When I say nice guy, I'm not talking about guys who are a push over and are weak. I'm talking about confident nice guys. The nice guys who have confidence, refuse to be a dorrmat, and are not afraid to approach women. It seems that confident nice guys and assholes can both get women quite easily, but the difference is that women eventually tend to cheat on or leave the confident nice guy but stay with the idiot or asshole. So even if a nice guy is confident and not a doormat, women still tend to cheat on or leave the nice guy but stay faithful to the idiot or bad guy.
Sometimes when I'm bored I'll watch some of these talk shows where they do lie detector tests. Not always, but quite often, women would choose to stay with their cheating boyfriend after he was found out to be a cheat, but some women decided to leave their boyfriend after the lie detector revealed that he was telling the truth. This is common sense in reverse.
Some years ago there was a woman who was with a man who was a full time mechanic, had a nice house, and provided for his stepson. He thought after many years they were a strong, happy family. But out of the blue his girlfriend left him and moved in with her ex boyfriend who had just come out of prison after 10 years for bank robbery.
I could give many more examples like the one above, but the point I'm making is that even if a nice guy is confident and interesting, women tend to stay faithful to the bad men but eventually end up cheating on the good men. This is just something I have witnessed most of my life. It was exactly the same when I was at school. Most of the kind, sweet boys didn't have that many girls around them. It was usually the aggressive bullies or assholes that got most of the attention from girls.
Some months ago I decided to do an experiment. I went on a dating site and acted like a jerk. Instead of messaging women and saying "Hi gorgeous, fancy going on a date?" I would insult them instead. I would take the mickey out of them and act like an aggressive jerk. The results were quite shocking. There were some women who ignored me or told me to get lost, but there were a good number of women who had a conversation with me. In the past whenever I acted like a gentleman, about 99% of women would completely ignore me. Now that I acted like a jerk and was insulting them, I would say that about 40% were now having a conversation with me. Sadly I did not get to see how far things would have gone because my account got permanently banned. But it was a very interesting experiment.
It's the same with Ted Bundy. To my knowledge even after he had been convicted, he received lots of fan mail from women. A total psychopath who raped and murdered lots of women, yet many women still loved him. If Ted Bundy had been a loving, caring gentleman, chances are these women would never have been interested in him.