Hey Gagers, I'm back with another top 10 and guys, please take notes! :)
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1. Don't bring up your ex
Especially if your date didn't ask about them. If you run your mouth about your ex saying good are bad things, your date will most likely think you've still got feelings for your ex.
2. Please have good hygiene
This is so not cool...keep it fresh guys. Shower of course, and please brush your teeth! Lol.
Tips: Wear a nice cologne but nothing to strong.
Bring a mint to keep your breath smelling fresh.
3. Don't be creepy
Guys do this a lot: you barely know the girl and you're calling her baby, boo etc. Okay, first of all it's creepy. You come off as a player and it's just overall not appropriate for a first date. Getting to know her name is a start, and make sure your remember her name too :).
4. Don't get all touchy-feely
This is pretty much creepy too. You're basically giving her a sign that you want to get in her pants. It's safe to ask first. Don't make your date feel uncomfortable.
5. Please listen
Don't make your date repeat themselves. At least act like your interested...or let it be known that your not.
6. Texting/Talking on the phone
Put your phone down fellas, unless it's very important and if so please excuse yourself. It's rude and it shows you're not interested.
7. Don't get too drunk
It's embarrassing and rude and just plain out wrong. Now how is your date going to get home? Guys, let's not go overboard with the drinks; it's not a good first impression.
8. Pay for your date
Yes, offer to pay at least, unless she wants to pay for herself, then fine. You asked her to go on a date with you, so you pay right? Riiight. ;)
9. Don't check out other girls
Like really -_-
Turn your thirsty ass around! Lol. All eyes should be on your date only. Once again, ruuude!.Please make her feel wanted and attractive and give her nice compliments.
10. Try not to bring up sex
On the first date? Oh hell no.Don't ask her sexual questions, making things awkward and uncomfortable. This will make her think that you just want to hit and quit. She doesn't care about your sex life just yet...well, if she gets curious maybe. Then she might just end up at your house after the date. :p
Lol I had fun with this. Yes there's always going to be disagreements but who cares these are my opinions. Overall guys, make your date smile and laugh, and treat her with respect, and don't forget to have fun.
Thanks for reading. :)
10 Things All Guys Should Know Before Going on a First Date
In the past I did not like to make the guy pay. I would share costs. Nowadays if I like the guy I let him pay because the more he invests in me timewise and financially, the more likely he will be respectful to me at the sack and the more likely he will want to get serious. If I dont like the guy, I offer to go dutch or I pay if I see he's not in a good economic situation. For me a guy who is generous, is a guy who is confident in his capacity to provide and lead the relationship.
Hmm. Mostly agree. Somewhat disagree when it comes to being touchy or any mention of sex. Once upon a time I thought the exact same thing. Then I started pushing and found out how often girls love it. She might not want to fuck you that night, but every girl wants to go out with a guy where the idea of sex is hot and exciting.
@softenchantress I don't agree with being way too touchy or talking about sex so early into the dating field as well, especially on the first date. There's tons more to know about each other before you get THAT serious. It's just out of respect.
all good points. 1) Unfortunately, most women will bring up ex's. I never once asked about an ex on a date unless I am forced into it. . 6) I had a date with this woman that spent almost the entire 2 hrs on her phone. She had a poor excuse. When I thought I would give her a 2nd chance I texted her and said "maybe when your not so busy". her answer was "I am always busy". so I said good luck and moved on. . 9) I find it hard to believe anyone would be stupid enough to do that on any date, much less first. If it happens, you can bet the best option is to just get up and leave. He is a moron. . 10) I have had a rule since I started dating after my divorce that I never even say the word "sex" until she does. That rule has gotten me laid more often and faster then any other rule I have in place. Women have this stupid thing where they ask 'does he want sex or is he interested in me". The answer 99% of the time is both. Lucky for me that women in my age range are like men in their late teens and early 20's. They are very aggressive. The 3rd date is considered the sex date. All but 2 of the women I had sex with happened on the 3rd date. One was on the 4th and one was in place of a first date.
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1-7 - Eh, same thing can be said for women. 8 - Hahahahahahahhahahahaha... The ol', "whoever ask should pay" yet we all know women expect men to do the asking. I don't know how many times I've seen women say they've wanted to go on a date with a guy but waited for him to ask. Because of this. Fuck "whoever ask should pay". It's the first date. I pay for my meal and you pay for your meal. In fact, I think it should be this way for the first several dates. Until the two have actually gotten to the point where they aren't just going on a date but are actually dating, then you pay for your own damn meal. Lmao, I love it when I see women say that online.
