Why I've Been Single Forever

[amarahorrorstory]

I'm 18 years old and single, and have been for 18 years. Whether it be my choice, someone else's or the universe. Overtime, I've begun to wonder why this is. Is it me? Was it them? What could I have done? What can I do?

Reasons I'm Single:

I'm not ideal for the area I live in

I know that there are plenty of people where I'm from that will find me attractive but I am a minority where I live. In high school, I was 1 of maybe 5 non-mixed African Americans at my school, most of were females and related to me. It didn't mean I was ugly or something was wrong with me, it just means I wasn't the preference of most around me. That's okay. I'm also not sporty, which was another big thing guys in my area looked for. There were a few guys over the years but not many. There are a few black guys in my area but a lot of them like white girls, nothing is wrong with that, I like white guys quite a bit, since those are the types of guys I see the most, so it's totally fair. However, I have no type at all.

Resting Bitch Face

Super common, it runs in my family. I constantly look displeased with my setting. I've tried to come off friendly but it's hard to remember to look like I'm having a great time, and usually I am, it just never makes it onto my face. This makes me seem very intimidating. I'm actually rather outgoing (I'll get to that later). Guys, or really anybody, don't really want to talk to a girl who looks like she's going to be a raging bitch. Oh well, I guess I won't have harsh smile lines in the future.

Bold

I've been told that B-O-L-D, Bold is what I wanna be. I'm pretty outgoing, well, actually and introverted extrovert, or an extroverted introvert? Hmm? Anyway, if you get me going, I'm loud, I mean, loud. I have an abrasive personality that most take a little time to warm up to. You love me or hate me. I'm a required taste. A side from this, I talk a lot, and FAST, better keep up, cause I can't slow down. I'm a lot to take in. I also come with lots of interesting party tricks, strange stories, and constant jokes.

Bitchy

I guess it comes with the face. I never go out of my way to hurt someone's feelings, but I'm quite honest about how I'm feeling. I'll be the first to admit, that I'm rather moody. I wasn't always this way but I used to be a huge pushover, one day something just snapped, or clicked. Ever since, if you're doing something that's upsetting me, I'll let you know, which tends to be threatening to most. I tell you I'm upset, not to start shit, but so we can work it out. It's this way with friends, family or romantic interests. It doesn't matter, stable relationships need conversation, even if it involves some tough love. I need someone who won't get too butthurt if I get a little snappy, and someone who isn't afraid to just tell me to get off my high horse.

Commitment Issues

I've been single since I came out the womb. Naturally, I'm very independent. So when someone gets to close, I try to make a run for it. I'm scared of losing my independence. I can't be tied down, man. If a guy expresses interest in me first and I get uneasy, I'll just start being boring, childish, I know, but it gets me out of trouble fast.

I Fall Hard

Once I find a guy that I like, I'm fall so hard and I can't get up. I will turn guys down because I'm so determined to get the guy I'm hung up on. It usually doesn't matter, cause there aren't that many guys in my life anyway. But if there is someone on my mind, I really struggle to focus on another. I'm in this bind right now, and I don't have the courage to ask him out.

Fear of Rejection

No one likes being told no. It happens to all of us. I've been rejected before. It's not even that that bothers me the most, it doesn't feel good, but the part that hurts is the embarrassment. I can handle someone not feeling the same way, I can't handle thinking people feel bad for me, or laughing at me. That sucks. What if they tell all their friends some loser asked them out? I don't like being vulnerable so I also don't want them to avoid me cause they told me no. I'm a big girl, you don't have to like me back. People lose friends all the time cause they express their feelings, it just seems easier to watch from a far, eventually I'll get over them, right?

Interesting Taste

I like interesting guys. I wouldn't call myself picky. But I'm the artistic type. Some people call that hipster but I just like when people like what I do, which happens to be "hipsterish". I like "indie" music that I won't have to hear on the radio until I want to pull my hair out, and not to be cool, but cause that honest to God what I listen to. I'm also a visual artist, so it's nice to have someone who isn't going to constantly put down my artistic talents and ask why constantly.

Selective

Ya like what you like. Now before I'm called shallow, let me explain.

Race doesn't play a factor, see I've never had a boyfriend so I don't think that really matters.

Weight, I've always been pretty thin, but I do cardio and I try to eat healthy. I don't mind a guy with a little extra weight, I like fit guys, that's just a plus, as long as he keeps it under control, I'll eat what I want, he can eat what he wants, but if it gets out of control, we are gonna have to work on it. But yes, the teddy bear type is fine.

