The only time I used to split the bill was if I really wasn't interested and then I really used to push it, that way I could feel like it was just a hang out with a friend and not feel so awkward. When I am really into him I have paid first and if he is really interested then he makes the effort to take me out next to show that we are in the same place feeling wise. My Husband paid first and planned everything and I paid and planned everything the second time around to show him that I really liked him and wanted to get to know him too!
I guess that sounds fair. I believe it should be equal equal rights right? I probably should have went to younger people and asked them but it was weird it just so happened that I couldn't find any that day.
It worked out for us. Like I said splitting the bill makes it a lot more like just hanging with a friend; if this was talked about before hand I would assume that's what it was and ask to bring some people along. Don't get me wrong splitting the bill can work for a lot of people. I mean it takes a lot of the pressure of moving any faster then you want to off but that probably has to do with not really feeling like your even dating in the first place.
When I dated at 14 I always paid for myself but to be fair dating at 14 really is just hanging out and the dates were mostly in group settings-lol.
Hahaha lol no way I would get killed in that type of environment :P. I don't want to give away my location for privacy reasons but just somewhere in PA.
I usually do dinner, and a movie. Women pay for the movie, and I pay for the food
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Short and sweet answer, no unless he asks her out. Even then it seems fair to each pay their own, especially in the beginning. It's not 1920 anymore.
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No never again should we have to pay on the first date. They've whined and complained for equal rights now they get to have equal responsibility by paying for the first date.
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Good. Could have blurred the face better. He was the greatest contributor.
He was really nice to me he even bought me a drink I nicely declined and thanked him, but he insisted again so I gave in.
Yeah he seems a cool guy.
You are fucking awesome dude. I <3 your posts so much! And your vid. I hope you win.
Thanks I appreciate that. :)
Men are expected to pay for the prostitutes service.
Lol hahaaha
I can't speak for others but I was raised traditionally and properly so I find it right to pay.
What would you think if she dumped you after your first date you payed for?
Whoever asks pays in my opinion. My Husband paid and planned the first date and I paid and planned the second :D
Nice! :)
The only time I used to split the bill was if I really wasn't interested and then I really used to push it, that way I could feel like it was just a hang out with a friend and not feel so awkward. When I am really into him I have paid first and if he is really interested then he makes the effort to take me out next to show that we are in the same place feeling wise. My Husband paid first and planned everything and I paid and planned everything the second time around to show him that I really liked him and wanted to get to know him too!
I guess that sounds fair. I believe it should be equal equal rights right? I probably should have went to younger people and asked them but it was weird it just so happened that I couldn't find any that day.
It worked out for us.
Like I said splitting the bill makes it a lot more like just hanging with a friend; if this was talked about before hand I would assume that's what it was and ask to bring some people along. Don't get me wrong splitting the bill can work for a lot of people. I mean it takes a lot of the pressure of moving any faster then you want to off but that probably has to do with not really feeling like your even dating in the first place.
When I dated at 14 I always paid for myself but to be fair dating at 14 really is just hanging out and the dates were mostly in group settings-lol.
I might just do this on my campus lol how long do we have?
17th lol I was going to but that day my school was closed.
OP, where did you shoot this? Did you shoot this in Iraq or somewhere else?
Hahaha lol no way I would get killed in that type of environment :P. I don't want to give away my location for privacy reasons but just somewhere in PA.
PA? Pennsylvania?
Yes there
the only gagger who has some balls to do it so far XD.. awesome
Dayum boi, someone finally got the gall to do it. Good job!
Woo-hoo! First video for the contest... hope we see more! :)
why we need the rule? why not pay whoever wants to pay?
This is awesome! You got a fairly good variety of opinions there. Great job! :)
And women should always give sex on the first date?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71o3hq6iSPMWatch this and you might think of it differently.
by the way OP, you didn't censor the guys face.
This is a good video.
I usually do dinner, and a movie. Women pay for the movie, and I pay for the food
Short and sweet answer, no unless he asks her out. Even then it seems fair to each pay their own, especially in the beginning. It's not 1920 anymore.
No never again should we have to pay on the first date. They've whined and complained for equal rights now they get to have equal responsibility by paying for the first date.
Yeah I prefer the man to pay for the first date.
#Notafeminist
The one who asks the other for a date should at least offer to pay or both should chose to go Dutch.
Man should always pay. I miss chivalry.
Why can't you be normal and pay for yourself? I guess chivalry disappearing means you have to act like a bug girl now?
Lmfao I don't give a crap about your opinion. So get out of here.
And women should always cook, clean the house, stay at home, watch the children, etc.. Call me old fashioned.
@ForScience no problem for me!!!
Good job , dastxosh bra :]
You know Kurdish?
Lol im kurd
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