I may not be up to par with the whole dating scene, but I feel like you have been single for 18.5739 years, because you should have been dating while you were in your mum's whom.
Well, the conclusion was basically saying that I'm really content with not having a boyfriend, hear are some reasons it's been this way, and why I'm okay with it. But people read forever and see as me saying "I'm gonna die alone cause nobody likes me" I say forever, cause there has only been 1 me, and I have been single the entire time existed. It's just a fact. I basically concluded that I'm not in a hurry cause some guy will come along.
Reason most girls are single for long time. They holding out for a high status male and/or got pump and dump too many times by guys who were way above them and now have commitment issues.
Well, we have pretty similar personalities, except I'm pretty good about fixing my "resting bitchface" in public. Taste in the opposite gender though is so different.
If you want to understand the title better I advise scrolling and reading comments. It's supposed to encourage people to read it, and they did. That's how journalism works
Well, it has been forever, I've been alive for 18 years and I've been single for all of them. Forever is just a quick and easy way to get across the message that I have never dated anyone. Forever is often linked to negativity. I never expressed that I was in any rush. Just the reasons that is have been single for my teen years, which I'm really comfortable with.
Yes, you grew up where I grew up. You act like I said "Everyone thinks I'm ugly where I live" but that's not what I said, I said I'm not ideal. Which is fine, I said people have preferences. There is a very small population of black people where I live. Not sure why everyone takes this so personally, I stated my own personal beliefs for my relationship status.
uh, you don't know where I grew up. I didn't 'act' like anything. what does the number of black people have to do with anything? What was taken personally?
No, I'm not confused. I just have a good understanding of what the area I grew up in is like. Where white people date white people. It's not hard to understand at all.
Thanks for sharing this. I'm a black female too who has never had a boyfriend. I with I was like you and content with myself, but TBH I'm not, but im trying to learn.
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18 is still pretty young you don't need a boyfriend
im 23 and never had a real boyfriend
I was 25 before I "coupled."
@Fathoms77 im hoping i at least get married by 25 lmfaooooooo
but i do like solitude so being single really doesn't bother me
Never said I needed one, or even looking for one, my whole take basically summed up on the fact that I know I don't.
I may not be up to par with the whole dating scene, but I feel like you have been single for 18.5739 years, because you should have been dating while you were in your mum's whom.
You know what, honey, everything related to dating gets easier once you leave the fish bowl that is high school. Don't worry too much about it.
I've graduated. But I'm really not looking for guys right now anyway, never really have been.
And you're right. There's no rush. The selection becomes much better once you get out of school.
My nephew is 10, and single. And has been for 10 sad years.
Yes, nice to see what you got out of this take.
LOL I just found it very funny you were writing a long take about being single, when you're 18.
Well, the conclusion was basically saying that I'm really content with not having a boyfriend, hear are some reasons it's been this way, and why I'm okay with it. But people read forever and see as me saying "I'm gonna die alone cause nobody likes me" I say forever, cause there has only been 1 me, and I have been single the entire time existed. It's just a fact. I basically concluded that I'm not in a hurry cause some guy will come along.
Reason most girls are single for long time. They holding out for a high status male and/or got pump and dump too many times by guys who were way above them and now have commitment issues.
But none of those things apply to me, I'm single mostly cause I want to be.
Hm yeah, she hasn't been through it, many of us on the other hand have had it not work with lots of guys. I can't seem to find my equal :(
Well, we have pretty similar personalities, except I'm pretty good about fixing my "resting bitchface" in public. Taste in the opposite gender though is so different.
I'm bold, I fall hard and I'm selective... it's nice to know there are people like that out there... just stay you! :)
That's fine, I can understand your reasons for being single.
Thank you for your respectful answer, I've grown to be very comfortable with my relationship status.
I thought this take would be about a 32 yr old Lady whose been single
Yeah, I would explain but I've already done it too many times.
And the way ur title goes "why I've been single forever" I think that's what's misleading
If you want to understand the title better I advise scrolling and reading comments. It's supposed to encourage people to read it, and they did. That's how journalism works
So like just say anything thats gonna get attention
If you want to understand the title better, you can read the many replies I've given.
I call your idea of what a "macho man" is into question.
I have my idea, you have yours. No need to question it.
Of course there is. If your idea of a macho man is a girly guy, then you don't like macho men.
(This is based on the picture you posted under the "macho man" blurb.)
Macho behavior, not appearance. That man also has a very renaissance sculpturesque physique. I find that very manly.
Because you don't like real video games, that's why.
Yeah that's probably it
so play some games and find a man. maybe you wouldn't be so depressed if you had a man.
I'm not depressed at all. My whole conclusion was basically that I'm content with not having one.
At 18 you speak of " been like this forever". Slow down, there :)
Well, it has been forever, I've been alive for 18 years and I've been single for all of them. Forever is just a quick and easy way to get across the message that I have never dated anyone. Forever is often linked to negativity. I never expressed that I was in any rush. Just the reasons that is have been single for my teen years, which I'm really comfortable with.
Reasons why I've never dated anyone.
- I'm insecure.
- I'm not attractive, so the 15-16 times I've actually tried been bold I got rejected easily.
- I'm way too respectful.
That's pretty much it.
I understand the whole rejection thing. It really is hard to ask people out sometimes. I don't know what there is to be afraid of.
Google solipsism. Your picture will be there.
And it's not about 'race' - we're all so over that.
Yes, you grew up where I grew up. You act like I said "Everyone thinks I'm ugly where I live" but that's not what I said, I said I'm not ideal. Which is fine, I said people have preferences. There is a very small population of black people where I live. Not sure why everyone takes this so personally, I stated my own personal beliefs for my relationship status.
uh, you don't know where I grew up.
I didn't 'act' like anything.
what does the number of black people have to do with anything?
What was taken personally?
You really are confused aren't you?
No, I'm not confused. I just have a good understanding of what the area I grew up in is like. Where white people date white people. It's not hard to understand at all.
Come on everyone can have a relationship if they want to.
Many people are alone because they do not just cut down the standards a little bit.
Well, I not trying to be in one. You could hardly evaluate my standards based off of my take.
ehh, I was not referring to you, just speaking from my experience.
I know, I just don't think high standard are as common as a cause as people often think.
This only applies to women. All my life girls have not given a single shit about me.
My only standard is I have to be attracted to you. I don't care if you're abusive or anything. As long as you want to date me, I'm okay with that
you think deeply about relationships as do i and it's not a bad thing
but you were just born !
Well, I mean, I know that. But I've commented my reasoning way too many times already.
Nice now I feel better about being single... I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE!!
It's nice to not be in a rush. There is someone out there for everyone. He will come around. I guess I'll just keep my eyes open for now.
Me too thanks again
You sound a lot less shallow than me and I'm more bitchy than you but I'm not single lol
I try to be nice but I hate when people expect me to take their shit, just no way.
Thanks for sharing this. I'm a black female too who has never had a boyfriend. I with I was like you and content with myself, but TBH I'm not, but im trying to learn.
Yeah ı never have a relationship too. But I'm handsome.. Why I don't know but in these days there is a movement.. Or I want a movement.