Seems like you have a lot of trust issues. Also some of them don't logically follow. The best example being that smoking leads to cheating. I smoke and have never cheated, and the partners who have cheated on me didn't smoke before or after.
He isn't saying just one of these makes a girl bad. He's saying if a woman has more than one - or possibly all - of these traits, then that's a strong indicator.
@ObscuredBeyond I understand but I disagree with most of them. First, you may not like smokers or want to date or kiss one or whatever, but to say it's a red flag because it means she'll fuck other guys without hesitation is beyond a stretch.
Second, I don't know anyone who doesn't lock their phone.
Third, I'm not particularly fond of girls with a lot of guy friends either, but that's more my insecurity than there legitimately being something wrong with the girl. In many if not most cases, that really doesn't mean anything.
Fourth, most girls are flaky in the beginning. You can't expect her to devote all her attention to you up front. If it's a year in and she's blowing you off, yeah, that's a bad sign. But it doesn't *necessarily* mean that it's because there's another guy. And to make a definitive conclusion like that shows a lot of insecurity.
@ObscuredBeyond Fifth, numbers 5 and 6, which are basically the same thing - a lot of girls create or indulge in drama. A lot of guys too. It also shows a lot of insecurity to jump from there to "she'd bone another guy to create drama." Yeah, there are people like that, but not enough that it's a fair conclusion at all.
His first two points are somewhat valid, especially the party girl thing. I wouldn't necessarily feel too comfortable with my girl going out and partying all the time without me. And daddy issues can fuck someone up in the head. But that's a total score of 2 out of 8 for this guy. Not impressed.
One of my exes tried to paint me as a stalker, claiming I was disrupting her study time at school, on days and hours when my paystubs proved that I was actually at work toiling away so I could afford to take her somewhere nice. I guess that falls under "likes to create drama." She also always had an excuse to keep me from meeting her parents, but didn't hesitate to make up stories about me to my mom. Turns out, she was just using me for a video game. I now vet girls much more carefully before I let them get that close to me. Sick of dealing with trash.
@ObscuredBeyond Well, there certainly are crazy girls out there. And most girls will admit that girls, even themselves, are crazy. And some are crazier than others. I'm not denying that. But I hope you can understand that your experience was rare.
- Meijer stores. Women with zero class work there. - Rehab organizations. They're more f*d up than they admit. - Community colleges. Just never works out. - Campus ministry / international outreach centers. Koreans matter, you don't. - Church-schools with dramatically-shrinking numbers. Usually a good reason. - Girls whose mothers admit to being (former) prostitutes. Just run away.
You are still young with lots of maturing to do still. Girls are people just like you, and if you can not respect that, it will crash and burn in your face one day... Just wait and see ;)
You exist in this world because your dad got divverted by one of those "girls". And those " diversions actually had the strength to push your bug head out of her small hole... Strength you could never have.
Yep. All true. Some of these Red Flags actually remind me of a lot of things. Τhe only thing that keeps me thinking is 'what if her dad is a bad role model?' true story here but I still can't see how a young person disrespect its parents so much.
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It's not wrong to be extra careful nowadays... you'll never know what kind of person you'll bump into.
That's true. Several of my exes are extremely lucky they haven't wound up on Investigation Discovery yet, the kind of stunts they pull. I'm lucky I haven't wound up on that network yet, given all the drama those girls liked to cause. I've dodged a lot of bullets.
My girl has lock on her phone but gave me the swipe code, its normal to have a lock on a phone. I find that the only real red flags are 1,2,45,6 with 6 being the real major red flag.
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Seems like you have a lot of trust issues. Also some of them don't logically follow. The best example being that smoking leads to cheating. I smoke and have never cheated, and the partners who have cheated on me didn't smoke before or after.
Yea clearly you don't need to smoke to kill some brain cells. The take owner is living proof of that!
I smoke You might be suprised on my other take. Lol party girls in my opinion is more logical then a box of kittens.
You smoke so you're a potential cheater too, right? Girls, stay away from him!
Oh wow... 😒 clearly you don't understand the concept of this mytake. Like I stated in most opinions the more signs the most likely.
I disagree with the phone lock. Now a days you can carry all sorts of personal info in your phone. You may be logged to your bank apps etc. Etc.
Heck, my whole business can be accessed through my phone. Inventory, bank account, merchandise tracking etc.
I can see where you're going with all these points except the last one. Really? a lock on the phone is a red flag?
All those types of women I'd avoid like the plague. You can't trust them.
But you could fuck em make sure you wear a jimmy hat
Happily married. The only woman I'll fuck is my wife.
seems like the can be said for promiscuous women maybe just reversing some of the issues you presenting
guys who...
