferences are most of the time... I go based off of success and the general attitude of the men in that culture, and behavior patterns and mannerisms.
When it comes to marriage in the United States, between blacks and whites, white females and black men are more likely to marry, but divorce at higher rates. The other way around WM/BW have more successful marriages
I've had horrible things said to me about my dating choices, and these insults were usually from hypocritical men who also participate in IR. With black people, some how it's more acceptable for the men to date out, while the females are expected to only be attracted to and date black males. The females who do explore IR (myself) will be bombarded with negativity from black men who ALSO participate in and explore IR... There is definitely a double standard.
I read an article on this years ago, virgin like innocence/youth etc. But there's a huge stigma for darker women that is beyond an evolutionary bend and more towards discrimination.
Eventhough I don't find dark skinned girls very attractive. I have noticed that I am bizarrely attracted to dark skinned girls with really attractive figures.
This is just straight up not true. There are cultures that do idolise lighter skin, but not MOST cultures. In fact, a lot of people around the world don't care about it. Please, get your information before making silly generalisations.
In movies tho you rarely see a white female (main) character fall in love with a MOC, without it being the point of the entire movie. I don't know what I'm trying to say with this, it's just something I've noticed.
Don't go by what others think, go by how you feel, what makes you happy. Personally I can find a girl from any race attractive, really doesn't matter to me.
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skin color is just skin color. There is only one race and that is the human race. And if you beleive in religion or science they both say we are ALL related. To judge one on their skin color makes no sense. WE all came from Africa , so we where all dark at sometime. LOL, the fact that we will and probably always judge eachother on skin color means we as human will never evolve as beings. But than again transracial is becomming a thing, so I don't know. STOP judging on skin color it doesn't make sense in anyway.
I don't get this when it comes to guys also. It makes no sense, and that part about dark skinned girl is painfully rampant. I even made a myTake to help some of these girls out with their self-esteem.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11514-dark-skinned-girls
Yeah. Look at okcupid statistics. Most people prefer to date within their own race, except for black guys, even though black girls are mostly into black guys. According to the stats, black guys in general prefer Latina or Hispanic women. Black women get pretty shafted... :/
But. I don't really hear much about people talking about white guys and black chicks. I wasn't aware that was an issue. Pretty much everyone you talk to says they're fine with anyone dating anyone.
Also, the biggest dick in the world is white. You could pretty much use that both ways it can be said.
Biggest dick in the world is Latino.
Incorrect. www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...penis_n_5256803.html
2nd biggest dick in the world is brown. Why? We created sexual positions.
OP, maybe it's cause you're an antagonistic moron, that you're seeing things that aren't there and extrapolating society-wide based on one or two experiences? Maybe. Just maybe. But I'm sure you could never possibly consider that you are wrong. Despite being factually wrong about the largest dick in the world. And, exactly where are these hate crimes going on?
I use to be very selective but after growing up I've met beautiful women from every race. Therefore I know I'm not selective of race I'm just very peculiar with their overall looks. (Despite the fact that I usually get attracted to the less attractive girl in the room).
Key words "after growing up". Huge. More up votes for your overall comment. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
I only date white and East Asian girls. Or a mix between the two (Eurasian). I don't care about the rest.
Whites and East Asians have established the most advanced civilizations known to man. Whites and East Asians are on average the most intelligent and educated.
By the way, I wouldn't date a girl who dated a non-white non-East Asian guy. It's about class, not race. Non-white non-East Asians are the bottom of the barrel, no matter what society they live in, no matter under what circumstances.
Yes, just non-Jewish Germans and Japanese.
Where have I heard that before...
I don't know whether to upvote or downvote this.
Upvote because I'm East Asian, downvote because, well, this is too racist a statement.
@zagor
I really don't know where you could have heard that before. So Jews can't be white? And East Asians are not just Japanese, you know.
@valeriewen
It's a compliment, of course. You're very pretty, by the way. :)
Oh wow. I leaving. can't stand that much thickheadedness.
HookingSwan
Hm? What are you talking about?
@BlondeBlueEyes84 thanks
@zagor for the record, East Asians also include Koreans, Chinese, Philippinos, Thais and Malaysians (like myself!)
@valeriewen - from my study of Asian ethnicities, Far East Asians included Chinese, Japanese, Korean and Taiwanese while Thai, Vietnamese, Laotian, Cambodian, Malaysian, Philippines are considered South East Asians. (Neither a complete list). Not looking for argument. Just offering my input. I've lived in Japan and Philippines for some years. im extremely partial to Asian women and cultures. All of them. I'm not into racial squabbles as I'm steadily starting to discount the whole race thing. Anyway...
Taiwanese here, when the fuck has Thailand and shit been east Asian, they're way different I can tell you guys apart from us like a mile away.
That's like calling an Italian Scandinavian =_=
You are so right! I think it has to do with perceptions of femininity and masculinity among races- black men are usually perceived as being more masculine than a white counterpart with a similar personality. You're totally allowed to have your type though. And what's the stigma against dating a black girl? bull
For me personally, and I know how stupid this sounds... But anymore i roll my eyes when i seen a black guy with a white girl. And as someone that dates mostly women of different races, its a weird situation. Black men, in my experience find white women as conquests. i know there are some that are not like that, but im willing to bet that a majority are into conquests. I actually feel bad for black women, and this sounds dumb too, but white guys that date black girls get treated like shit too.
I have to agree. I have two black kids and both their fathers left me, they werent interested in love at all, just getting off and knocking me up. there's a saying, 'Once you go black you're a single mom' There is so much truth to that!
