10 Reasons To Date An Older Woman

[LordKolly]

I'm a 25 year old guy and I've dated a number of older women, including those 50 and up. Interracial relationships were once taboo. Gay relationships were once taboo. Now, it's time for mixed-age relationships to become acceptable. To many guys, out there, I would advise to consider older women. And keep in mind, before any woman (older or not) is my partner, they are my friend first.

1. You can be yourself around her

A lot of young people care about conforming, fitting in and being cool. With older women, there's not as much pressure. Being yourself and who you are is even easier among people who don't care how trendy or fashionable you are.

2. She can be a mentor figure to you.

She is wise and has experienced a lot of things you haven't. Not only do you have a lover and a partner, but you also have someone who give you advice, from someone who has both a mature perspective and know remembers their life when they were at a similar point as you.

3. You both have unique strengths to offer each other.

A relationship with two extremely similar people would be boring. In a relationship with two people from completely different walks of life, completely different background, you each have something to provide each other. You don't just revel in what you have in common. You explore new territory.

4. She's direct and knows what she wants

She's been in relationships. She knows what she likes and what she doesn't like. She won't leave you because you couldn't provide something she didn't even know she wanted.

5. She has no time for games, drama and crap

There's no "OMG I'm so so totally interested" and then next week she ghosts on you and doesn't return your calls. If you ask an older woman out, she will either say "Yes", "No" or "Let's take it one step at a time".

6. She's more experienced in bed

This is self-explanatory but it's good to have a partner who has 20+ years of experience in giving beejay's and all sorts of other things.

7. She learned from past relationship mistakes

This is a big one. A lot of older women have some failed past relationships that made them better at relationships in the future. Especially women who have had a divorce know their personal failings.

8. She accepts who she is

Younger women are self-conscious, but as they get older, they learn to own who they are. Oh, they're 15 lbs overweight? Who cares. They're a bit of an oddball? Who cares. They're settled into their life and they don't have to please anyone.

9. Lower risk of babies

The older a woman gets, the less likely you are to need a condom. Also, it's not in an older woman's interest to have more babies anyway, so you don't have to worry about being a premature father.

10. Love is love

Maybe this should have been #1. The most important thing in a relationship is personality, fun and sexiness. Sexiness is not just looks (even though I've dated some pretty attractive cougars). Sexiness is an attitude, and you can have sexiness at all sorts of ages. I swear to God. Even if you're with someone 30 years older than you, if your personalities connect, then you won't even notice the age difference when she's wrapped in your arms.

[Anonymous]

Reasons not too:

1. Depending on her age group she'll get clingy and try to rush you either in LTR/marriage with her.

2. She has emotional, mental baggage from past relationship and is very cynical about love and relationships.

3. She isn't as pretty anymore. Most likely is fat, and her boobs and ass are going south, sinking due to gravity.

4. She is stuck in her ways and won't change her behavoir.

5. She is less capable of peer bonding due to having a higher number of sexual partners than a younger girl (nothing is new to her and everything is just same old routine).

6. She is less fun and adventurous then younger girls.

7. Older women depending on age come with extra baggage like kids and ex husbands.

8. Unless you are older or at her age. The relationship if you actually want one most likely will never amount to anything serious and you'll just a fuckboy for her to use.

9. If you want children forming relationship with older women is a big no no.

[LordKolly]

1. Or, she might be at the point where she's done with entangling relationship and just wants to enjoy freedom and good sex.

2. I agree, it's possible. Depends on the person.

3. There's still lots of fit older women out there.

4. This is good in a way too. If you connect with her, she won't drift apart.

5. Not necessarily true. But it is true that she'll be less heartbroken than you if it doesn't work out.

6. Are you sure? Again, I'm not talking about just dating any older woman. I'm talking about dating one of the older women who still like to party and have fun. They're out there.

7. So long as the kids are away in college and she doesn't bother with the ex, I'm totally cool with it.

8. People always say "What are you both gonna do in 20 years"? Like most relationships last 20+ years to begin with?

9. Of course.

[Poppykate]

I agree with you! I know it is a trend to date older women at the moment, but part of me wonders if men don't do it largely because they need a mother figure in their life!.

[DivaPrincess]

Ok so as a 43 year old I find some of these really off. First, I happen to be a virgin so a young guy will be sorely disappointed about the "experienced" part. Which by the way is the most awful thing to mention when seeking an older woman. Many of us will turn you down if you are looking for sex just because we are older and experienced.

