I can not count how many times I have heard some guy say a bad guy is the chiseled ab guy who treats women like shit.
Let's clear up some things before we get started. This is not a nice guy bashing mytake. A good guy in this Mytake by definition means: a guy who treats a girl well, may considered the one, relationship material.
Also some of these apply to different circumstances and may be seen as generalizations; I'm aware that this does not apply to all men.
Below are my opinions of what I think are some stereotypes and misconceptions about what the good guy is like or the guy who treats you right is like.
1. He is chubby or overweight
A good guy does not have to be overweight in order to appreciate and respect a woman.
2. He is unattractive
A guy who respects a woman does not have to be unattractive to you in order for him to respect her and treat her right
3. He is passionate in bed
Just because he's not selfish in bed doesn't mean he is a good guy or he cares about you, some men are just good at sex and do that. Doesn't mean he's serious about you.
4. He texts you after the first time you have sex
Ok maybe he just wants to talk to you doesn't mean he's boyfriend material. He may do that to all the girls he fucks
5. He buys you things like flowers and jewelry.
Some men buy these things but it does not always mean that his intention is good buying things like that may mean nothing to him.