So what you're basically saying is that getting into a relationship with a black person means you get treated like shit? Because black are the only ones that do that huh? We get into relationships with white people just to treat them bad huh? Give me break. Smh.
@sunsetgoddess9
Not all of us black dudes are like that! Sorry u dealt with some bad apples. :-/
If anyone believes this stupidity, then they shouldn't be having children.
I'm mostly white and I've had many relationships with black women
and they were good. Actually I've seen it more the other way. It seems
that here in the Southeast society can accept a women of color/white guy relationship a lot better than a man of color with a white woman. Why I don't
know. The group that I've seen scream more about mixed relationships are
the Jewish communities. Why I don't know. I have many Jewish friends, but when
it comes to mixed relationships they are very prejudiced. As liberal as they are on
many issues, this is so hypocritical. And I tell them about it.
I think interracial relationships are no different than same-race relationships. I mean, I've only dated white guys, but I've been having more of a preference for black guys in the past few years. I don't think it's anyone else's business who someone chooses to love, no matter what color their skin is.
Its a shame that in 2015 this is a topic for discussion.
DATE WHO YOU LIKE AND EVERYONE ELSE MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!
Haha MHO for this My Take. It is. Shame that there isn't that option here.
*applauds profusely*
I agree completely! There are still so many hateful and close minded people out there. I can speak from experience, my boyfriend is Hispanic and I feel like there has always been this "expectation" for me to date a white guy at least from my family. They've never come right out and said anything, but I can just TELL if that makes sense.
Date a black guy, I'm 100% sure they will come right out and say something.
@StreetLevel Even if they did, it wouldn't matter to me. If I love someone it's for them as a person, not the color of their skin. It's a shame that people are still so close minded today though.
At least you didn't or don't continue the cycle.
The world is a mix of people. Liars, bastards, bellends, cuties, honest ones, etc. You cannot have a perfect world.
Just ignore it. Personally I prefer to date within my race but I'm not adverse to dating outside it. My brothers wife isn't white - she's Madagascan.
Just go with it. People will hate you for something whether it's your skin, gender, nose size, dick size, tummy size, foot size or whatever. Do what makes you happy and screw the world
Fucking preach the shit out of this. Like most black men are ignorant and I have yet to date one that isn't. That's why I'm not that attracted to them. I too get shit for that from my family and I fucking hate it.
Ohh yes like remember that one guy who was like black girls are rachet I was like looking at him with a wtf look
This white guy would love to meet an intelligent slender/fit black woman. The same qualities I look for in all women. I'm just not into "thick" regardless of color.
People should mind their own business on who other people choose to date.
Wish i could up vote this a few times. Especially the last sentence. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
It's perceived as unusual. Chris Rock has a standup joke on this. Black men like white women, but white women do not like black men. It's just a generalization but I think most people actually believe that.
Just ignore the haters and keep going for whoever you think is attractive. They're just jealous because they want you or they feel they couldn't get somebody of a different race.
how can girls not spot men who just want to get in thair pants, try to understand peoples characters before you fall head over heels. If you meet this guy and he is so interested in taking you home or going to your place and getting in your face then stay away lol, some women are just so in need of attention they overlook this HAHA, yah there are players who are BLACK, BROWN, GREEN, WHITE, PURPLE, YELLOW who are trying to get with you just try to be more prudent when giving out your number.
I love white guys... I lover German men. I've had the most success dating German men. When it comes to physical attraction, I'm more physically and sexually attracted to hot east Asian guys like Yoshi Sudarso <3 <3 <3
There is definitely a double standard. Society is more accepting to BM/WW couples, than the other way around in the united States. In Europe, it's the other way of around. In Europe it mostly BW/WM that you see more often...
I've only ever dated outside of my race and culture, and I've had black men who just got through talking about how they dislike black females, or brag about how they love IR, turn around and question my dating choices when I mention that I prefer white men. I'll date ANYTHING, but I've had the most success with white men. My preference isn't superficial and is based off of looks the way other people's preferences are most of the time... I go based off of success and the general attitude of the men in that culture, and behavior patterns and mannerisms.
When it comes to marriage in the United States, between blacks and whites, white females and black men are more likely to marry, but divorce at higher rates. The other way around WM/BW have more successful marriages
I ignore the double standard when it comes to IR and acceptance of IR couples, and just focus on my man.
I've had horrible things said to me about my dating choices, and these insults were usually from hypocritical men who also participate in IR. With black people, some how it's more acceptable for the men to date out, while the females are expected to only be attracted to and date black males. The females who do explore IR (myself) will be bombarded with negativity from black men who ALSO participate in and explore IR... There is definitely a double standard.
excuse my typos... I wish they would let up go over and edit these post.
Usually men of most cultures and races prefer light or fair skinned women. It's evolutionary biology.
I read an article on this years ago, virgin like innocence/youth etc. But there's a huge stigma for darker women that is beyond an evolutionary bend and more towards discrimination.
Eventhough I don't find dark skinned girls very attractive. I have noticed that I am bizarrely attracted to dark skinned girls with really attractive figures.
Or you know, just Western brain-washing. Not true for most men but sure whatever.
This is just straight up not true. There are cultures that do idolise lighter skin, but not MOST cultures. In fact, a lot of people around the world don't care about it. Please, get your information before making silly generalisations.
Do a little Google search ablution physical attraction and read the Wikipedia article.
In movies tho you rarely see a white female (main) character fall in love with a MOC, without it being the point of the entire movie.
I don't know what I'm trying to say with this, it's just something I've noticed.
Don't go by what others think, go by how you feel, what makes you happy. Personally I can find a girl from any race attractive, really doesn't matter to me.