Also, babies are definitely an issue with an older woman. Unless she is post menopausal you WILL get her pregnant. So please stop with that. You still need to use a condom to prevent STDs.

I surely hope you educate yourself further on this subject because as an older woman a quarter of your statements were not researched and as a result a MAJOR turn off.

Good day.

[ManOnFire]

@DivaPrincess Actually? A lot of older women will definitely be in it for the sex. "Cougar" culture is very real and frequent, and a lot of older women are wanting younger men, just for the sex. More than the guy wants her for the sex really.

[godfatherfan]

having been forced back to dating after 25 years with my ex wife, I can tell you that women in their 40's are ferociously after sex. Everyone of the women I had sex with brought up sex first, and had no qualms about it. Which, of course, is refreshing. they don't have the idiotic hangups that women in their early 20's and younger have.

[Shorty1991]

@godfatherfan Again we seem to be taking the subject of "only in it for the sex" and putting it down to an age thing. There are lots of people of all age groups from 16 + , that are not looking for anything serious. If that's what people want, then there is no shame in that.
As a 24 year old woman, I'm past caring about body hang up's. I've accepted my body the way it is. If I was to strip off in my bedroom in front of a guy and he doesn't like what he see's, then he would have to lump it. I would just say "well if your going to be that shallow, you know where the door is."
If I wanted to change my body I would do it for myself.

[DivaPrincess]

@ManOnFire i am an older woman and I am telling you it is not true for me. Did you read anything I wrote?

[ManOnFire]

@DivaPrincess I did. "Many of us will turn you down if you are looking for sex just because we are older and experienced." Is what you said, speaking for other women, when the statement is very false. You might turn that down, but there are many others who don't.

[DivaPrincess]

@ManOnFire i am friends with older gals and when we go out we talk about it. Many of us meaning the older gals I hang with.

[BrunetteNYC]

@ManOnFire I might be becoming one of those women lol I have been dating guys near my age and older lately and sexually it's lame and so boring. We hear all this BS about older women losing their sex drive, menopause blah blah blah when it looks like guys in their 40's aren't all that able to please women sexually.

[ManOnFire]

@BrunetteNYC I've heard that said too. It's not uncommon for older women to desire younger men sexually, especially for his "stamina." But DivaPrincess here would rather pretend that doesn't exist.

[BangBadBxtches]

We've found it boys, THE 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN!!!

[DivaPrincess]

@BangBadBxtches 43

[Shorty1991]

I have no qualms on age gaps. As they say age is only a number. If you truly love and care about that person age shouldn't matter. But it sounds like you are dating older women for all of the wrong reasons. "less likely to have babies" do you think that all women have dried up by the time they reach 50? Lol 😂. I've heard of women in their 50's having babies. For all you know she could have been a party animal when she was younger, she might have mellowed down a bit and wants to settle down and have a family. You don't know who she's been with either. She doesn't know who you've been with. So condoms or any other kind of protection against STD's should be a must.

I think, your like most of us and have had no luck dating women closer to your own age group. Not all younger women will mess you around, or are indecisive. There are decent young women out there. You just haven't met them yet. Plenty of us know exactly what we want.
Also, experience doesn't always down to age. . . Virgin or not, if you are knowledgeable on oral sex then it's not rocket science. If not then you don't always have to have experience behind you. You learn as you go along.
If I was an older woman reading this post I would be mortified. . . And most of all be inclinded to avoid guys that want to go without protection in order to bang us because we're less likely to have babies.

[Reflexy]

On average a 50 year old woman is less fertile than a 20-30 year old though. So the statement isn't wrong

[ManOnFire]

I think it's amazing to see all the females hating this post and disagreeing, yet if somebody wrote one on how great older guys are you girls would be cheering that on and not saying any of this.

[Shorty1991]

@Reflexy It is a known fact that both men and women become less fertile as they get older, but this guy thinks that there is no need use a condom because of this reason. She may be less fertile, but fertile enough to still conceive. It sounds like he's not taken STD's into consideration. Yes, you will get cougars that are up for it. You will also get cougars that are looking for serious relationships.

[Shorty1991]

@ManOnFire If I came to the decision that I did not want children and was in a relationship with an older guy. I would be with him because I genuinely love him. Not because he's less fertile. At that I would still use some form of protection, eg. The pill or still get him to put a hat on it.

[Reflexy]

@Shorty1991 i completely agree with you. I just missuunderstood your first opinion as i thought it was implying that fertility doesn't decrease with age.