-- has mommy or daddy issues
-- has lots of female friends
I thought I had issues, but I am an emotional rock compared to this dude.
He isn't saying just one of these makes a girl bad. He's saying if a woman has more than one - or possibly all - of these traits, then that's a strong indicator.
@ObscuredBeyond I understand but I disagree with most of them. First, you may not like smokers or want to date or kiss one or whatever, but to say it's a red flag because it means she'll fuck other guys without hesitation is beyond a stretch.
Second, I don't know anyone who doesn't lock their phone.
Third, I'm not particularly fond of girls with a lot of guy friends either, but that's more my insecurity than there legitimately being something wrong with the girl. In many if not most cases, that really doesn't mean anything.
Fourth, most girls are flaky in the beginning. You can't expect her to devote all her attention to you up front. If it's a year in and she's blowing you off, yeah, that's a bad sign. But it doesn't *necessarily* mean that it's because there's another guy. And to make a definitive conclusion like that shows a lot of insecurity.
@ObscuredBeyond Fifth, numbers 5 and 6, which are basically the same thing - a lot of girls create or indulge in drama. A lot of guys too. It also shows a lot of insecurity to jump from there to "she'd bone another guy to create drama." Yeah, there are people like that, but not enough that it's a fair conclusion at all.
His first two points are somewhat valid, especially the party girl thing. I wouldn't necessarily feel too comfortable with my girl going out and partying all the time without me. And daddy issues can fuck someone up in the head. But that's a total score of 2 out of 8 for this guy. Not impressed.
One of my exes tried to paint me as a stalker, claiming I was disrupting her study time at school, on days and hours when my paystubs proved that I was actually at work toiling away so I could afford to take her somewhere nice. I guess that falls under "likes to create drama." She also always had an excuse to keep me from meeting her parents, but didn't hesitate to make up stories about me to my mom. Turns out, she was just using me for a video game. I now vet girls much more carefully before I let them get that close to me. Sick of dealing with trash.
@ObscuredBeyond Well, there certainly are crazy girls out there. And most girls will admit that girls, even themselves, are crazy. And some are crazier than others. I'm not denying that. But I hope you can understand that your experience was rare.
Places to never go looking for a date:
- Meijer stores. Women with zero class work there.
- Rehab organizations. They're more f*d up than they admit.
- Community colleges. Just never works out.
- Campus ministry / international outreach centers. Koreans matter, you don't.
- Church-schools with dramatically-shrinking numbers. Usually a good reason.
- Girls whose mothers admit to being (former) prostitutes. Just run away.
Girls are nothing more than a physical diversion for me.
You are still young with lots of maturing to do still. Girls are people just like you, and if you can not respect that, it will crash and burn in your face one day... Just wait and see ;)
You exist in this world because your dad got divverted by one of those "girls". And those " diversions actually had the strength to push your bug head out of her small hole... Strength you could never have.
LOL your username. Love it.
@TheDevilInside Its magic.
Yeah dude. Women can do magic. So better respect US or you'll get turned into a frog
Yep. All true. Some of these Red Flags actually remind me of a lot of things. Τhe only thing that keeps me thinking is 'what if her dad is a bad role model?' true story here but I still can't see how a young person disrespect its parents so much.
It's not wrong to be extra careful nowadays... you'll never know what kind of person you'll bump into.
That's true. Several of my exes are extremely lucky they haven't wound up on Investigation Discovery yet, the kind of stunts they pull. I'm lucky I haven't wound up on that network yet, given all the drama those girls liked to cause. I've dodged a lot of bullets.
@ObscuredBeyond wise words. Thank you sir.
My girl has lock on her phone but gave me the swipe code, its normal to have a lock on a phone. I find that the only real red flags are 1,2,45,6 with 6 being the real major red flag.
I agree, dated a girl who had 1, 2, 4, 5, 6 and 7, turned out she cheated with another guy, big mistake on my part
Awwe! That's tarrable! I'm sry that happened to you! 💔
I don't have any of that except for the last, and I won't ever say my #.
Oh please...
Red Flags Of Dating Pt. 2 Womanizing Men Coming soon!!!
Of course the guys would give this a thumbs down lol
Great take. I have known and used these signs before and oh boy I dodged a LOT of bullets.
You realize that this list covers almost all women right
This needs a part 2. lol
Damn... My ex was all of those...
So was my recent one.
I'm sorry to hear that. At least now we know what to look for :)
Wow, that atrocious spelling and grammar though.
3 and 8 are ridiculous
I will watch out for all the listed!