Height, again, tall guys are a plus. But I really don't mind a guy whose like 5'7" and up. I'm about 5'5" so I'm not sure I want to date a guy shorter than me.

Facial features, I can find beauty in most, I think my love for painting portraits makes this possible. There are so many faces out there, each one different, and I really love that. This doesn't guarantee I'll think you're hot. But I love full lips, and a strong nose. I won't lie a nice jawline is a plus, I give in, I'm a sucker for them. EVERYONE LOVES MALE MODELS, OKAY!

Personality really does mean more to me though. It really does. I can't stand the douchey type. they do have an appeal, the whole "whatever, i don't care" is hot, for about 5 minutes and then I actually want to know that you have a soul under there, preferably a funny one. If you can make me laugh, major brownie points.

I also have learned that I love your classic, primal man. I have found just about every type attractive but I really love just a macho man. I hate to admit it. But overall, the way you carry yourself matters the most.

Conclusion

I could go on. I know who I am, I've learned a lot about myself. Sometimes it's other people, sometimes it's me. I know someone will come along and we will understand each other. I am grateful for the fact that I've been single for so long, rather than see it as a weakness. I've learned to love myself. I know that if I'm not happy single, I won't be happy in a relationship. People can't fill voids for you. I'm strong. One day I will be able to ask the guy I like out. I will find guys who think I'm cute, who like that I'm loud, love my skin, who can except that I will have my moments, not all my art will make sense, and I will most certainly look pissed off a lot of times (I swear, I'm fine). I don't think I'm ugly anymore, in fact I know I'm not. I may not be everyone's preference but that doesn't mean anything is wrong with me. If I like who I am that's all that matters.

[TayTay21]

You sound like you're trying to hard to be something, like these girls who go over the top trying to get noticed for being outrageous/bitchy/cool/sexual. The way you write about yourself makes it sound as though you've carefully cultivated a persona. People can see through this so easily, and it's not attractive.

Just tone it down and you'll find that guys will be more willing to engage with you. You can't be this atomic stage bitch and expect anyone to want to deal with you for more than 5 minutes.

[amarahorrorstory]

I somehow missed this from days ago. However, I can assure you that isn't it and your assumption is wrong. I get no enjoy from pretended or putting on an act. I will not even fake a smile for someone. What's so hard to believe that someone is genuinely bubbly but can admit that they aren't the nicest girl you'll ever meet? Surely from a take you can't decide the entire personality of a person. I think I'm a little more complex than that. If that make's me seem fake, oh well, people on the internet don't believe me, shucks. But that's the internet for ya, especially GAG. What can you do? Maybe I'm simply honest. Check my other takes, I've always written this way. If that's unattractive, so be it. I'm not really looking for a guy in the first place. But interesting analysis you got there. Thank you for the advice but I think I'll keep my over the top persona intact for a little while longer. I'm sure someone will be very attracted to it.

[TayTay21]

Cool. Be yourself, but don't be surprised when others don't buy into the act. I see so many self-centered people wondering why they can't find love when they've got so much to offer. It's obvious to me, if not to them, that if you serve someone a filet mignon on a garbage-can lid and tell them to take it or leave it, they're going to leave it every time.

Yes, I'm sure someone will be attracted to it, but it probably won't be what you want. Again, the take-it-or-leave-it approach is usually a loser. The guys who will be willing to suffer whatever treatment you give them will be guys who have no other options, which usually aren't the best guys out there. Most guys with options aren't really interested in that kind of drama.

[amarahorrorstory]

I don't think the reasons I listed makes me self centered. I just know my flaws, in fact I like to know them to be aware, maybe even better myself if I want. Honestly, a few paragraphs isn't enough to assume how someone dates, it just isn't. Better than someone who thinks they're absolutely perfect and has no idea.

[TayTay21]

Again, you're giving a take-it-or-leave-it message to the world. That's fine, but just be aware that most people will choose the 'leave it' option. If you're okay choosing from among the few suck-ups who will do anything to be in a relationship, then that's your choice.

[Fathoms77]

Wow. All these thoughts about relationships at 18?

Geez, you've got your whole life to agonize about love. Just be 18. ;) I think all I cared about at 18 was having a decent car to get me back and forth to college, and whether or not I'd have enough spending money for a new CD. :P

[amarahorrorstory]

Never said I was looking for it. I don't drive anyways. I'm not in a hurry, but all my friends have this relationship issues that I don't relate to. I can at least acknowledge why it is the way it is.