[Shorty1991]

@Reflexy that's ok dude. Sorry if I got a little defensive. Lol.

[DivaPrincess]

@Reflexy he said older women but did not mention all of them being over 50. Do you know when women stop their periods? No cause each is different. I know 49 year old who got prego naturally. Just by fucking. So...

That still doesn't negate the fact that he could be getting HIV or STDs if he refuses to use a condom JUST to avoid pregnancy. What kind of advise is that? Pregnancy is not the only reason to use a condom.

[Shorty1991]

@DivaPrincess I agreed with you on this subject earlier on, pretty much echoed what you said. It's ok he replied to my comment and explained to me that it was a misunderstanding. As for some of the other guy's trying to put your point across is futile because they don't listen.

[Reflexy]

@DivaPrincess all im saying is he has a slight point even if it is a stupid reason to date an older person. Im not a fertility expert but its safe to say on average older women are less likely to get pregnant from unprotected sex than younger women. But yeah, I agree with the STD point fully.

[Shorty1991]

@Reflexy don't worry I get you. I wasn't implying that his point was completely wrong but we can all agree that it wasn't 100 per cent correct either.

[ManOnFire]

I absolutely agree with you, and it's why I prefer older women myself. Some younger women try to say that for us guys it's really just about sex with older women, but I think they mostly say that to make themselves feel better about the fact that we just don't want them.

Older women are much more mature, which is the appeal. I think there tends to be a difference in why we guys like older women and why younger women like older men. For us it's a true longing for someone who is like us and mature. For younger women it's really just a novelty for them, the idea of having an older man, and because they're taught that it's socially acceptable and that they're mature enough for such a relationship, when younger women are usually no more mature than guys their own age or are even less mature. So they live in a false pretense that they're fit for such relationships with men. But for us guys I really do think it's because older women are more real, and that's what makes us feel good and comfortable.

[babylips14]

You really hate younger women don't you?

[ManOnFire]

@babylips14 I don't hate them, I just don't really have any true love for them. They're physically attractive, sure. But I don't really have any real love or longing for one in a loving, romantic relationship. Very few younger women can touch me like that. But most repel me because of their attitudes and self-righteousness.

[babylips14]

You obviously do by saying that younger women are incapable of loving older men. Yet, it upsets you when people say the same thing towards guys who date older women... Do you see the hypocrisy and sexism there?

[ManOnFire]

@babylips14 I don't remember saying anything about younger women being incapable of loving older men, and whether or not they are wouldn't warrant any hate from me, so what you're saying isn't making any sense.

[babylips14]

"For younger women it's really just a novelty for them... So they live in a false pretense that they're fit for such relationships with men." Then you add,
"But for us guys I really do think it's because older women are more real, and that's what makes us feel good and comfortable."

You're pretty much implying that a young man's feelings are more genuine and stronger than those of a young woman. That itself is hypocritical and sexist because gender has nothing to do with how realistic someone's feeling are. You're just making generalizations about younger women.

[ManOnFire]

@babylips14 Oh yes, I stand by those statements, but they don't imply any hate towards younger women.

[babylips14]

They do imply very poor judgement though because that's not true whatsoever. In fact most guys tend to think with their penises than with their hearts lol.

[ManOnFire]

@babylips14 Yeah, you just proved your brilliant, wonderful maturity.

[babylips14]

What maturity does a sexist inhibit? Please tell me. I'm all ears :) If you were rejected by many younger women at some point in your life, don't take your anger out on every single younger woman.

[ManOnFire]

@babylips14 Spare me the tired misogyny drama. I guess I haven't had much opportunity to be rejected by younger women cuz I don't put a lot of focus on them. They don't hold a lot of value for me. One has to be particularly special for me to really care.

[babylips14]

I'm guessing that you probably pursue older women because you never received any attention from younger women in the first place. It's not misogyny drama. It's sexism whether you accept it or not.

[ManOnFire]

@babylips14 No, I've had plenty of younger women be into me, I just wasn't into them, and how I feel about them wouldn't be influenced by whether or not they've given me attention. You're looking for lame shots to throw, which are almost highschool level deductions - oh he's been rejected by young girls so that's why he likes old ladies. Or, he's a misogynist cuz he doesn't date younger women.

You can be injured by my words and call them sexist to the moon, but I don't really care.

[babylips14]

Those are psychological analyses as to why you hate younger women so much. Don't make this about me. I'm just responding to your comments.

