“Does He Like Me” seems to be holding the fort in being one of the most popular questions, still. So I thought I add all the little things a guy would do, the subtle hints he shows and the silliness he displays if he likes a girl.
If you answer any of the questions with Yes, your guy in question likes you whether he is a friend, a crush, a classmate, or a total stranger. The more Yes’s you have, the more certain you can be that he likes you.
Does he try to make you laugh in any way such as telling jokes, being witty, being silly or even tickling you?
Does he attempt to touch you like picking a hair string on your shirt, accidentally brushing his arm against your arm, tickling you, leaning on you, wrestling you, playing with your hair, poking you, tapping you, grabbing your arm, offering you a shoulder rub or even shoving you around and punching you (friendly of course)?
Does he often smile at you, laugh at your jokes even if they are silly?
Does he smell and look good around you, with his hair made (even if it is messy, it is on purpose)?
Does he sometimes act strange or silly to get your attention?
Does he shoot a rubber band or throw a paper wad at you?
Does he not want to be seen with you, so people including his friends won’t think he likes you?
Does he sometimes feel weird around you since someone asked him if he likes you?
Does he attempt to randomly start a conversation with you using conversation starters like “What’s up”, “Hey” or “So,…”?
Does he get jealous of you if he sees you talking to or hanging out with a guy friend?
Does he offer you help with homework, carrying your things, or any other important or just random tasks?
Does he call you “Cutie”, “Sweetie” or with a nick name?
Does he often find ways to be near you, around you, to spend time with you, to talk to you about anything or to hang out with you like walking with you even though he has to be somewhere else?
Does he share common hobbies and interest with you and talk about them too, like his favorite movies, books, or sports?
Does he blush or smile when he sees you or when a friend mentions your name in your absence?
Does he look at you from a distance when you are looking away and then shyly looks down or away when you catch him looking at you?
Does he have your phone number, and does he call you or text you regularly or send you emails and IMs?
Does he get things for you or buy you stuff?
Does he flirt with you, tease you and even say something mean, too?
Does he shyly look at you or stare at you when he walks by you and maybe even smile or wink at you?
Does he look deep into your eyes when you talk to him and sometimes blushes?
Does he sometimes become shy and nervous around you but mostly act sweet, nice, gentle, flirty and playful towards you?
Does he ever rub his arm or fix his hair when he talks to you?
Does he act clueless and pretend he doesn’t know anything or cracks jokes and even try to change the conversation when his friends are talking to you?
Does he talk about you with his friends?
Does he look at you, then smile and then look away for no apparent reason?
Does he seem relaxed, listening to you, leaning toward you, touching you on the arm or shoulder when you talk to him?
Does he seem to act normally when in a group of people, but seem kind of nervous, shy and quiet when he is alone with you?
Does he try to impress you by dressing well, and presenting himself with his best behavior?
Do his friends seem to be nicer to you and talk to you more often than usual?
Do his friends ask you if you like him?
And last but not least, do you or any of your friends think he likes you?
How did you do, and how many Yes’s did you have? I am sure you did well. Keep in mind that some guys will like you, while some others will like you even more. But the more important thing is to see if he likes you for who you are and not try to change you.
And you should not try to change him, either. Even more, you shouldn’t change your ways for him. Otherwise, what is the point? He should go find someone else if that’s what he wants and trust me there are enough people for each one of us on earth that you will find someone who likes you as much as you like him.