9 - I'm going to check out other women just as she is going to check out other men. It's human nature. . . however, don't make your date feel uncomfortable. Meaning, don't make it so blatantly obvious.
10 - I agree and disagree... learn how to read your date and if talking about sex is okay. Don't just randomly ask if you want to have sex tonight or soon. . . but not talking about sex at all. . . I don't know because if she talks to me about sex that lets me know she is actually interested.
Dude it's the first date... and you asked her out so you pay for the damn date it's nothing wrong with being generous. Especially if your only paying $20 like come on really? You obviously really like her so at least offer to... If she doesn't appreciate that you payed for her.. and you guys don't hit it off then fine don't hang out with her anymore as simple as that. Just my opinion.
@tyrantfuryre you can't even be generous enough to pay for a date... and you shouldn't lable women as just pussy... thats your opinion you sound very immature. Thanks for reading anyway.
Why should I pay for the first date? Saying that I asked is the dumbest reason ever. Women won't ask guys out for a date. They will let a guy know they like them, and may even hint that they want to go out, but they won't ask. So, this whole "you ask you pay" is bullshit. You say, if she doesn't appreciate that I paid, then don't go out with her anymore... Why should I spend money on someone before I get to know them? What's more, if we didn't hit it off, that would mean I just gave someone I don't care for a free meal. Shit, women who expect men to pay may offer to pay their half but if the guy lets her pay she doesn't want to go on a second date. That's the biggest BS in the world. What's more, women never pay for the entire meal... even if they ask. Womens mind is, whoever ask pays, but I refuse to ask.. so he has to pay by default and even if I do ask, I'll be generous and pay for my half.
Best solution.. go dutch. You pay for yourself I pay for myself.
So, essentially you're saying women are prostitutes. Except instead of a guy paying for sex, a guy has to pay for her time. What makes her time more valuable, than mine? Shit, with how you women get so damn offended at the thought that a guy would say we should go dutch you would think that the guy is saying women should pay for the entire meal... What's crazy here is that. . . that is exactly what women expect men to do. Paying for the entire meal for someone I just met or just started trying to get to know makes no sense. I don't know you. I pay for me, you pay for you. You say it's only 20 bucks.. Okay, then what's wrong with paying for yourself. It's only 10 bucks. After several dates we start hitting it off and I like the girl, then I have no problem paying for the entire meal. Just like I would expect her to pay for the entire meal every so often as well. But the first date? Hell no. First date = dutch.
At the end of the day there's nothing wrong with paying for your date like seriously... it's a plus in my book. It's shows how generous and nice you can be. It's not a big deal but if she wants to pay then fine nothing wrong with that. I just think it would be nice that you pay if you asked her out on the date. If your taking her out then you should pay its your plan to begin with. a lot of females agree with me on this so you should take notes. It's obviously the right thing to do. These are things you should actually know. This is what my mytake is about coming from a female perspective.
Why would I take notes on something that doesn't really work for me. If a girl expects me to pay because I asked her out, then I don't want to be with her. There's a difference between asking a girl out and taking a girl out. If a guy says, "I want to take you out", then you can expect him to pay for you since he is taking you out. But asking you if you want to go out with him, it should be assumed that you guys are going dutch. If I ask a friend of mine if they want to go out to eat at a certain restaurant, and they said yeah. . . I'm not paying for them and they know that. If a friend asks me that same question and I don't have the money, I will tell them I would want too but I don't have the money. 9/10 they will say that's alright maybe next time. Every once in a blue moon, (always a male friend never a female friend) they will say, that's alright, man. . . I got you.
So, if a guy asks a girl out, she should not assume he's paying. only if he's taking you out. big difference.
I did read the post, the difference is that women will assume that if he ask if she would like to go out to dinner with him, that that is him asking to take her out. In my eyes, unless I specifically say the words in quotations marks, can I "take you out", then I am not asking to take her out.
Good take. However... all of this also applies to women. Couple of things.
RULE #1: Women do this to me all the time. I can casually talk to them during the date, and it's always - "my ex and I used to do this"... "my ex and I used to do that". It just shows me the girl is not over her ex.
RULE #4: As a man, I do touch my date, and I encourage it. Seriously... I've done tests (not on purpose) in regards to this. If you don't attempted to touch the girl at all during the date or you are afraid to touch her, it shows a lack of confidence and she will think you aren't attracted to her. This has happened to me many time.