[EscobarTheFamous]

You mean porn CD dude?

[Fathoms77]

@EscobarTheFamous Heh. In fact, no.

[AriadneSky]

nothing wrong with understanding yourself., most people much older still dont. he's getting a good start.

[laughingdeer]

Today's kids are born adult.

[JudgmentDay]

I think it should have been renamed to Why I'm still single for now, and maybe I might be single forever.

The only way to validate and know for certain if you're had successfully made it to single "forever" is if you are still single and made it to your final moments in this world and you've never had a significant other at that point.

Besides, relationships are ABSOLUTELY NEVER guaranteed to last forever, if you aren't in one, you save yourself of having to face the drama, and having to compromise with the other person, there will be unavoidable fights and arguments sooner or later. If you have nobody then you have NOBODY TO LOSE.

And if it's gonna be your first time when you are in an actual relationship you haven't had any other prior experience yet, so all in all it's really going to be just a learning process and and learning experience more than anything else. And very very rarely the very first relationship someone ever got into will end up their very final relationship or the relationship that ends in a marriage or married and happily ever after kind of outcome as that's just a fantasy. More often than not the very first one ends up in heartbreak or a breakup. Not saying it absolutely will, as who knows? You might get very lucky and get it right the very first time.

At 18, you have plenty of time either way. At 18, I'd be more concerned about what career path and how I'd be able to support myself after when school's done, and what I really want out of life and what to do with my life and what goals or dreams that I have. What are your aspirations in this life?

Life is short, don't even worry or stress about having or Not having a relationship, just have fun and enjoy whatever there is as we never know when our time in this world is up. Just live for the moment, as they say.

[amarahorrorstory]

And I still think people are taking the title the wrong way. I've had to tell nearly half the people who commented that when I say forever, I'm not saying "oh I'm 18 and still single and alone" when in reality I mean, "I've been single this entire time, no boyfriend, no first kiss, and no sex and I'm happy with it because I'm not in a rush". I appreciate your comment but everyone is just saying the same thing over and over again. Yes I regret the title but too late now. People are just trying to be nice but they aren't tell me anything I don't already know.

[VictoriousSausage]

Wow, this is very insightful, and probably something i can relate to myself, throughout my life i've attempted at love, but never been very good at it, i always ask girls out, and either get rejected or later get dumped, but i've found mainly it's my sense of who i am which makes me more or less attractive to someone, a lot of the times in my school i had been considered an odd person, and i didn't really understand much about how society works until i was 15, i'll be turning 18 tomorrow, and i've finally got a sense of who i am and what i want to do, so i understand where you're coming from, and in fact have a friend just like you, of whom happens to be much like me.

[amarahorrorstory]

Happy Birthday! Thank you for your kind words.

[VictoriousSausage]

Thanks for that, and you're welcome

[juststrollin]

21 and also never had a real boyfriend... I think I'm learning to be open and fearless and ths will help... Also a black female, and also with the non settling choice, anyone can have just anyone and who wants a mediocre guy. I'd rather not settle, so I get the whole not being the 'type' in your geographic area feel, and I think it was so brave for you to say that, because you're not alone and you can see many people have a similar experience:) but here's a little secret: your differences will make you all the more someones type or just an awesome person in general :)

I have to commend you on this take again so relatable! I had no idea there wee so many other single ladies here (who haven't had a bf),

[sedrftvgyhujik]

1/3 of people are single in part because we can all be picky obviously don't be with someone you don't want to but also don't hold out for mister perfect rather than find someone you might enjoy being with mister perfects are looking for misses perfects and most of us far from perfect.

[amarahorrorstory]

Thank you! Also I'm glad rather than taking away the fact that I'm very young you took away the fact that I'm just expressing that I'm okay with being single

[ObscuredBeyond]

I can relate to falling hard. The girl who dismissed me from her life seven years ago is in physical therapy now, and I'm actually tempted to pay her a visit. While I have come to accept that her and I are never going to truly be a thing, she left a mark that I simply can't tear from my pages. I still care. And even if the Huntington's disease kills her, I want to be there beside her in her final moments, to say goodbye properly. I never got to say goodbye to Emily properly. It'd burn me up if Merre passed similarly.

Gals I've fallen for a decade or so ago, seem today to be in a big hurry to die. It's very unsettling.

[Anonymous]

I understand you perfectly.

That independence thing... same here. I've been independent for my whole life so when a guy is interested I literally feel my insides curling up and that fight or flight ignites. Even if he's not creepy, that ice wall thickens and my demeanor changes. I can't help it.

