Rejecting just for the sake of it is stupid in my opinion. I think guys should stop settling for women that are less than them, which is a very often occurrence.
If the woman isn't what you want, it's not as good as what you know you deserve, then reject her. It's pretty simple. You can't lower yourself just to have a girl.
It's just about doing what's gonna be the best for you. No games, no bullshit, just what is right for you.
Lets be honest, the men who can reject women somewhat frequently aren't exactly lacking in self esteem or feelings of self worth to begin with. Being picky with your partners in all honor, the whole concept here might not apply to those who would need it.
a lot of girls don't even have egos generally but gain themas a result of their looks and advances from guys and dating experience. If I girl is playing hot or cold , or u activate nice guy mode and she's fucking up get up and leave her. Next her with no contact and let her learn not for your sake but for your fellow brothers sake. Peace
If you need to reject someone to feel better about yourself you are just a loser and deserve to be rejected be the world. Just work hard on improving yourself every single day and don't give a **** what anyone else thinks of you. Then you will make some real progress! 90's Hip Hop & R&B is so much better than the crap they put out today and who in their right mind especially Drake tries to duel EM. Drake you make Canada look bad. Get your neighbor Gordon Lightfoot to Battle Em at least he has some real lyrics to spit! Choads go home! :)
unless it is a woman that rudely rejected me in the past or a woman that i feel is stuck up (she either looks stuck up or gives me that vibe- uses mini purses, wears aviators, etc) than she deserves to be rejected and I proudly do it.
And if we reject someone (whom we are not interested in) we get branded gay. No fucks given. But in all honesty I did not have the chance to reject someone. In my opinion we all have the rights to reject or accept relationships and it's NOT because "it's funny".
Who brands a guy gay for rejecting a girl? Lol, if anything my guy friends would tease the crap out of me if I didn't reject a girl who wasn't attractive, as terrible as that is.
@LittleSally yes-we SHOULD reject the entitled ones... like you. We reject selectively-just like women. If you're not attractive as a person (like entitlement issues lol) don't expect to get any great guys...
Sometimes I think you need to get a different brain Pavlove, so you could see how the things you right come across. I agree with LittleSally that it does sound like that!
That's absolute trash. Girls aren't just a level to get to or an accomplishment. Relationships also take effort and I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to. And I'm also pretty sure other girls aren't going to view you as more attractive if you're with someone who isn't attractive, in fact it will make you look worse. I've rejected tons of girls simply because I'm not attracted to them and I expect girls I am interested in to reject me as well if they're not attracted to me and not just go with me until they can 'trade up' like you advocate for guys.
@Kkaos "I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to"
Who's talking about a relationship? Wow, are you showing your feminine side.
We're talking about dating. Simple, casual and most important of all, fun.
Being with girl makes you more desireable to other girls. So there is always a reason to have a girl on your arm if one is available. Don't believe it? Ask them. Look around. The world doesn't work the way you think it does at 20.
😂😂😂😂😂 Bitter how? Because I'm glad I don't have to deal with these games. you def jumped the gun with the name calling and the insults 😂
@Unit1 well real man was a weird term to use. every man is a real man. I'm glad I found a man that doesn't subscribe to this way of thinking before it starts spreading 😂 Because this is crazy to me.
Rejecting every women you meet in hopes of securing a supermodel only works if you really really good-looking, lucky, supernatural attraction abilities (in spite of looks) or are loaded. Otherwise, that is sure way of ending up alone.
You don't have to be rich, you can buy a woman that looks something like from Victorias secret model for 150 bucks and have a good time. An I have a boss wage anyway.
You definitely don't see women that look like victoria's secret models walking around everyday. Those are some of the most beautiful women in the world. They are supermodels because they are rare, like 1% of the world or less. They won a genetic lottery: tall, thin without effort, and immaculate, stunningly gorgeous face, beautiful hair, etc. That's 1 in a million at least with the most beautiful VS models being 1 in a billion. Prostitutes can be attractive (in a plastic/fake way) or sometimes pretty (in that common sort of way) they are never the most beautiful women in the world.
I never said you could buy women who were Victoria secret models just hot women who looked close enough.
I don't see anything wrong with exchanging money for sex with beautiful women because there's no difference to regular women anyways. The only difference is a escort asks for hard cash whereas regular women use another form of currency. In the end dating and relationships are all exchange and a man's worth is what he brings to table whether it's money, status or looks. If you weren't born with good genetics or good looks it's going to cost me quite bit of money for supplements, gym memberships, high protein diet costs and hard work. I also have to buy expensive nice clothes to attract women which costs money also. Dates cost money and not to mention girlfriend allowence plus all the expenses of been in long term relationship or marriage where I could lose half my resources and pay alimony to women... even child support if I have kids.
Okay cupcake lol... whatever you say, like you know what i deserve. Maybe if you knew why prostitution existed youd understand more rather than looking at it one sided as women always do.