During my dates, I ALWAYS touch the girl. When I compliment her hair, I will touch her hair gently as I compliment it. When I am laughing with her or explaining something, I will lightly touch her arm. If we are walking, I will take her hand.
You mentioned: "This is pretty much creepy too. You're basically giving her a sign that you want to get in her pants. It's safe to ask first. Don't make your date feel uncomfortable."
Asking... if you can touch her? That would be so weird. Should I say to girl, "Hey... I really like your hair, can I touch it?" F*ck no... NOW that's creepy. IF you want to touch a girl... GO FOR IT... BUT don't be "rapey about it" (for example... touching her butt, boobs, thighs, etc.)
RULE #6: It''s funny... when girls don't text back right away, they claim "they never check their phone" or "they are too busy". On dates, I have had women text or call other people... apparently they weren't busy then.
I see women doing the text/phone thing on dates more than men.
Not all girls are comfortable with being touched by someone they barely know. Some guys get to creepy and try to touch you sexually it's just best to ask.
Asking makes you look weak and not confident to go after what you want.
When a guy likes you and you like a guy and you feel that sexual chemistry... do you want him to say, "hey... do you want to have sex tonight?" Do men really do that?
It's up to the man to gauge when it is appropriate to touch.
For example... if you are making out with a guy... he gauges how far he can go by touch your face... then he may bring his hands down to your shoulders, then your waist, down towards your butt and then your thighs and back up again. Would you want him to ask, every step of the way, if he can touch you there?
If you're in the moment... do you seriously want him to ask?
Smh. You men are really funny. After reading some of your responses it's not wonder why dildos were invented. I mean, If it wasn't for that other 5 percent ( since 95 percent of the male population rather continue to feel themselves ( and yes I did mean the pun)) I think most females would rather stay single, at least I would. If a guy has an issue with paying for a date or two, he has commitment issues. He is not trying to invest into any type of relationship with the female. Basically the female is his new shiny toy until something betters comes along. So glad I never had to deal with this. Good luck to you females out there. And men, next time you take a female out, think about how you would want a man to treat your daughter. Females you should be thinking that too. Because trust me if you end up sleeping with this guy and God forbid get pregnant...
Why is it him who has commitment issues? Why isn't it her who should have to pay? We're not you own free food dispenser. Also, why is it such a problem for women to pay for their own goddamn meal?
@JuicyBrain the issue is not about the food. It's about the effort, energy, and value / worth you put into attracting a female. I personally wouldn't go on a date with a guy that is to lazy to pick out a place to take me. I like the men I date to be creative, so if they take me to dinner and a movie I am not likely to want a second date, if they taker me to the zoo, more then likely I know that they were actually listening to my likes and dislikes. When a guy pays for a date it shows he is not scared of the investment he would put into me/ the female. You ask why is it "him" with the commitment issue; well, it's because he refuses to commit to one date. Do you not see how you are feeling about spending money on a female. You have a high value of that money. But you are not regarding that female in a higher value. You are saying " I like you enough to spend a few minutes with you and definitely fuck you, but I don't value you enough to spend money on you. You are not worth it"
If a guy ask to take me out on a date then yeah I kind of expect him to pay. Why are guys saying that this is being a gold digger I'm so confused. These guys are savages ○.○
@Mrscurious005 honestly most are just looking for a quick lay. They are not wanting to put in time and effort because they rather have their freedom. They use bad experiences as an excuse when really it about quick self gratification and opposite sex validation and ego inflation.
Oh and honestly what I believe more females should do this: if a guy wants to go Dutch smile and except the offer, but after the evening is over and he tries to move in tell him honestly, no thinks. And example to him that he subconsciously communicates with you through his actions that he is not looking for anything serious. That you wouldn't mind being his friend and you fully support and respect his decision. All in all, you are basically going to friend zone him. Not the friends with benefits zone either. But the you're so cute, awe look at him type of friend zone. Men you call this manipulation, but I call it not being taken advantage of. As a warning: Don't be upset with me when I am going on real dates with other men, don't ask me why we are not going to be exclusive And why I decide to give more of my time to others. And don't be upset when I decided to actually start a serious relationship with some other guy who doesn't have a problem with showing up with flowers and buying me dinner.
That's ok, at least the guy hasn't lost his money on you when you would have probably said no anyway (since you are not a prostitute whomwill give sex for a meal and all that shit). No loss really.
