@TheInvisibleMan They can have a lot of drama... but I get it. You mean like they reached a milestone that you can't. Have you considered fuck buddies or something more causal for less pressure?
Honestly... try the other girls! You may have better luck because they might not reject you so easily, having less options... it sounds cold but I don't know how else to say it about the girls. If they have less options why would they reject you so easily?
I have no idea. I know loser guys who have smoking hot girlfriends. And I couldn't get ANY girl in the universe. Thats why I said Im a lost cause. I dont know what the problem is. Nobody knows
As I said, maybe its young for your environment. For mine its way too late. I know A LOT of people yet I dont know literally anybody in my situation. From both younger and older people than me.
well who says statistics can control your life? you are plain stupid. you can easily kiss a drunk girl in a club TONIGHT. you can be so absolut and a downer... .
you do. with the proper coaching/mentorship you'll be far better than you are. you just never had a good male archetype. and are socially/womanly unaware. if you get the social and womanly subtleties you'll be far better... .
most are gems, but you can begin with things like the video abuot "sluts" where he totally debunks your ideas of women and helps giving you a healthier paradigm of looking them as the sexual creatures they normally are with no prejudice or passion... .
Onda me ti ovde najbolje kontas, jer tesko je ovim strancima objasniti koliko se kod nas te stvari rano desavaju, i koliko sam ja vec propustio sa 19 a da ne spominjem tebe :/
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I don't think you sound weird. 'normal' people can be so weird it's srsly stunning sometimes.
Doesn't matter, normal people still can find somebody while for me, its impossible
@TheInvisibleMan They can have a lot of drama... but I get it. You mean like they reached a milestone that you can't. Have you considered fuck buddies or something more causal for less pressure?
Any kind of contact (except friendly) with girls is impossible for me.
Have you tried going after girls who aren't really hot? Like more average?
I tried everything except the ugly and fat girls or whatever.
Honestly... try the other girls! You may have better luck because they might not reject you so easily, having less options... it sounds cold but I don't know how else to say it about the girls. If they have less options why would they reject you so easily?
I have no idea. I know loser guys who have smoking hot girlfriends. And I couldn't get ANY girl in the universe. Thats why I said Im a lost cause. I dont know what the problem is. Nobody knows
Well start somewhere! I'm serious, try going after more average girls.
you are still 19, that is very young, statistics or not, still very young
As I said, maybe its young for your environment. For mine its way too late. I know A LOT of people yet I dont know literally anybody in my situation. From both younger and older people than me.
It really sucks when you try your best and have nothing to show for it.
Exactly.
I'm sure some girls are interested. Your just not reading the signals thier given you.
Nope, I can recognize the signals, but they were never there
Thanks for sharing this amazing rant of self-aggrandazing shit.
That was not the point of the post, I just mentioned most common bs people write to me here so I needed to explain why its all bullshit
well who says statistics can control your life? you are plain stupid. you can easily kiss a drunk girl in a club TONIGHT. you can be so absolut and a downer... .
I can't, maybe you can. If I could, I would have, a billion times by now
you have no idea of the hidden abilities you have inside. the biggest obstacle you have to overcome is your "ill" mind... .
I tried everything and no girl ever liked me. So I don't think I have any hidden abilities on that field
you do. with the proper coaching/mentorship you'll be far better than you are. you just never had a good male archetype. and are socially/womanly unaware. if you get the social and womanly subtleties you'll be far better... .
I read books on the topic and tried the stuff I read. No results. What is your solution?
try tyler's stuff. this spirituality, inner game, peace within one's self, zero neediness stuff is real.
Who is Tyler?
rsdtyler from social dynamics. check his youtube channel. has too much free content... .
Ok, I will check it out. Any advice which videos to watch first?
most are gems, but you can begin with things like the video abuot "sluts" where he totally debunks your ideas of women and helps giving you a healthier paradigm of looking them as the sexual creatures they normally are with no prejudice or passion... .
Ok, thanks for the advice!
Oh right, lako je to reći, ali malo teže napraviti :P
Na sta tacno mislis?
Recimo da imam isti problem kao i ti, samo što sam oko 20 godina stariji.
Onda me ti ovde najbolje kontas, jer tesko je ovim strancima objasniti koliko se kod nas te stvari rano desavaju, i koliko sam ja vec propustio sa 19 a da ne spominjem tebe :/
Pa, živa istina nažalost, naročito kod nas na Balkanu :(
I'm 31, incel. Think anyone magically walked into my life? No. This is bullshit.
What is bullshit? You are essentially me in 12 years.
interesting