When I really truly like a guy (which doesn't happen often). I won't approach him. I may not even talk to him. But if I do. If I let myself get close... I fall hard. I can't think of nothing else and it eats away at my soul day in and day out. It gets overwhelming to the point I just have to tell him to get it off my chest.

Still single. So you can tell how those interactions went.

Anyway, everything you described. Right there with you girl. Right there with you.

[amarahorrorstory]

I know, I usually turn guys down but if it's the other way around and I like him I never ever have the guts, it's a shame.

[juststrollin]

this ^^^

[schnipdip]

I've only had relationships with women in China, long distance. I'm confident to say that no woman would date me in the united states. Been on dating sites for over 3 years and messaged just about every girl in my area and girls I liked in longer areas. No replies. If I do get a reply it's usually, "yes", "maybe", "idk".

I have given up trying to find a woman in America because women just don't want to date me. Asian women are more likely to date me for the fact that I'm a white male and I'm seen as a trophy. I'm okay with that because I don't really have the option of being selective.

[AriadneSky]

you're only 22. a lot of people have never had a relationship by your age. Why do you think some women jut dont want you?

[schnipdip]

@AriadneSky I don't know hard to say. I look a little mature for my age. I mean, i do more things than most people in the world. So I don't think it's a lack of interesting topics. I really wish I knew so I could change it

[DancingDoll9]

I'm 18 and have been single for a while as well. All those things you said about yourself don't have to be seen as negatives. It just shows that you know who you are and what you want and that's a good thing. So I guess just continue being yourself and being patient until you're ready to date or meet a guy that comes along.

[amarahorrorstory]

I know, everyone took it as me like crying myself to sleep every night. Like thanks but I'm doing just fine.

[LoveJones1]

Tbh im 24 and never dated or had a boyfriend. I think my problem was the fear of rejection ao i would try to pursue or talk to them. But now im trying to change and talk to this guy i have a crush on now. But as for you you're still young maybe school and work is more of a priority for you right now... or maybe the right ones haven't came along.. good luck though...

[amarahorrorstory]

I apprecaite you answer, but again, I'm not saying "oh my gosh, a guy is never gonna like me, already 18" I'm more of saying "I haven't dated yet, and I'm not in a rush." I'm not looking for anybody

[Girl0204]

Did you just describe me? We're totally alike (except for resting bitch face). What I've learned about guys till now is that they get intimidated by girls like us, most guys in my school go crazy for some shy pretty princess. If what theyre looking for is confidence then i shouldve been asked out at least once in my life. And i also dont have courage to ask a guy out, pls help me

[FashionQueen86]

Resting bitch face... LOL!!

I get that sometimes. Guys would ask why I'm upset. I'm like what do you mean? I think I'm usually uptight all the time becuase I'm on defense. Now, I just typically keep my head down when a guy crosses my path or act busy.

[99percentangel]

Beautifully written mytake. The comments about you being eighteen annoy me... Yeah she's eighteen doesn't change anything she said.

[amarahorrorstory]

Thank you!

[AriadneSky]

Agreed.

[Pinkbeauty]

I turned 26 and I'm still single but I only had a boyfriend once online when I was 22 some were around there I think and I was one to break up with the guy because I wanted to be single and that was when I felt like I didn't get to be single because online there were a lot of guys that kept trying to ask me out

[amarahorrorstory]

I'm actually grateful that guys just weren't in my life. Yeah they were on my mind but I was free of the stress of dealing with them. I'm happy and that's all that matters.

[Pinkbeauty]

that's good that you're happy

[ayylamo]

Welcome to the club. I'll be turning 20 in 2 months and when that happens it means I will have officially missed out on teen love for all of eternity.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Za2PJnCAkUA

[Anonymous]

I have my first Boyfriend when I was 21, and we have been together for 2 years now. To be honest, I was looking for love throughout my teen and when I turned adult. Lots of heartbreaks in between to find this great man. And I rather I didn't have those heartbreaks.

Someday you will meet that someone special :)

[Touglyforfemales]

I'm single due to the following

1) I'm white more and more women are starting to hate white men

2) I'm a fat piece of lard was on the path to lose weight but gave (for now)

3) I have only one true friend been friends since HS

4) I'm ugly

5) I don't have a job on disability

6) I can't drive see #5

7) I'm a white jobless can't drive ugly fat pos with very little friends
who lives on a disability.

[DancingDoll9]

Okay well since you're obviously not happy with yourself what are you doing to improve yourself other than living in self pity?