If the females you approach sleep with you after a meal you should really think about the females you approach. I don't think they should be the type of females you would like to marry. I only date guys who I can see a future with and because I am upfront about my wants and desires the men have the option of telling me if they would like to date me or not. I want marriage so the only men I date are looking for marriage and long term. So it's a different type of guy. And honestly if you are just looking for short term relationship. Get a dog and hire someone to come in and get you off once a week. Don't play with females emotion. Paying for a couple of dates at the beginning of the relationship is not going to kill you. As the relationship progress there should be plenty of times when your girlfriend go out of her way for you. Maybe it's to run and pick up your dry cleaning, buy you tickets to a sporting event, play nurse for you when you're sick, things like that to show she's cares
@JuicyBrain whatever it is, I am pretty sure she would be happy to do it. But right now you are feeling yourself a little to much or you have been hurt to many times to recall what a good, healthy relationship is. I am not sure what type of relationship you had in the past but don't let those define your future. Because one day you may have children and you are going to want to teach your son what Integrity is, and what it takes to be a man of standards. And you are going to want to show your daughter how a man should treat her. You are going to want to be an example for them.
Okay, and how much effort are YOU putting into impressing the guy? You keep talking about how men have to "impress" you, but you never seem to do anything back. You sound like an entitled c-word to me.
@Mrscurious005 and how often do you ask out men? Probably zero times, so you also never end up paying. Easy to say "whoever invites, pays!", when you're not the one who has to invite!
@Kirah. See that is were you are wrong darling. I have paid for dates before. With 2 different people, all the dates we went on I paid for. But unfortunately, one was just using me and the other wanted to find a woman to take care of him. Now with the very first guy I ever paid for on a date, he didn't really appreciate my gesture, even though I though I was being nice, he thought I was being assertive. Maybe most of the men I choose to date enjoy taking a woman out. For the most part it has never really been a issue. I honestly didn't think it was a big debate until reading a lot on gag. As for Entitled, I don't believe I act in such a away. Most guys who date me think I am a great person and enjoy spending time in my company as much as I enjoy their company. As for what I have to offer, sometimes I ask my self that. But I believe that if I was doing something wrong I wouldn't get a request for a second and third date. These men wouldn't want to be my friend. When they see I am not
@Kirah offering up sex they would just leave me alone. But they don't. They enjoy talking with me. They don't mind my corny jokes. They even laugh as I song along to songs I like on the radio. So maybe I am not offering much, but I like to think I am offering friendship, campionship, a none judgmental ear to listen, and much more. I will not say it's something as shallow as beauty because I am not everyones cup of tea. I am fat. And I am a black American. Some with considered that a double negative. But they think I am beautiful and we always have a great time together.
Please read through everything I have said. Because I did list a few examples, But if you would like a more indepth view: I think a good woman should be a help mate. Not just to men she dates but to all who seeks her. She needs to understand her duties and responsibilities within her relationship, for example, 2 college students. One weekend the female may need to help her guy with laundry, cook him dinner (buying him takeout), and help him study for a test coming up in one of his classes. It's through these acts she shows she cares and encourages him. For couples that may mean if the dynmatixs of the family so chooses the wife may be the working provider and the husband may be the stay at home dad or vice versus. Also; caring, compassion, and forgiveness are more than words. They are actions. All-in-all, self gratification is not always her first thought. So when I go on dates though I want to have fun I make sure all my attention is on my guy, I engage in conversation,
But I like I said in my first response, I really don't deal with it. Do I feel like a guy, should show he is willing to be invested in a relation to a female, yes. Does it have to be financially no. But it's during that first date that first gesture that he says I don't mind investing in the possibility of us. It opens the line of communication for a future. And do you know what a female should do after everyday whether they enjoyed the date of not, send a quick text thanking the guy for a night out. Show some appreciation.
No the issue is that women are independent and can live on their own in the 21st century. Back then, it wasn't like that. But now it is. You can't be a feminist and "old-fashioned" at the same time.
The entitlement of women like you is infuriating. When you keep insisting that men should pay, you are essentially saying he isn't even worthy of your time, and he must pay to spend time with you. How is that fair for men exactly? It isn't.
