I often wonder why some people who claim not to care about race like to point out all the time that they have a racial preference for one race or a certain race all the time. Some men and women get really agressive and defensive for no reason if faced with a person who is attracted to them who is outside of their racial preference. I could never understand the hostility, you are not entitled to date a person just because they fall within you racial preference category, it is called life get over it.
The way I see it, no one is forcing you to date that person, so there really is no need to be hostile towards them just because they are not the race you want to date, you have freedom of choice, its not ok to bash them and talk down on someone and say that the other race is superior just because you are mad that the race you want, has not shared mutual attraction with you. It is not ok to take out your frustrations on the race you do not want because you can not get what you want from dating.
And if someone does not want to date me because I am not the race they want, I am not going to waste my time trying to convince them to change their mind when there are plenty of attractive gentlemen (not to toot my own horn) that are willing to date me and respect.
Personally, I do not have a racial preference but at the same time I do not jump into relationships with anyone and I am even selective about who I date. I love myself and I have no problem with being single but I am open to a relationship with the right man not just any man.
In conclusion, no one is obligated to date you just because you decide that you have a racial preference, there is no world switch that flips on automatically just because you decide you want that race.