[Anonymous]

I been single since I was born 45 years ago and I believe I will remain like this until I die and not becaue i want to be single ause I want to expeience wht feels to date at least a guy but because no man seems interested in me, cause guys do not even ask me out and If im the one asking them o ut some guys believe im chasing them and they dont like to be chased.

[JudgmentDay]

45 consecutive years, wow, that's impressive for a lady. I made it to my mid 30s and still single forget about what the age is displayed in my profile as it does not reflect my age in real life.

[Opinion Owner]

@JudgmentDay Well to proof what I said I have never had a boyfriend in my life before, not even date or hang out with guys on a often basis, which means I dont know what it means to be loved or to love someone, or of a guy is interested in me. I have 0 love experience.

[aficionado]

Looking at this myTake, it is evident that you're a real catch, and it's only a matter of time before you get lapped up by some lucky dude! :)

[amarahorrorstory]

Thank you, you're very kind!

[aficionado]

You're most welcome! Just being honest!

[NatashaJ]

You only been alive for 18 years come back when stop acting yours so wise and special to be honest there plenty of people at your age who been single for 18 years,,,, nothing special.

[amarahorrorstory]

If you would have scrolled down, you wouldn't have sounded so stupid. Tell me where the fuck I said I was super wise and special? My whole point was that I am young and have plenty of time to date. When did I say I was the only one? When did I say I was special? Why does it even matter to you? Like you aren't 18 too? It's not like I'm being Princess Ariel trying to get married at 16. Christ, scroll at bit.

[NatashaJ]

See this is how your stupid because I never said you said you were wise and special. You think your so special and so different from everyone else when literally you are the same just like all other single people with the same reasons why your single. Making a mytake that just explain what we all already know? like Jesus no one needs to read paragraphs when you basically sum up what the whole mytake is about in your reply lol. Plus I never said you have to be married or anything. just saying.

[NatashaJ]

Yes you came off sounding as thinking your so special like you deserve a medal for one not dating 18 years? when that's normal? and you trying to sound it amazing and all that in this mytake Jesus.

[amarahorrorstory]

How? You know absolutely nothing about, only what I've said in my take. You say I'm acting as if I am special or wise, but I am only stating my personal views and feelings towards someone. You're just going around calling people stupid, but hey, I didn't call you stupid, I said you sound stupid. You're making it out like I'm saying "I'm a special girl who deserves the very very best". I'm just saying my personal reasons that I think I've been single which don't effect you at all so there is no need for you to take that so fucking seriously. If you don't want to read it, absolutely no one made you, so there was no point for you to comment. It was something I want to write about, that affects me. Why should that even bother you? Honestly, why does it irk you so much that you even felt the need to comment on it and be rude while you're at it. If it's not a big deal, don't respond like it is.

[amarahorrorstory]

You're taking it the wrong way then. I just told my story of not dating in my early teens, as most people I know did, and thought that I should have been too. I used to be insecure about it and that it had nothing to do with who I actually am as a person but the reasons I stated but then realized it doesn't even matter FOR THE SAME REASON YOU STATED, BECAUSE I'M ONLY 18. It's not be going "Oh, I didn't date cause I'm a special little gem and deserve a prize" I'm not TRYING to sound anything, I'm just telling my personal experience and it really shouldn't bother you at all. If it's no big deal, it shouldn't even phase you long enough to comment on it.

[NatashaJ]

First of all your funny because you call me stupid first if anything I sound stupid. I call you stupid because you are I never said the shit your making up. Clearly there a reason why some guys don't want to talk you when you act like that and like the other comments before tone down the bitchyness maybe it get you farther. I can comment and make observation. All I was saying in my opinion your mytake is nothing special. I think you fail to realize your the one who got way offend over a opinion about your mytake and by the way it my opinion wasn't even that bad. I think the comments about you being bitchy is way worst then my comment. So take a chill pill and realize your mytake is not going to be like by everyone.

[NatashaJ]

But clearly you are trying to sound bitchy because you clearly showing it in the comments.

[amarahorrorstory]

Can we just stop? This conversation is one of the most petty ones I've had in my life. I'm just tired of going over this over and over. If you got nothing out of the take, THAT'S FINE. I just don't understand why it's even worth commenting on then. If you didn't interpret it the way I did, that's also fine. I really don't care. I just don't think making assumptions about me is even necessary. You said it yourself that I'm stating basic things, so if they are so basic, surely you can assume there is an actual person behind that take with more to themselves than a few paragraphs of writing which are not worth arguing over. I felt like writing about my own personal life, mostly for myself, to share with others. It really isn't that fucking deep. I don't care if people like my take. I really don't. I just don't think people need to take it as something that it isn't at all, then I'm going to correct them, if they speak to me in a condescending way, I will not be polite.

