There are bad women in the world. Plain and simple. While I have done a fair share of growing up this past month after recent events, I have also learned that women cannot be placed up on a pedestal anymore. Make no mistake, I do not support generalizations -- though we may often be tempted to make them -- as I recognize that there are also many good women out there, such as my mother. But in the world of dating and opposite sex interactions, men are going to encounter a variety of different sorts of women. Thus, inevitably they are going to come across the bad kind, and that is precisely the point of this article: to teach men to protect themselves from the bad ones. Not just economically -- as in the case of gold diggers -- but also sexually as well as socially.
Sexuality: Think Protection!
It is no secret that the wrong sort of woman can completely jeopardize a man's life. From making up lies to blackmail and crying wolf, there are many tools in the arsenal of a bad woman. Just look at what happened to me. One girl was able to completely destroy my reputation at work all because I tried planning a date. Now I am stuck dealing with constant threats, middle fingers, dirty looks, and fear because of her lies. More than that, nowhere is this more important than in the case of sexuality. Men, remember this -- remember it as if it were the Word of God -- this is THE definitive most important thing that I want you to take away from this article: you are guilty until proven innocent. Forget about due process, the Constitution, and being innocent until proven guilty. As far as sexuality is concerned, men are at a disadvantage from the get-go. Society is dominated by a mob mentality that demonizes men as always being guilty; women are always going to be viewed as the innocent party that can do no wrong. If a woman accuses you of rape or sexual assault, then that is the end. You are doomed. This is the most powerful tool in the bad woman's arsenal: the ability to cry rape or sexual assault the way the little boy cried wolf.
You are guilty until proven innocent
In no way is this meant to trivialize and/or downplay the heinous nature of rape when it really occurs, or the genuine trauma that its victims have to endure. Rather, the point is to emphasize the fact that a false sexual assault allegation -- especially rape -- can completely destroy a man's life, even if he is perfectly innocent and there is evidence to prove his innocence. The fact that #HillaryClinton is poised to win this #election makes the issue that much more pressing, because she is a liberal feminist who will almost certainly undermine due process even more.
So upon recognizing this unfortunate reality for what it truly is, what is a man supposed to do? Honestly, if it were up to me, my advice would be to not even have sex outside of marriage. Simply put, I think that fornication has become too risky for the average male nowadays. Understand that every time you have sex with a woman, you are taking a risk. You are forfeiting your right to due process and putting yourself completely at her mercy. Again, for a good woman, this is not a problem because she will not abuse this power over you. But for a bad woman, this can literally be a death sentence. You do NOT want a bad woman to have this power over you. Thus other than marriage, men really have no safe avenue for sex where a bad woman can get him in trouble.
Well actually we do: prostitution. But not the bad, illegal kind as exists across most of the nation. Not only can that get you in trouble, but more pressingly however, it is often a form of human trafficking barely above slavery, and morally I think we would all feel opposed to that, even those among us who support prostitution in theory. Instead I am referring to the safely regulated, *legal* prostitution as exists in places like Nevada. Other than this and marriage, men have no safe avenue for sex. Since I am religious, I have chosen marriage. But I would encourage other, more secular men to choose prostitution. Even so, I recognize that the majority of you will not heed to my advice. You are going to have casual sex the "regular" way no matter how much of a risk it is.
Just remember, every time you have sex with a woman outside of marriage and/or prostitution, you are taking a risk. You are forfeiting your right to due process and putting yourself at the complete mercy of the woman.
However, there are still a *few* tips that can make the experience safer for you. But in no way are they guarantees. I will share a few of the most important ones below.
#1) Always Ask For Identification! We live in a world where 25 year old women look like they are 12 and 12 year olds can look like they are 25. Chock it up to Monsanto and the Industrial Revolution, but women are maturing at a much earlier age than ever before. Thus it is more important than ever before to confirm that a woman is legal, because even if she consents, you can still be charged for rape if she is below the legal age. Thus ALWAYS ask to see a woman's ID or Driver's License. No exceptions.
#2) Watch the Type of Women You Have Sex With! As a rule of thumb, do not have sex with liberal feminists or atheists. You know, the type who dominate tumblr and replace the word "virginity" with "sexual debut." They are precisely the women responsible for the mess that our gender is in today, and thus are likeliest to be the type who would utilize it to get you in trouble.
Atheists because the vast majority of them tend to be liberal feminists, as atheism is an inherently "progressive," left leaning ideology. Objectivism as espoused by philosopher Ayn Rand is the sole exception. But the point is that if a woman considers herself an outspoken "progressive" and/or is a liberal feminist, you should avoid her because she may have an axe to grind against men.
#3) Record Her Consent! While this may sound like overkill, it is perfectly rational in light of the fact that so many men are falsely imprisoned for rape simply because they could not establish proof of consent. Never mind due process and the fact that the burden of proof is on the plaintiff alone and not the defendant, the fact remains that a false rape allegation can completely shatter a man's life. Thus you need to be able to prove your innocence in case it ever comes to that. Fortunately, most smartphones are equipped with at least a rudimentary recorder, so all you need to do is explicitly ask the woman in question if she wants to have sex, and then record her saying "Yes."