"You're looking for lame shots to throw, which are almost highschool level deductions."---That's a very weak rebuttal.

[JuicyBrain]

@babylips14 "They do imply very poor judgement though because that's not true whatsoever. In fact most guys tend to think with their penises than with their hearts lol."

I just love how you chastise him for generalizing and then proceed to do it yourself in the very next sentence... Epic !

[JuicyBrain]

@babylips14 "It's sexism whether you accept it or not."

How the eff is it sexist to prefer older women?
Could you please add your definition of sexism to your explanation please?

[ManOnFire]

@JuicyBrain Yeah, she already made a fool of herself, that's why I just stopped talking.

[babylips14]

@JuicyBrain I was referring to other posts this OP has made about younger men vs younger women and how he is always putting down younger women in all of his posts. That right there is sexism. Perhaps you should have read the entire thread before replying.

And OP, the only foolish idiot here is you. That's probably why you can't even get any woman to date you and you don't even have a college degree.

[babylips14]

@JuicyBrain "Just love how you chastise him for generalizing and then proceed to do it yourself in the very next sentence... Epic."

Right? Isn't it ironic? Doesn't it bother you when people generalize? lol That's why you shouldn't generalize.

[babylips14]

@JuicyBrain "It's sexism whether you accept it or not."
How the eff is it sexist to prefer older women?
Could you please add your definition of sexism to your explanation please?"

I never said it was sexist to like older women. The thought of him believing that younger men's feelings are genuine and younger women's feelings aren't does show sexism. If you're going to back up your ignorant friend here, make sure you read and think carefully before you respond.

[Anonymous]

I love younger guys. They're more fun, easy going, spontaneous, and can party all night. As men and women get older, they become boring and set in their ways.
I still haven't reached the emotional maturity of people my age so younger guys are perfect for me. I was recently having fun with 27 year old and let me just say, it was awesome.

[LordKolly]

awesome! keep livin the dream

[Tiger288]

Come to me baby!

[heavensgift2girls]

Older women are a great choice if the guy isn't looking for anything long term. Older women however are horrible choices for long term relationships. They get really insecure about the age gap, and have huge issues respecting a younger guy as an equal. They have so much more emotional baggage, and lots more experience manipulating men into doing what they want. Older women can be fun, but they aren't realistic for any guy looking for a stable relationship, based on mutual respect.

[Anonymous]

Some of these are dumb, but as YOU get older you will understand why. I have always preferred older women and I would agree with your original statement that younger men and should try older women and older women should try younger men.

I currently am dating a 29yr old, a 34yr old, a 40, and a 43yr old and I can confirm that at least the titles to each number you've listed are right, the explanations may be off though.

The best part about an older woman is how well she knows herself, and how willing she is to be herself without reservations. Insecurity is the biggest turn off which will put me off even the hottest 25 year old.

The saddest part is that the women in their 50's wish they had the confidence they had in their 20's bodies... even though personally I love a woman's body in her 50's too...

[detlef]

Ben Franklin wrote a Take on this about 270 years ago: "In all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones."

www.swarthmore.edu/.../51-fra.html

[AdamThomas]

I've dated older women and in my experience they're not much different to younger women, most of the stuff about them being more confident/less insecure and less likely to play games and being more direct knowing what she wants and being better in bed isn't true.

[redeyemindtricks]

I mean, it doesn't take 20 years to learn how to blow a dick, yo.

Benefit of the doubt = #6 is a reference to greater sexual abandon in general, and you just chose a particularly bad way to word that part?
lol

[RationalMale]

Ummm... no.

Let's be real. The guys who date older women are those who struck out in dating, or maybe just aren't willing to put in any work, so they'll settle for someone drastically older than themselves, and far less attractive than the girls he probably wishes he was dating.

[cheesesteak7]

You're an editor? fucking awful lol

[RationalMale]

@cheesesteak7 its OK, I write the mytakes anonymously haha

[Yeahhbro]

This is sooo true. Let me tell you, i am 27 and i dating a woman who is 28. Obviously the difference is not that much, but oh boy have i made one of the best decisions in my life. Everythign is so smooth with her and efortless i love it!

[LordKolly]

1 year older? pffft what a casual. lol jk. awesome!

[Cookies_AndMilk]

How isn't any of this possible with a woman the same age as you? You just need to know where to look, personally I think huge gaps in relationships are really gross. It's almost like pedophilia.

