The only difference I am getting pointed out here is that most feel nerds are unattractive which is a stereotype. All of the personality traits seem to match up here , but I disagree I think even average looking is attractive.
"most feel nerds are unattractive which is a stereotype."
True.
I'd just point out one thing about your take:
"Don't let his intelligence and hesitation to try something new, make you assume he's a complete bore in the bed room. This nerdy guy has done all of his homework."
Theory doesn't always equate to experience. What this means is that just because a guy has read a few books about sex and giving pleasure to a woman, it doesn't mean that information is actual useful in practice or that he knows how to apply those principles effectively.
I know , but like I said I'm just speaking on experience. I had a nerdy guy ( was with him for ten years ) read a lot about sex watched a lot of lesbian porn, although I was only his second girl he gave me the best oral sex I could ever imagine. I had another nerdy guy and he went for hours during sex , didn't expect it because he was a huge book worm. I'm not speaking full of air , this is actually my solid experience I am giving.
Yeah, but only if the nerdy man is white or Latino does he have better chances with the women. Since I see South Asian, Middle Eastern, East Asian, and black nerds and they don't get the women as much as their white or Latino counterparts.
@Toad-1 I don't vibe with them as a potential romantic partner. I'm not their type, they're not mine. We just operate within different circles, and in different ways. My intellectual and social lives are separate, and I follow (and sometimes create) social norms within my peer group. I am what some would call an "alpha female." I appreciate nerds as friends and people to learn from, though. They're very special. Dating one would get on my nerves after a while, as I've found that many have no appreciation for certain forms of convention and discretion.
I think I'm a type of guy that Read and study and also doesn't go to bars or clubs and also my clothes are a bit Classic I'm not into swaggy and those types and also playing video games but that doesn't turn you into a nerd ;) Take it easy
Because all nerds are supposed to be ugly and out of shape? It's impossible for an attractive man to be shy and into his career , not going out and video games.
I study statistics, sociology, and psychology. Statistically women rate the top 20% of men as average looking, women prove on a regular basis to not understand the value of average. You are no different.
Tons of people study something, but that doesn't make them a expert at it. Where are you getting your statistics from? And what percentage of women has a whole are rating the top 20 percent of men as average? Was this done world wide? And by whom? You provide no information to back up your data just empty claims.
Here's a tip. Do your research. I've given you information, you check it. If you don't have the intelligence or motivation to prove me wrong, I don't have the energy to continue this conversation.
Again, trying to spin everything on me because he's just all talk with no facts. LOL! I don't have to stoop down and name call like you did to me, it's evident what type of person you are just by your responses. Good day! I will go about my business, you are dismissed!
Another guy who believes all nerds are just a exaggerated stereotype. They must all be awkward as hell, unattractive, and out of shape. This is really sad. This is like me posting a post listing what I love about blacks, but then people coming out of the wood works inferring that blacks must be loud, ghetto, and hideous. This is just as bad , it really is!
You realize these are nothing like nerd qualities. Most nerd are neckbeards who beat off to anime and complain online about pro wrestling or marvel movies
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hmm, I'm not so sure how much of this is true versus wishful thinking...
I'm only speaking on behalf of nerds I've encountered , so this is true according to my experience.
fair enough but what you consider a nerd might not be what the next man considers a nerd if you catch my drift.
The only difference I am getting pointed out here is that most feel nerds are unattractive which is a stereotype.
All of the personality traits seem to match up here , but I disagree I think even average looking is attractive.
"most feel nerds are unattractive which is a stereotype."
True.
I'd just point out one thing about your take:
"Don't let his intelligence and hesitation to try something new, make you assume he's a complete bore in the bed room. This nerdy guy has done all of his homework."
Theory doesn't always equate to experience. What this means is that just because a guy has read a few books about sex and giving pleasure to a woman, it doesn't mean that information is actual useful in practice or that he knows how to apply those principles effectively.
I know , but like I said I'm just speaking on experience. I had a nerdy guy ( was with him for ten years ) read a lot about sex watched a lot of lesbian porn, although I was only his second girl he gave me the best oral sex I could ever imagine. I had another nerdy guy and he went for hours during sex , didn't expect it because he was a huge book worm.