#4) Avoid Alcohol Like the Plague! Even if it is just a single glass of wine at a fancy Italian restaurant, women and alcohol is an extremely volatile combination, especially when it comes to sexual matters. In light of "Yes Means Yes" and the fact that many feminists are pushing to alter the law so that drunk sex is considered rape, you do not by any means want to involve alcohol with a woman you plan on having sex with. Even if you have proof of consent like a recording, it will be automatically dismissed as invalid if it surfaces that alcohol was involved.
In conclusion, not only should you refrain from having sex outside of marriage and/or prostitution, but you should also refrain from ever even putting yourself in a situation with women where sex would be possible. For example, never go anywhere alone with them for an extended period of time. Always ensure that there are witnesses and/or friends around. Do not stay overnight at each other's homes. Do not sleep in motels together. Do not even stay in the car alone together for too long. There is such a thing as being in the wrong place at the wrong time, and all it takes is for one little lie on the part of one rotten woman to get you in a world of trouble. Do not even afford them the opportunity to lie.
Economics: Avoid Gold Diggers!
This should go without saying, but every man should be on guard against gold diggers. If the only reason a woman appears to be showing any interest in you at all is because of your money, then that should immediately raise alarm bells. Granted, oftentimes women genuinely do fall in love with a wealthy and/or generous man. And we should not assume that just because an attractive woman is with a less than attractive man that she is only after his money -- oftentimes beautiful women do fall for men way below their league, like my mother did with my father -- but if a woman's interest in you only seems to revolve around your money, then more likely than not she is a gold digger. And frankly, if you are stupid enough to fall for it, then you deserve whatever damage she does to your bank account. But even so, there are some important things that every man should know.
The first is to keep your penis in check, because sex is the most powerful tool in a gold digger's arsenal against men and they know it. From always looking good to allowing you to indulge in your deepest fantasies and desires, these women are experts at utilizing sex for their personal gain. Thus it is absolutely pivotal that you do not fall like so many men have fallen before you -- I cannot emphasize this enough: do not underestimate the power of sex. You must keep yourself in check and watch your penis, the irrational little son of a bitch that it is. Resist the wiles of the gold digger, and do not ever make an important decision while you are aroused. Relieve yourself first, and then make it. Otherwise you will forfeit your money like Esau did his birthright for a measly bowl of soup.
Moreover, sex is NOT the only tool in the gold digger's arsenal, although it is the most powerful. Hence you need to learn to be on guard against everything that such a woman might utilize against you. Here are some good, all-around tips for being on guard against their treachery.
#1) Avoid Purchasing Expensive Gifts! Unless the woman in question happens to be your wife, she does not deserve expensive gifts nor is she entitled to your money. Let wives' gifts be wives' gifts and understand that a girlfriend is not a wife. Doing so will weed out most of the gold diggers because they will not stay with you if they are not receiving large sums of money. Furthermore the good women will stay with you because they will not care about the money or the assets. They will stay with you because they genuinely love you, which is much preferable to a gold digger.
#2) Always Use Your Own Condoms! Never trust that a woman is on the pill. For that matter, never trust condoms provided by a woman as well. There are women out there who will genuinely try to hook a man through getting pregnant so that she can live off of the child support and alimony.
They will poke holes in the condoms that they provide. They will lie. They will purposely "forget" to take the pill, etc. Simply put, it is too risky to trust a woman by virtue of her word alone. Always bring your own protection, and for that matter, always ensure that it is never left unsupervised. Do not trust your own condom if it could have been tampered with. Keep it in a safe place and keep it on your person at all times. Never leave it unsupervised around a woman you plan on having sex with.
#3) Research the Law! Even if you do not marry a woman, many states have a form of "common law" marriage wherein if two people have been living together for a certain amount of years, they are considered "married" before the eyes of the law. Thus the woman becomes entitled to your assets as if she were a wife. Hence it is your responsibility to research the law wherever you are living and to take the appropriate steps necessary to ensure that this does not happen.
Finally, remember that reality is not like television, though television often tries to portray itself as reality. The truth is that not every bad woman is going to come with a sign that reads "Gold Digger!" She can look -- and behave -- like everyone else. So you must be on guard at all times. Furthermore, sex, broken condoms, and even the full weight of the law are not the only tools in their arsenal. Many of them may take advantage of you precisely because you are insecure and/or struggling with your emotions. If you are the shy sort of man who has always struggled with women and lacked self-confidence, gold diggers can detect this like blood in the ocean.
They will do and say the right thing in just the right way at just the right time in order to weasel their way into your wallet.
They will stroke your ego. They will tell you that they love you. They will make you feel like you are on top of the world. But in reality they are only after your money. They will not care if they completely break your heart and drive you to suicide, or if you genuinely loved and trusted them. Hence, many sincere nice guys can and have been taken advantage of by gold diggers. Be on guard.
The Social Life: Your Reputation Counts!