Am sorry but it sounds like the mind is weak if that's your argument against what I said.
please!!! it isn't all genetics!!! Some of those victoria secret women actually are on a strict fitness regimen, if they werent strict in fitness, they would probably not look like the way they do. Very few people actually look like that with just genetics, if you were put on their regimen I would guarantee that you would at least come close to what they look like
lol i agree, did you know there are even men that will shame you for rejecting a woman that you are not interested in? they want to pressurize you to put your cock in any woman that comes along because its "manly".
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So are women only slutty/less innocent to guys who treat them like rubbish?
I like this take but worry that you end up rejecting a lot of ppl!
I have, it doesn't make feel good about myself. I only did it cause I didn't want them or the one I wanted.
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Been asked out several times before. I had to reject and explain that I wasn't looking for a relationship or a date at the moment. Didn't make me feel bad, and the girls respected my decision, hopefully.
i love it. I have to say, whenever i reject a woman i feel empowered , especially if it is a woman that rudely rejected me in the past, i absolutely love it.
You make it sound like you have to "upkeep" some image of yours and that "rejecting women more often" is more about some (unknown) principle rather than having actual reason.
These don't apply to me because the only women who approach me are the ones who will get rejected anyway. No amount of booze or desperation will make me sleep with the elephants that have hit on me in the past.
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Rejecting just for the sake of it is stupid in my opinion.
I think guys should stop settling for women that are less than them, which is a very often occurrence.
If the woman isn't what you want, it's not as good as what you know you deserve, then reject her. It's pretty simple.
You can't lower yourself just to have a girl.
It's just about doing what's gonna be the best for you. No games, no bullshit, just what is right for you.
Lets be honest, the men who can reject women somewhat frequently aren't exactly lacking in self esteem or feelings of self worth to begin with. Being picky with your partners in all honor, the whole concept here might not apply to those who would need it.
a lot of girls don't even have egos generally but gain themas a result of their looks and advances from guys and dating experience. If I girl is playing hot or cold , or u activate nice guy mode and she's fucking up get up and leave her. Next her with no contact and let her learn not for your sake but for your fellow brothers sake. Peace
If you need to reject someone to feel better about yourself you are just a loser and deserve to be rejected be the world. Just work hard on improving yourself every single day and don't give a **** what anyone else thinks of you. Then you will make some real progress! 90's Hip Hop & R&B is so much better than the crap they put out today and who in their right mind especially Drake tries to duel EM. Drake you make Canada look bad. Get your neighbor Gordon Lightfoot to Battle Em at least he has some real lyrics to spit! Choads go home! :)
unless it is a woman that rudely rejected me in the past or a woman that i feel is stuck up (she either looks stuck up or gives me that vibe- uses mini purses, wears aviators, etc) than she deserves to be rejected and I proudly do it.
And if we reject someone (whom we are not interested in) we get branded gay.
No fucks given.
But in all honesty I did not have the chance to reject someone. In my opinion we all have the rights to reject or accept relationships and it's NOT because "it's funny".
Who brands a guy gay for rejecting a girl? Lol, if anything my guy friends would tease the crap out of me if I didn't reject a girl who wasn't attractive, as terrible as that is.
@Kkaos Plenty of idiots call me gay for as much as not being interested in our local gold diggers or just having my unique own taste.
what if every girl just slept with a guy after he tried to brand them a lesbian for not responding to his advances?
Makes no sense to me.
I agree. Reject most women that approach you, fellas! So we learn our lesson! =)
lol god damn it you know that's not what this is about
Haha I know... But I do agree - men nor women shouldn't just say yes to anyone.
@LittleSally yes-we SHOULD reject the entitled ones... like you. We reject selectively-just like women. If you're not attractive as a person (like entitlement issues lol) don't expect to get any great guys...
Sometimes I think you need to get a different brain Pavlove, so you could see how the things you right come across. I agree with LittleSally that it does sound like that!
@feminismisnarcissism And you're supposed to be that great guy? Hahaha Mmmmmkay...
Makes zero sense, unless you're gay or something.
Rejecting a girl is pointless.
Here's some facts. When you have a girlfriend, you are more attractive to other girls.
There is nothing stopping you from dumping the girl you're with and trading up, if that's what you want.
That's absolute trash. Girls aren't just a level to get to or an accomplishment. Relationships also take effort and I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to. And I'm also pretty sure other girls aren't going to view you as more attractive if you're with someone who isn't attractive, in fact it will make you look worse. I've rejected tons of girls simply because I'm not attracted to them and I expect girls I am interested in to reject me as well if they're not attracted to me and not just go with me until they can 'trade up' like you advocate for guys.
@Kkaos "I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to"
Who's talking about a relationship? Wow, are you showing your feminine side.
We're talking about dating. Simple, casual and most important of all, fun.