@MrNameless so because I am I female and believe I should have an opinion I am entitled? Or is it because I am a female and I have an opinion and men still offer to take me out that makes me entitled? So the only reason someone should ask me out is because I fail to use my brain in politically, socially, and economically beneficial way to improve my life and the lives of others around me. I am not sure if you really understand the concept of adulthood, because that's what being a adult is. Whether I am doing so at home and serving my community or I am doing so in the office. Does that make me a feminist, yes but not by the definition that you and many others use. Because by the definition I am using, I am not asking you to treat me like a man, I asking you for tools to better help my family, to be a better help mate for my husband.
As an FYI: I never called myself a feminist or a traditionalist ( until last response). Do I believe I should be able to voice my opinion yes, does that hinder me from submitting to my husband, no. Do I feel that men and women have different roles within the family yes, should those roles be defined by outside forces, no. That is up for the couple to decided. Do I believe that men should make the first move, yes. Why? Because past experience have taught me that women who generally make the first move are considered assertive and men do not like overly assertive women, unless they are looking for someone to replace mommy. And yes I do believe that concept holds true for women. Any female that is just looking for a man to take care of her is looking for a daddy. But is it okay for a woman to except a man to show qualities that she find attractive while dating yes. For me one of those qualities is being generous. Is it okay for men to except the same thing, yes.
I agree with all of these, but 8 is more complicated than that.
If I asked her out then I'm gonna pay, but if she doesn't even offer to pay for her part then that's a red flag cause I'm not interested in gold diggers. But if the date is mutually agreed on or she asked me out then I expect her to pay for her share. I'm gonna offer to pay for her when I know her well enough and want to do that for her, but I'm not gonna do it just because society says that I have to do it because I'm a guy.
Wow literally every comment lol. Your one of those people that lies to them self so much that they believe the things they are saying lol. Please do reply with a lengthy message... i won't read it ha.
No, I'm not paying for your dinner. There will be no question in your mind whether I was dumb enough to think "I paid money for... something, so I am getting... something"
No. I won't pay. You won't be under any obligation real or imaginary. That's how it goes.
It's not going to kill you to pay for the first date will it? It actually depends where you go... If it's only like 10-20 bucks then why not? you like her right... obviously you asked her out... so you pay or at least offer to. My opinion.
Well be pacific when you ask her out dont say I want to take you out on date cause if that's the case then your paying... say let's go out on a date & explain that she's paying her way keep it real. Most guys always talk a good game... but in reality they end up paying anyways smh.
@Twix005 Lol any guy who would ask me on a date and then say "by the way, you're paying for yours." wouldn't get a second more of my time. Its called being a gentleman. There are PLENTY of other guys out there who have some level of chivalry; i would never waste a second on someone like that
@pooper89 A guy can pay for the first if he asks... but after that do you expect men to still pay full? I mean chivalry is technically sexist.. men having to hold open doors for women because they are women (women can easily open doors i think we can agree) etc... both sexes should do it. But yes whoever asks should pay for the first date.
@pooper89 Lol feminism is just gender quality come on guys its 2016... seriously though do you want/expect a man to pay for you after the first date? I'd never pay for both after the first... I don't pay for a woman's time.. if i do that i hire a prostitute. Men who are interested in a serious partner will not date a woman that expects him to pay every time. It's why you will see tragic old women who never found love... they expected the world and had nothing to offer in return.
@Jamesol1 umm I'm 25 and I've dated and been in long term relationships and I've had every date paid for. If it wasn't a date and we were grabbing fast food somewhere then sometimes I'd pay for my own but that's it. I don't know what world you are living in.
@pooper89 Any guy who will pay for a women's company is undervaluing himself. I guess many men don't care and likely just want to bang you. The ones that want a long term relationship... well they have bad taste lol. A woman keenness to help out with a bill says a lot. You sound very spoilt and entitled. Best of luck to you. Maybe one day you will take a better look at yourself. Either way Idc I'm not reading more of your bs.
Its just the guys on this site. They are an extremely small minority. Most guys aren't like this. You and me both know this. Lol. I mean why do you think these guys are on this site? Lol
"any guy who would ask me on a date and then say "by the way, you're paying for yours." wouldn't get a second more of my time."
That's good for a guy to know, so he doesn't waste his valuable time and money on you either. There are plenty of women out there who know what equality means.
@Afrochick Lol your ip is not safe online i have to warn you. Just saying. Not suggesting I'm going to do anything with it but... :D i dunno I am... hmm...
@Twix005 so you're saying if he asks her out, he should pay? Okay, that seems fair. But only if women also ask out men. And how many times have you asked out a man, exactly? Probably zero times, so you also paid zero times. Convenient, huh?