I'm not speaking full of air , this is actually my solid experience I am giving.
"this is actually my solid experience I am giving."
Fair dos.
There are much better topic out there ex - 'Anal Bleaching'.. But you pulled this topic pretty good..
Anal bleaching doesn't intrigue me at all perhaps you should write about it if it fascinates you.
😂 nope,.. I have no idea what it is
I wish people viewed me this way this basically describes me perfectly. Plus I've never had a girlfriend so yeah perfectly :-)
Yeah, but only if the nerdy man is white or Latino does he have better chances with the women. Since I see South Asian, Middle Eastern, East Asian, and black nerds and they don't get the women as much as their white or Latino counterparts.
Can't relate, but to each their own. Glad those guys are getting some lurve
So what don't you like about nerds?
@Toad-1 I don't vibe with them as a potential romantic partner. I'm not their type, they're not mine. We just operate within different circles, and in different ways. My intellectual and social lives are separate, and I follow (and sometimes create) social norms within my peer group. I am what some would call an "alpha female." I appreciate nerds as friends and people to learn from, though. They're very special. Dating one would get on my nerves after a while, as I've found that many have no appreciation for certain forms of convention and discretion.
i must say this mytake is accurate. i liked reading it.
I think I'm a type of guy that Read and study and also doesn't go to bars or clubs and also my clothes are a bit Classic I'm not into swaggy and those types and also playing video games but that doesn't turn you into a nerd ;) Take it easy
You don't like nerdy men, you like actors that play nerdy men; huge difference.
Because all nerds are supposed to be ugly and out of shape? It's impossible for an attractive man to be shy and into his career , not going out and video games.
As a woman that gets told I should model on a regular basis it's only fair that I like someone average and up looking.
You don't have any idea what average is.
Since you seem to know me better than I know myself , y don't u tell me what I consider average?
I don't need to know you personally to know the female perception of numbers and value is severely skewed from reality.
Mind you it's not all women, just most.
You're a huge stereotyper aren't you? I think the problem lies within yourself, you think all women are a certain way.
I study statistics, sociology, and psychology. Statistically women rate the top 20% of men as average looking, women prove on a regular basis to not understand the value of average. You are no different.
Tons of people study something, but that doesn't make them a expert at it. Where are you getting your statistics from? And what percentage of women has a whole are rating the top 20 percent of men as average? Was this done world wide? And by whom? You provide no information to back up your data just empty claims.
You're kidding right?
You believe in the 76% woman's to men's wage too don't you?
Im still waiting for the studies...
Here's a tip. Do your research. I've given you information, you check it. If you don't have the intelligence or motivation to prove me wrong, I don't have the energy to continue this conversation.
Spinning this around on me is your only defense to show you literally have no info and speak out of ur ass. Great job !
Not as big as the one who name calls and makes unfactual claims.
Just because you're too lazy to look them up doesn't mean they're not factually based.
Again, trying to spin everything on me because he's just all talk with no facts. LOL! I don't have to stoop down and name call like you did to me, it's evident what type of person you are just by your responses.
Good day! I will go about my business, you are dismissed!
well you're describing me to a fucking T that's for sure
I have all of that. But I guess I am a little bit shy. But that could turn me into number one
Hah defiantly true for some of us but not all of us, though I'm a geek and a dork not a nerd lol.
By nerdy, you mean the actors who play superheroes?
Another guy who believes all nerds are just a exaggerated stereotype.
They must all be awkward as hell, unattractive, and out of shape. This is really sad.
This is like me posting a post listing what I love about blacks, but then people coming out of the wood works inferring that blacks must be loud, ghetto, and hideous.
This is just as bad , it really is!
You're talking about non existing men , no-one have all the things you're talking about
So, I guess the men I've met like this are a figment of my imagination.
Maybe who knows 😛
Women only love nerds when their intelligence transition over into money.
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You realize these are nothing like nerd qualities. Most nerd are neckbeards who beat off to anime and complain online about pro wrestling or marvel movies
Glasses are sexy and so are guitar players
4. Walks away from fights... but secretly thinking about who he can pay to beat the crap out of you.
*Pulls out my glasses and puts on my star war's tee shirt*
LMAO! You basically like Alpha males with glasses. Nerd my ass.