Being with girl makes you more desireable to other girls. So there is always a reason to have a girl on your arm if one is available. Don't believe it? Ask them. Look around. The world doesn't work the way you think it does at 20.
AHAHA DOUCHEBAG
I'm so glad I found a real man before all this bullshit started spreading lmao 😂 I feel sorry af for the single women.
😂😂😂😂😂 Bitter how? Because I'm glad I don't have to deal with these games. you def jumped the gun with the name calling and the insults 😂
Real man as in?
@Unit1 well real man was a weird term to use. every man is a real man. I'm glad I found a man that doesn't subscribe to this way of thinking before it starts spreading 😂 Because this is crazy to me.
I understand :)
I m sorry all I got from this is that your a horrible person
How is he bad?
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I’m responding to someone’s comment
Rejecting every women you meet in hopes of securing a supermodel only works if you really really good-looking, lucky, supernatural attraction abilities (in spite of looks) or are loaded. Otherwise, that is sure way of ending up alone.
Or you could just buy one... simple.
Those are human beings...
That's why I said loaded/rich
You don't have to be rich, you can buy a woman that looks something like from Victorias secret model for 150 bucks and have a good time. An I have a boss wage anyway.
You definitely don't see women that look like victoria's secret models walking around everyday. Those are some of the most beautiful women in the world. They are supermodels because they are rare, like 1% of the world or less. They won a genetic lottery: tall, thin without effort, and immaculate, stunningly gorgeous face, beautiful hair, etc. That's 1 in a million at least with the most beautiful VS models being 1 in a billion. Prostitutes can be attractive (in a plastic/fake way) or sometimes pretty (in that common sort of way) they are never the most beautiful women in the world.
I never said you could buy women who were Victoria secret models just hot women who looked close enough.
I don't see anything wrong with exchanging money for sex with beautiful women because there's no difference to regular women anyways. The only difference is a escort asks for hard cash whereas regular women use another form of currency. In the end dating and relationships are all exchange and a man's worth is what he brings to table whether it's money, status or looks. If you weren't born with good genetics or good looks it's going to cost me quite bit of money for supplements, gym memberships, high protein diet costs and hard work. I also have to buy expensive nice clothes to attract women which costs money also. Dates cost money and not to mention girlfriend allowence plus all the expenses of been in long term relationship or marriage where I could lose half my resources and pay alimony to women... even child support if I have kids.
Prostitution works out cheaper lol
Prostitutes are only for guys who don't care about anyone but themselves. They can't/don't love anyone so all they deserve is a prostitute lol.
Okay cupcake lol... whatever you say, like you know what i deserve. Maybe if you knew why prostitution existed youd understand more rather than looking at it one sided as women always do.
Am sorry but it sounds like the mind is weak if that's your argument against what I said.
Dude, I wasn't specially pointing you out but nice way to rat yourself out.
Prostitution exists for many different reasons, not just one.
I agree u actually have to have some a peal looks or money other than that. Gunna be no girls to reject.
please!!! it isn't all genetics!!! Some of those victoria secret women actually are on a strict fitness regimen, if they werent strict in fitness, they would probably not look like the way they do. Very few people actually look like that with just genetics, if you were put on their regimen I would guarantee that you would at least come close to what they look like
Thats true^
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@Opinion... good lord get a hobby to go with that narcissism
@feminismisnarcissism no narcissism here.
lol i agree, did you know there are even men that will shame you for rejecting a woman that you are not interested in? they want to pressurize you to put your cock in any woman that comes along because its "manly".
So are women only slutty/less innocent to guys who treat them like rubbish?
I like this take but worry that you end up rejecting a lot of ppl!
Can u help me out pavlove? I wonder if women are only dirty to some men? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2078940-do-women-categorise-men-are-they-only-truly-dirty-in-the-bedroom
I have, it doesn't make feel good about myself. I only did it cause I didn't want them or the one I wanted.
Been asked out several times before. I had to reject and explain that I wasn't looking for a relationship or a date at the moment. Didn't make me feel bad, and the girls respected my decision, hopefully.
Yeah, I've had women hit on me before, but I rejected them since a lot of the were African American and I only like white women.
LOL you really love pointing that part of your life out eh?
@Afrochick yeah... the same way you women do about a man's height or bank account.
@Mrwoo99 I wouldn't say height, since a lot of white women reject me and I'm 6'2" tall.
i love it. I have to say, whenever i reject a woman i feel empowered , especially if it is a woman that rudely rejected me in the past, i absolutely love it.
I agree actually, good take.
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Reject the people you don't like. Your take makes you sound like a teenager :<
why?
You make it sound like you have to "upkeep" some image of yours and that "rejecting women more often" is more about some (unknown) principle rather than having actual reason.
These don't apply to me because the only women who approach me are the ones who will get rejected anyway. No amount of booze or desperation will make me sleep with the elephants that have hit on me in the past.