Hello there, I'm just a young black beautiful & confident girl here giving my opinions on why I choose to date outside my own race. And why i go for Latinos and maybe why more and more black girls are doing the same.
Here you see that black men are ignoring their only chance of a relationship by trying to go with other choices as if they're even wanted..
(I guess rap music fooled them from reality)
Sadly most black men in America fall into the gang life and its fueled by rap music to be proud of it.
Growing up in a black community I've learned this and it became clear to me that depending on who you look up to will determine what kind of person you will be in the future.
As I transitioned to Latino culture with my boyfriend i noticed a big difference in gang life, where Latinos are less likely to live that life & are more likely to be more into their jobs.
And its because Latinos are in between rap music & Mexican music which involves family & dancing =)
It' s not that black men are dumb, it's that they are lazy.. My father & uncles are construction workers for several high paid skill trade positions and I often hear how they were the only black men on site, everyone else being Mexican or white.
Jobs play a big part in relationships and I often think to my self if its the reasons of so many single black mammas.
I still hang out with my sistas and they often tell me how their boyfriends never have money to eat out at restaurants. And how they often have to pay..
Knowing more about Latino culture, thats a big no no.. They are taught from young that a real man is a provider..
And it is why i love my boyfriend..
Latinos are more sensitive and less aggressive in arguments and are MUCH BETTER LISTENERS.. They will sit with you and talk about the problems rather than taking off..
I wasn't going to mention this because its obvious.
But reason #5 is that Latinos are so fricken hot.. And its weird because the media doesn't even mention them. Only latinas.. Probably because media runners are either run by white men or black men particularly hip hop culture.
But Latinos slay the dating game & most of them have nice cars..
Anyways that is my point of view
Please tell me what you think & be respectful (-: