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The so called "leagues" in dating do not exist, yet people keep thinking they're real!. Good Take
You're right there is no such thing as dating out of your league and nobody is out of anybody's league , anybody should be able to date anybody they want, it's a free conntry.
I do not believe in leagues in the dating world either but more, that people create such a perception that there is and are using it at a basis.
On a side note: People that are 8/10 9/10 and 10/10 generally tend to be assholes I think but I would never not go after them without knowing them first.
I used to think there were leagues. Now I don't... I think my thinking just slowly changed. Plus this movie is funny.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6M9UfytUPMi rarely listen to man's unwritten rules. Its partly one of the prereqs to becoming successful and getting what you want. So whether leagues exist or not is irrelevant to me because i don't follow/stay in them
Exactly, if you're attracted to something go for it... Why not, because what's the worst that can happen, rejection - who cares as long as you try.
@WhateverMayBeWillBe my thoughts exactly
smart and secure in himself ^
almost all model looking women are high end call girls, sugarbabes, or date athletes and rockstars. there are definitely leages and castes in society. the mediocre looking, mediocre income, mediocre everything "beta" nerd can't hope to get a 9 or a 10. especially if that includes personality to the looks. these women are self aware and have equivalent standards to theirs... .
Women date ugly guys all the time. I see model-looking women dating fat guys. Women are less superificial.
@Malloy1997 i've seen as well very pretty women with ugly men. can't explain it. insecurities? huge penis? big wallet? it must be something like that... .
They are with them because they actually like the guy and he treats her right, you also have to remember what you think is ugly is gorgeous to someone else or she's with him to play it safe to avoid being hurt.
I disagree, leagues exist. If leagues didn't exist than it would be easy for anyone to find a date. Leagues are also judged by physical appearance and most attractive people won't date a below average or even average looking person unless they compensate for something else, like money.
I disagree. I never see a geek with an attractive woman. Attractive women date attractive men and men who aren't attractive usually are single and live alone. There is a such thing as leagues in dating.
Negative mindset 😕
@CHRIS11796 No a realistic one. Also beautiful women tend to be real hard to satisfy because other men tend to hit on them constantly. I'd never want to date an beautiful woman. They're nice to look at but dating them nope
Well as long as you're not afraid to approach them and know that they are not higher than you in anyway.
@CHRIS11796 you've got the message right there. There is absolutely nothing in the world that says you are unworthy to date anybody on this planet. Just because you ask, doesn't mean they have to say yes, so I mean the worst that happens is they say no, and you don't beat yourself up about it, but you move on and find the next person who will say yes. That's it.
I agree and don't start a feeling sorry for yourself party either.
Totally agree. I have dated a wide variety of women. Some have been very good looking, some decent, and some not so good looking at all.
Regarding the ones who are attractive, even if they're more attractive than you, the question isn't is she too attractive for me, but rather are we a match? I'm more likely to be into a girl that's attractive and has the same interests than one who doesn't.
Saying someone is out of your league is tearing yourself down which lowers your self esteem.
Having said that, when you do get a date with someone who may be more physically attractive than your other dates, it is best not to put that person on a pedestal and just treat them like you would treat other dates or that may hurt your chances.
Well, I have one small point to bring up. I believe leagues of some sort do exist in high school due to everyone being in the same building for 6 hours and most of them being immature and insecure about themselves. In the real world not so much.
This is true.
There are way too many people who attach too much importance to one's looks or social status, while there are so many more things that work into making a relationship what it is
I think to an extent there are leagues, but mainly in appearance. You rarely even see someone of a healthy weight with someone who is 400lbs or a 10/10 dating a 4/10
In high school, this is probably true. Outside of high school, women (mainly) don't put near as much focus on physical attraction.
@EnglishArtsteacher I've been in college for 2 years. And I really disagree
How are you 17 years old, and been in college for two years? I'm assuming you don't live in the United States of America, right? Or did you graduate high school very early? This might just be a cultural difference.
@EnglishArtsteacher I'm American. I started a program when I was 15 to go to an actual college while earning college credits and high school credits. I took a short cut. But I go to a big university so I have the experience minus the expenses
@TheButterfly Then you should know college is a lot different. Money plays more of a role for women (obviously), where men are more visual.
Wow bahaha what makes you think any college students have money? And I dont know why every guy on this site has wrong generalizations about money but most women care way more about personality and appearance
@TheButterfly The college I attended, Miami University (In Oxford, Ohio), has very wealthy students who come from wealthy families. There are wealthy college students all over the nation. Actually, college students are more likely to come from upper-class families than any other household, with middle-class second. It's very rare for a college student to come from a poor family.
At YOUR age, appearance plays a bigger role. Women definitely go for money more, just look at rich, and famous people.
At your age,
@Thebutterfly You're not in college, so quit lying. Adult women go for financial security before looks, and while we do agree with personalities playing a role, a guy with money is more attractive. Why do you think so many overweight doctors are dating thin, beautiful women? I see it all the time. Hugh Hefner is another example.
@Malloy1997 dont say I'm not in college just because you werent intelligent enough to be in college at my age.
Beautiful women date attractive men (probably bad boys too). Average good guys date average looking women. That's what we all see most of the time.
In a perfect world, there would be no leagues. This world is FAR from perfect, so...
yeah only if your a girl, guys are the ones who have to deal with that league shit.
so true
Here here! I didn't read the entire take but I already know I agree 100% No such thing. People are people. I've never liked when people say that.
You should do a mytake about does she really have a boyfriend. I never get rejected I get the I have a boyfriend line. When you approach 120 girls and they all have boyfriends I start to wonder.
For me " Dating Out Of Your League " concerns the financial side, not looks. I never wanted to date much richer or much poorer.
I definitely believe leagues exist. The attractive men I want to get to know never feel the want to get to know me. And I'm not interested in the unattractive men who pursue me.
You know this is shallow right?
@andrewjohnson1993 Yeah, I know. I feel bad about it but if I'm not attracted to you I will have a hard time connecting with you. I've tried forcing myself and it just didn't work. I don't think it's not fair. Man people have rejected me over looks. It's just how things work
Yup, if you have a good heart, have game and interpersonal skills and confidence you can play in any league you want 😀
FINALLY!!! SOMEONE SAYS WHAT I'VE BEEN PREACHING NEARLY MY WHOLE LIFE!!! THANK YOU