[ManOnFire]

I think it's amazing to see all the females hating this post and disagreeing, yet if somebody wrote one on how great older guys are you girls would be cheering that on and not saying any of this.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@ManOnFire I saw that too, but that isn't the reason I feel this way. I see plenty of women talk about their relationships with older men and I tell them the same thing, I think it's gross and creepy. In my opinion any person dating someone significantly younger than them is a loser and a creep. My mother's husband is about 10 or more years older than she, I think that's nasty. My dad was single for a while and was talking about dating older women, my dad is in his 40's and was talking about women in their 50's and I still told him no.

[ManOnFire]

@Cookies_AndMilk There's nothing weird about him dating a woman that old, they're pretty much in the same group.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@ManOnFire I don't believe so. When she was a 10 year old child my dad wasn't even born yet. That's disgusting. I'm certain you wouldn't be okay with an 11 year old having romantic relations with a 1 year old. Yes they aren't children anymore, but the age gap remains the same. Why didn't you say anything about my mother? I said the same thing to her as I did to my dad.

[ManOnFire]

@Cookies_AndMilk Because I don't exactly think it's wrong for your mom either. When we're very young and those age gaps exist, that's one thing, but when we're adults it can become very different. If the gap is like 15 to 20 years, then I'm gonna have a problem, yeah.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@ManOnFire Well I suppose it's fine for us to agree to disagree, I just want you to understand my reasons for disagreeing. I'm certainly no hypocrite. If I take a stand for or against something it's going to apply to all cases, not just the ones convenient for myself. I also have no reason to be offended. I am in a relationship and I provide several of the points the writer of this take brought up minus the sexual ones. My boyfriend and I are going to get married and he's my first and only. I think that's far more valuable than having a slew of lovers and endless heart breaks.

[ManOnFire]

@Cookies_AndMilk And that's fine, I was just initially stating the irony in what I see from the female responders to this post. They're all getting so butthurt by it but if a girl wrote one vice versa they'd all be agreeing with her.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@ManOnFire Yes. I do believe they would but as the saying goes "haters gonna hate" lol. Just don't let them get under your skin as they shouldn't let you get under theirs. The two of you aren't going to date anyway, so who cares? :]

[JuicyBrain]

"It's almost like pedophilia"
Except that it's totally not...
You have two consenting adults here. How is it even remotely close to it?

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain The age gaps remain the same. An 11 year old boy would be sick in the head to touch a 1 year old girl. A thirty year old woman would be sick in the head to touch a 10 year old boy. I don't care if they're both adults, it's disgusting in my eyes. Any person who isn't with anyone within their age range is a loser and a creep in my eyes. Them being adults isn't going to change how disgusting I view it.

[JuicyBrain]

A 10yo with a 1yo is soooo not the same as a 40yo with a 30yo. Comparing them is dang weird. You can call it gross all you want, it doesn't make it so.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain And you can say it isn't gross all you want, it doesn't make it so either. There's absolutely nothing wrong with me viewing it this way, honestly the points the asker brought up can be achieved with someone the same age as you. People freak out in countries that marry their 15 year old daughters to some sleazy 30 year old. It's the same thing. Them being adults isn't going to change the age gap, and that is what solidifies my opinion.

[JuicyBrain]

A big part of the freaking out has to do with the fact that these girls don't have a choice and that they are underaged, NOT the age gap.
I am fine with you finding it gross, it's the reasonning that is weird. The fact that you only account for the age gap instead of the actual age. A 30yo is old enough to buy a house, marry, own a flourishing company, he can very well decide to be with a 40yo if he damn pleases. It's not the case for a 1yo.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain If you think my reasoning is weird then that's fine, because it's my reasoning. I don't need anyone else to accept it for it to be enough for me. Honestly I don't understand why you care so much. If I wouldn't be okay with it in any other circumstance then I'm not going to be okay with it when it comes to a circumstance like this. Do you like older women? Is that why you seem to have such a problem with me viewing it this way?

[JuicyBrain]

"Do you like older women? Is that why you seem to have such a problem with me viewing it this way"
Nice try. "I am fine with you finding it gross, it's the reasonning that is weird."
The lack of logic is what made me react.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain Okay, I wasn't attempting to insult you if that's what you took from it. You seemed to be upset as if you're someone who does date older women. I only asked you that because I was curious not because I was trying to take some cheap shot at you. If you want to call it a lack of logic that is more than fine with me, but I don't understand why you would even react. If you do date older women why care what I think? I'm in a relationship, you would be too old for me anyway and I would be young for you. We would never cross paths in the dating world so why react so strongly?

