Now, before I start this list, I just want to clarify that looks ARE IMPORTANT. Actually VERY important, but they also aren't everything. You may initially like someone because they are attractive but there are so many things that contribute to someone liking you or you liking them, and here are some of them.
Yeah yeah, you've heard this one a thousand times before. But I couldn't really skip it. There will always be something incredibly attractive about someone who goes for what they want and are confident in themselves. And the most attractive way someone can be is initially nervous around you but a complete badass around everyone else.
2) Talent and Uniqueness
There's something unnappealing about getting to know someone and realizing they don't really care about being particularly good at anything. Whether you're an athlete, an artist, or a musician, being really good at something you're passionate about is so attractive and amazing. It makes you who you are, if you're never passionate about anything, then you aren't anything special.
Being a good person just for the sake of wanting to be a good person is absolutely beautiful. This should be obvious. Nobody pictures their true love to be a cold hearted person.
4) Relatability and Understanding
People want to be around someone who listens to them, understands them, and can relate. They want to be with someone that makes them feel good about themselves, and relating to their achievments or dissappointments makes them feel connected to you.
Say you're in a room with one really attractive guy/girl and one relatively attractive guy/girl and the really attractive one ignores you whilst the relatively attractive one comes up to you and starts to talk to you and get you laughing. Which one are you going to be more likely to go for?
So here are five things that are just as, if not more, important than looks.