Nothing hurts more than betrayal and dishonesty, especially at the hands of someone you once held dear to your heart. From the betrayal of Jesus Christ at the hands of Judas Iscariot in the Bible to Julius Caesar of Rome being assassinated by his best friend Brutus, associating with the wrong person can really screw up your life. Especially when women are involved. Because, you see, there are some rotten women out there who thrive on attention -- and for whatever reason -- will stab a man in the back if it benefits her personally. Such a woman will completely destroy your reputation, and apart from the emotional turmoil, it can have dire implications for work and school. As stated earlier, a false rape allegation is the worst way a woman can completely destroy a man's life.
Even if you are found innocent, the stigma will follow you.
There will always be those people who believe that you are guilty, and women will be especially wary in your presence. You can lose your job. You can be forced to transfer schools. Someone can call your new place of employment and tell them the rumors about you, resulting in the loss of your job yet again. In other words, shit follows you, and so your reputation is invaluable and must be maintained at all costs. The thing to understand about women is that -- as also stated earlier -- they will always have the upper hand. Society will always assume that the woman is innocent, and take her word over yours. Hence, it is important that you keep your social life in check, and follow these steps to ensure that the wrong kind of woman is afforded no opportunity to destroy your reputation.
#1) Never Delete Your Texts! For that matter, you should not even be texting a woman in the first place, especially as it pertains to matters of dating and romance. Simply put, it is too risky. Texts can be manipulated, taken out of context, and misconstrued in such a way to make you look guilty. This is what the lying cunt at my workplace did to me, claiming that I was "stalking" her just for trying to plan a date, even though she volitionally gave me her phone number in person after I approached her for it and made known my interest in going out with her. Your texts can prove your innocence, as can your recordings of consent, so if you must text a woman, be sure to save all of them.
#2) Always Put Family First! From your parents to your siblings, aunts, and uncles, family is perhaps the most invaluable relationship that you will ever have. Forget about friendship, because *most* friends will eventually stab you in the back and/or not be there for you when you need them.
Only family and family alone will always be there for you unconditionally. Thus, it is pivotal that you consolidate your relationship with your family. Because if shit ever hits the fan, you are going to need them. They may be your only support network. Especially in the case of divorce and/or a false rape allegation. NEVER put a woman before your family. I repeat, let wives be wives and recognize that a girlfriend is not a wife. No girlfriend is worth choosing over your family. Only a wife is entitled to that, and even then, only because she has become a part of your family via marriage.
#3) Keep Your Life Compartmentalized! And for that matter, keep the different aspects of your life a secret. No woman needs to know your place of employment, Church, or school on the first date. Divulging such details can be dangerous for the sake of your reputation. Do not allow these aspects of your life to overlap as well, since turmoil in one can easily corrupt the other. You should not date women from your place of employment, nor should you give out your number easily.
Divorce: A Special Note
Finally, something special needs to be said about divorce. Because unlike anything else the wrong woman may ever put you through, divorce is the only one that can destroy your life in all three aspects. It can destroy you sexually if she makes false rape allegations in court, economically if she is awarded your assets and alimony, and socially as people will now view you as a failed husband. That is not even mentioning the emotional turmoil of losing custody of your children -- the worst nightmare any parent can possibly endure. Yet, the divorce court is completely stacked against you.
Approximately 50% of marriages end in divorce, and at least 70% of those divorces are initiated by the woman (Source).
Hence, you must be extremely careful about the woman you decide to marry. Many men would suggest getting a prenup. But the way I see it is that if you cannot trust a woman enough to not have her sign a prenup, then you should not be marrying her in the first place. Furthermore, many divorce courts will throw out a prenuptial agreement, especially if the judge happens to be a liberal feminist. So you should be especially careful about the woman you decide to marry, because marriage to the wrong woman can truly destroy your life on an unprecedented level. Marriage is a greater risk for the man than it is for the woman, thanks to feminism and "equality." So do not enter into that risk lightly.
In Conclusion,
Not every woman is a bad one. In fact, I would wager that there are more good women in the world than there are bad ones. I specified this point at the beginning of my article, but I digress. Some readers are always going to complain, and *some* women are always going to take offense at everything I write about their sex, even if I specify from the outset that it only applies to the bad members. But the truth must be made known. Women have Cosmopolitan which teaches them important real-life truths about men and relationships -- even if it has been dumbed down in recent years -- so it is only fair that men should be afforded the same. Finally, it should be noted that just as the wrong sort of woman can completely destroy your life -- especially in the case of marriage/divorce -- so the right sort of woman can completely bless your life.
A good woman is the greatest blessing of all.
The right sort of woman is the one who is truly entitled to your money, love, and care. You should cherish her as a treasure more worthy than anything else you will ever have -- the greatest thing in your entire life. More than that, you should grant her the honor of marriage, and becoming a part of your family. For just as divorce can ruin all three aspects of your life, so marriage to a good woman can bless your life in all three aspects. But in order to find a good woman, you must inevitably navigate your way through all of the bad ones that you are destined to encounter.
What are some other good, real-life tips that every man should know?
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