[JuicyBrain]

"not because I was trying to take some cheap shot at you."
Ok then. I am not especially into older women. I am into whatever women I am into. I don't care for age or height or who she slept with or what she does. If it clicks, it clicks. Why would I miss an opportunity with a great woman just because she is x years older or younger?

"If you do date older women why care what I think"
Believe me, I don't. Not because it's you, but because I ask nobody's permission about how I lead my life.

"you would be too old for me anyway and I would be young for you"
I might be too old for you, but I wouldn't consider you too young for me. Maybe you would, but I wouldn't say that before I gave it a shot. That is, if we clicked. I am flattered you thought of me that way, even if for an instant.

[JuicyBrain]

"so why react so strongly?"
I don't, really. It was a WTF? moment. I don't care that you find it gross, but the reason made no sense to me and I had to say something or it would have tormented me all day

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain Oh, well fair enough. Hopefully saying something has satisfied your curiosity. I really don't know what I am supposed to say further. You've asked for my reasoning and I've shared it with you. I'm not asking that you understand it, I'm not trying to persuade you. This is just how I feel. You feel differently, and that is perfectly fine, I'm genuinely confused about where I'm supposed to go from this point. I've said all that I can about it.

[JuicyBrain]

You don't have to. Consider this case closed. Move on you beautiful butterfly lol

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain Lol sounds good. I hope there wouldn't be any hard feelings after this?

[JuicyBrain]

I am not like that. I can disagree with people without holding a grudge...

[Cookies_AndMilk]

@JuicyBrain Okay great! Well in spite of our disagreements on this topic I have enjoyed talking with you. I'll see you around. :)

[windnsea]

MILF and COUGAR stop there. I'm 56 year old and I don't want to date many women my age, but if your 20 and want to date a 50 year old fine. I'm sure you'll enjoy your self til your mom sees who ur dating. But once again to each his own. So if a 20 year old women date a 50 year old guy what's that?

[LordKolly]

Its American Beauty.

[Anonymous]

I'm 21, I've been seeing this 33 year old, and she looks great! Her personality matches mine with crude humor and in bed holy shit, I feel like i'm getting electrocuted when she makes me come. We are both the athletic type, and she's about a foot shorter than me, she runs her nails up and down my body, licks my stomach, chest and neck and it feels amazing. We do some really kinky stuff, I eat ass by the way. I'm this close to trying that thing kanye did with amber. This close []. Fuck it.

[godfatherfan]

All you need is 1 reason...
they don't have the ridiculous hangups about sex that young women do.
none of this stupid...'gotta wait til I'm married..." and all the rose colored glasses expectations of sex.

[YourFutureEx]

These points are very good. Well done. I hope younger women were like that too :/

Personally I won't have that much age gap. 3-4 years to be the most.
& I'm not into milf too.

[YourFutureEx]

Not "hope", but "wish" :/

[Mustachekitteh]

Another good thing about dating older women. They will probably die when you do. Since men tend to die sooner than women.

[LordKolly]

30 year gap means you can smoke drink and snort coke daily hahaha jk

[ManOnFire]

@Mustachekitteh Women have actually been dying younger for a few decades now. Vital statistics just aren't really honest about it though.

[ShayanMortazavi1]

While that's accurate, women get dimensia much earlier than men. It goes both ways.

[AnnVdB]

@ShayanMortazavi1 all woman in my family survive up to old age and the men die earlier. And no dimensia :P

[ShayanMortazavi1]

@AnnVdB Well that's what statistics say

[BertMacklinFBI]

the last piece of research i read for life expectancy on male vs female was 7 years, in favor of females.

[HookingSwan]

Hmm

whatever floats your goat

I am not really convinced only with the points you made

But good for you

[Anonymous]

I'm currently dating someone who is 10 years older than me. She has an amazing young spirit with maturity and wisdom mixed in plus her TX southern personality just makes I t even more fun.

[sailorjupiter]

maybe i'm too childish in my actual age compared to anybody else, so I enjoy dating with younger guy too. surprisingly, it's more compatible for me ;)

[JetPack01]

F*cking disgusting.

Lets be real for a second. You're ugly and used up old women are the only ones that will go for you. That and you probably need lots of therapy. God knows what happened to you.

[LordKolly]

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[ArtDent]

I guess you went with the anonymous avatar because you don't want your inbox flooded with desperate hotties.