For those of you who have been Rejected...
You know it's not a good feeling.
Even more so in those who already struggle with low-self esteem and insecurity.
You take it VERY ..Personal..No matter the situation. It's just your fault for whatever reason. While there is always room for improvement. And it's possible you may have did something obviously not good.
Your mind gets filled with "if's.. and
"If I looked like this" , and "if I didn't have that", or" if I had more of that"..
"I shouldn't have done that".." I should have said that"..
You mentally think of a Rewind and/or Delete Button.
You start to pick your self apart peice by peice..
Failure ..It's a hard pill to swallow.. especially if you felt like you gave it your all.
After all the Heartache.. The Tears..
The feelings of ...
Lack, not good enough, why,how,unworthiness, failure, self-hate,and inferiority
There is "BEAUTY"...
I'll say it again there is "BEAUTY" in rejection.
There is always something we will learn. About Ourselfs, and /or Life.. Look closely and listen louder. Some of us see the lessons early others late. But there is Always one.
I asked the "Higher Power" and he showed me...
I had been looking for it for most of my adult life.
It took someone not being attracted to me and NOT wanting me in their life. For me to see why I act the way I do. I would have never known what my problem was. While the rejection left it's bruises and memories.
It has left an even bigger Beautiful Lesson....
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