I don't agree with 8, just because the guy asked for the date shouldn't mean he's obligated to pay. She said yes and is mutually interested and needs to pay for her own meal. What if the girl asked the guy out? Does she have to pay for his meal now? That's basically saying that whoever asks who out first has to pay. It was fine in the olden days where men made more money and women were the ones to be "taken care of" but nowadays women want the same equality and respect as men and should be willing to do the same as he. Just because we are woman doesn't give us the right to be pampered. Men deserve it too or at least it to be equal give and take.
Went on a date once with a guy who was obviously not well seasoned at this. Getting him to stop talking about the same subject was hard. He supposedly is new in town for work. When asked how long has he been in town, he said 2 years.
The bartender asked if he wanted another drink (we only had one each) he said no and asked for the bill but didn't care to ask me if i wanted more. Bill came, i asked if he would like me to help pay, he said "ok" :-O!!! I paid one half of the $22 bill. At the end, he wondered why I didn't want to suck face with him or even a hug. This all took less than 45 minutes from start to finish.
Men: dont be this guy, you will be single forever.
Raised by wolves? Wow. That doesn't even work here. Splitting a bill doesn't mean you don't have manners and it's ridiculous that you even think that it does. Again you are an Adult so you are capable of paying for yourself. That's all that matters. But here's a simple question. The guy pays and you get a free meal, but what does he get?
I disagree with #8. You're basically arguing "he asked me out, so he should pay". But in the same sentence, you also acknowledge that guys are expected to make the first move 100% of the time. It must be pretty easy to say "whoever invites, pays", when you never have to invite anyone!
Well im a shy girl so i dont ask guys out to be honest... but i believe on the first date if a man asked to take me out then yes it's expected. He wants to get to know me... he want my time. He wants to show me a good time. So yes the guy should pay... Now i wouldn't mind paying but it would be nice if he paid because he's the one taking me out. & if we dated again... i wouldn't mind paying for both of us.. I like gentlemen I don't know what kind of guys your into.
@Twix005 that's pretty easy to say, isn't it? You say that whoever invites, pays. But then you admit that you never ask guys out. So you still end up paying 0% of the time. You're just virtue signaling, nothing more.
Why should he impress you, while you're not trying to impress him? Your time isn't more valuable than his.
Umm paying for my date is not impressing... you shouldn't have to impress anyone one on a date just be yourself if that's not impressing enough then I don't know what is. & at the end of the day there's still nothing wrong with a guy paying for a woman date. Escpecialy for a nice descent woman.
Women do No 6 far more than men do , I don't date as I'm a single dad , but if I did , I would walk off without a word if my prospective date was glued to her phone , that is the same as actually saying " F-off , you are boring !! " , the rest are common sense basics , no objection to paying if I invited her , she is my guest after all , but keep it simple & not OTT with expense as this puts pressure on both parties , on No 4 , I would maintain at least 3ft of distance from her & NEVER touch , unless she touched first. Overall a good take.
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Anyone remember the girl who used men for free meals on dates?
For all you men agreeing. Do you really want to be the guy who takes this girl on dates, listen to her problem and pay for her meal when these are the possible outcome:
1) You go on more dates, and lose even more money until she deems you worthy of sleeping with her.
2) She uses down your cash then ghost on you.
3) She uses down your cash while fucking some dude at the end of the night while you waste down your cash winning and dinning her.
Well get to know a girl first before taking her out on dates and spending your money on her right? Don't date girls hoping you get to sleep with them the first night.
1-2, both sexes. 3 this is very subjective, I've had girls do this to me where I hate it, and other times where I love it. 4. I'm guessing you mean overly intimately. Touching in a friendly manner shouldn't make you so uncomfortable. 5-6 Yo girls, you are horrible at this. 8. Hell no. I asked? So you are doing me a favor to accept my request? What is this? I did you a favor for being the one who asked when you women don't have the balls for it.(Don't mean to be mr angry face, but this is not the 1800s) 9. One thing all guys and girls should learn. Just because we are together, that doesn't mean every other person in the world suddenly became ugly. People are beautiful. Not recognizing this is untruthful.
Enjoyable take but I personally differ on the following.
01. I like people talking about their ex = MUCH immediate insight into them 05. No one should have to feign interest. I leave if bored & so should they. 08. I HATE people paying for me no matter how much they insist & get angry. 10. Sex is part of why we are there so likes & dislikes NEED to be discussed.