[NatashaJ]

Honestly I"m fine with that because all you doing is over working up on a comment? really I can say whatever I want and to be honest you took way over board. You didn't have to call me stupid since I never said the shit you said I said. Second you need to learn how take criticism better. Plus if you really didn't have to go and say all those comments at me if you didn't care.

[amarahorrorstory]

What does that have to do with anything? How am I trying to sound bitchy if I am just saying whatever I'm trying to say? I don't understand why any of this matters to you at all? What's your point? You came into this wanting to criticize so regardless of what I say, you will find something else negative to say, getting farther and farther from your original point. It isn't this serious, if you don't like it, you don't like it. I'm not trying to sell it to you, only inform you of point I personally felt that you missed, that's all.

[NatashaJ]

No not selling it to me you just attacking me to feel better about all the other comments that was made about this. Its online forum you can't come on here and said what is allow to be said or not.

[NatashaJ]

See clearly you don't listen because I agree with you finishing this conversation and you attacking me for the conversation.

[amarahorrorstory]

Again, you are still missing my points. The same ones repeatedly. If you are disrespectful, I have the right to be disrespectful as well. I agree with you, this conversation went way farther than it should of, as my only intention was to correct your view of mytake. Again, if you don't agree, that is fine.

[amarahorrorstory]

I am not attacking you, only talking. But after all, it is my take, if you would don't want any more response you could just stop responding to me.

[NatashaJ]

Yo you are childish lol I wasn't even that disrespectful and you went on the lines of calling me being dumb and shit and you can't handle when someone doesn't agree with your mytake. I totally don't agree with your mytake I think you take this too personally when its only online Jesus Christ.

[NatashaJ]

But whatever I'm done talking to you if all you going to do is attack people for no reason.

[amarahorrorstory]

And that's not what I am saying, I welcome comments. I know how the internet works, people can say whatever they want. That's not my argument. My only mission is to correct how you say MyTake, which I cannot force you to agree with, while approaching you with the same sort of disrespect I sensed with you, which was not necessary but here we are. I am not attending to attack you, like you said, it's a forum, people can say whatever they want. I am sincerely sorry, I understand that an apology is what you want.

[NatashaJ]

No you clearly show something else, clearly wanted to attack you its too late to act like you never try. Sorry but I don't buy it.

[NatashaJ]

But yeah whatever sorry but I wasn't trying to cause anything I just want to say my comment because I can. But you seriously can't just jump to conclusions like that and cause conflict in that way. Its not going fly all the time and not everyone will say sorry and accept your apology like I did.

[amarahorrorstory]

Again, all I can offer you is an apology, if you refuse to accept it, it's on you. You can view it as attacking, and I am sorry that you felt as if that what my intention or I led you to think it was, maybe the way you came to me made me feel attacked. I never said you were in fact stupid, just that what you said sounded stupid, I understand how that as well could be seen as offensive, only trying to defend myself and mytake as I have been doing since it was posted. If that deeply offends you again, I am sorry. I do not take a liking to people making assumptions on how act, you do not like when people say you sound foolish. It's that simple. For the forth time, I am sorry, I hope you find some other MyTakes that sit with you better.

[NatashaJ]

its cool.

[amarahorrorstory]

I realize that, I appreciate you apology and the acceptation of mine. i do not expect most to accept them. However, I know it's the internet so it doesn't matter whether or not people decide to. But like you said, you can't jump to conclusions, I was never attempting to act in anyway, and had MANY MANY times explained my take. So by this point, I was incredibly frustrated with how misunderstood it was.

[NatashaJ]

Yeah I know I saw the other comments that's why I knew you took it out on me because you were annoyed and its ok.

[amarahorrorstory]

I appreciate your maturity and honesty with me. Thank you.

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

You're only 18!
Before you know it, you'll find a bangin lad 😉

[amarahorrorstory]

I know I'm only 18, I've commented many times, I'm not looking for anyone or in a rush. My take is about how I want to get a boyfriend, rather why I'm happy and content with being single.

[Nothanks700]

I was single for my entire high school experience as well. Ironically, I had way too many relationships post-high school, so I wouldn't be too down in the dumps about it. Be glad you didn't hit your peak in high school