Do not agree with #8 at all. Why do i have to pay for your shit? I don't know you, i don't owe you anything. I mean, am i getting some pussy at the end of the night? Then I'll pay... but i don't even want sex on the first date. It says something about the girl. Paying for the girl's shit is the same as paying for her time and saying her time is more important than yours. F* that.
Well since society expects GUYS to ask a girl out FIRST... then HE has to PAY also? Do you see the light yet? Y'all want something that you totally don't deserve. It's amusing.
Why are you so rudeness chillout... if you disagree so much go make a mytake about it... its my opinion at the end of the day. No need for disrespect. I'm happily engaged my fiance doesn't mind paying for my dates sometimes i pay for dates too... it's not a big deal I never said it was mandatory anyways.
Doesn't it hurt your "strong independent" view of yourself if you rely on the guy to pay for your food? Girls cry about equality then cry again when you try to split the amount equally. I don't even understand how you could reason that. It's fucking contradictory. Next thing you'd want is to be in a profession with a position of power and not wanting to make decisions. Ridiculous
@Radontal If you ask to "take" a girl out then you should pay... why wouldn't you? now if youz just say lets go out on a date be real with her and tell her she have to pay her way. That's all I'm saying.
I feel as if what you are saying is that no matter who asks the person out they should be the one to pay or offer to pay, be it the girl or guy.
If that's what you are saying, it's fucking ridiculous. I don't know what opinion or observation you have of girls, but girls don't ask guys out, especially on first dates. On top of that a guy would be reluctant to accept the offer for the girl to pay, whereas the girl wouldn't, because it's socially acceptable. Also who wouldn't want a free dinner. If you are a guy, go on dates, offer to pay for it and the girls accept then you are fucking yourself over with a dragon sized dildo. You work to be able to pay for some stranger's food? If you are going to do that just buy some homeless people food, they'll appreciate it more and you'll feel better about how good you are. If girls want to be "equal" then pay for your own shit. Guys' problem is that they are willing to throw huge amounts of money just to fuck a girl, making girls feel entitled.
@Radontal This generation of women aren't women... they're girls. They have no skills, want shit handed to them, they can't cook, can't take care of themselves, want equality when it's convenient for them, lie, cheat, shoot their mouthes off because "they're a woman" and think there are no consequences from that, they don't know how to dress (yeah shove those leggings up your ass, THEY'RE LAZY AND STUPID), and they don't even know how to fuck.
Lil' Twixy girl... my hand is better than your puss would ever be. I'll save my "$20" for something more relevant than your entitled "company".
No that's just the kind of girls you date... no real women want to date yo cheap disrespectful ass no waaay grow tf up & learn how to treat a women what where you raised by dogs? Oh you got your heart broken by some rachet who played you & made you think like a fuckboy? Why don't you get to know a girl first before taking her out and trying to get her in pants. The woman you explain is the women you attract and that should tell you a lot about yourself. Paying for a women date is something men do... so stop whining. Stop paying for pussy and start paying attention and realizing that all women ain't the same. We are Queens looking for kings not little whiny boys that can't be a gentleman and pay for a descent girl date.. but pay for a rachet girl date to fuck you at the end of the date and leave you for good... lol case close your dimmissed. I'm not listening to no more of your fuck boy comments and lame ass excuses.
The only thing that you should be concerned about is the point made in number 5 LISTEN The first date is the only time you get to make a first impression and it is also the most effective way of getting to know what the other person is like. There is nothing worse than a disappointing date, but if you can listen to your date and learn as much as possible from them. You will make the best possible first impression that most people are not aware of, has a huge effect on the overall judgement they make about you
Another "guys you need to treat me this way, i deserve to be treated this way as do all women as we are like princesses and you must be worthy of our presence" piece. Not that I necessarily disagree with anyone of this except the bill thing but the inherent nature of these types of takes is very narcissistic
Dont force the listening if she's boring. If anybody's boring the what the fuck are you doing there. It should say "Stop talking about yourself" cause you might be fucking strangers at that point, of course you're not interested in her dying grandmother
#8 should be pick a date you don't have to pay for. Plenty of options exist and most guys will get less butthurt about it. And after that first date figure out who pays for who by yourselves, if you wanna get a strong relationship going you may have to iron out a few issues.
... im just pouring some gas on the fire cause I'm bored
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