Gentlemen, let me ask you a question: do you hate it when other guys who are naturally amazing at attracting women, just snag the girl you've been dreaming about? I do and I bet it has happened to you, too. Unfortunately, this happens to a lot of us. In this Take, I will explain the common misconceptions as to why this happens and then I will get into the reasons why I envy these guys with a natural born gift. Let's get into it.
ALPHA MALE V. BETA MALE
This is probably the biggest misconception in my opinion. This has nothing to do with people having the natural talent to attract women, this doesn't even have to do with attracting women in general. What are we, wolves? There is not "Alpha v. Beta" male, that's just a load of bullshit. People (especially dating experts) make it sound like if you are an alpha male, you rule this earth and can do whatever you want to. Beta males get girls all the time if they have the natural talent to do so. I've also seen plenty of "alpha" males get turned down. Yeah, alpha v. beta males are the main structure of the wolf pack, but does it really belong in the human dating world? If you ask me, the answer would be no.
THE "HE GREW UP WITH A LOT OF WOMEN IN THE HOUSEHOLD" EXCUSE
This one makes sense to me; if he grew up talking to a bunch of women then it'll be easier for him to talk to other women. Well this, my friends, is another common misconception. Guys could live with a lot of sisters, but can be shy when talking to women as well, which means that the natural born talent of talking to women is not based or strengthened by how many sisters you have. It's easy for the guy to talk to his sisters because, well, they are family, but he could only be good with talking to his sisters and no body else. Hopefully you guys understood what I just said, it's something that is hard to explain.
THE MISCONCEPTION OF GUYS WITH THE NATURAL BORN TALENT
Yes, there is a misconception about guys with the talent and you wanna know what it is? Attractiveness. Attractiveness for guys who have a natural born talent can vary. It's not necessarily the physical attractiveness part that attracts women to these guys (even though attractiveness does play a big role when attracting a girl), but the guy's personality, which I will talk about later. I've seen guys who have the talent who are on either ends of the attractiveness spectrum. It's really a "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" type thing.
REASONS WHY I HATE GUYS WITH THE NATURAL TALENT OF ATTRACTING WOMEN
1.) NATURAL CONFIDENCE
If I had natural confidence, I would go up and talk to every beautiful girl I see, but I don't. However, guys born with the natural talent of talking to girls are already born with confidence out of the womb, which I hate so much. That means that the can talk to any girl they want when they want without fear of rejection or some sort of backlash. Personally, I barely have any confidence at all and for people like me, we have to work hard to gain confidence.
It takes years to actually gain true confidence, but for guys who have the talent, they already have it without any work put into it. It's kind of like you putting in really hard work at your job, but then someone comes along and does absolutely no work and gets paid more than you. (yes I know that those kind of people may have put in really hard work before hand, but I'm talking about people who were born rich and then their mommy or daddy gave them their company and so they don't have to work at all)
2.) NATURAL AURA
Now, I'm not really the type to believe in supernatural auras, but what I mean by this is that girls can somehow see this guy, who has the talent, and be almost friends or attracted to them by being in their presence. It's like they can somehow sense their attractiveness. Yes, I know auras are about telling a person's mood, but what I am describing is like an aura. These people who have the talent have a different "aura" then us guys who don't have the talent. It's truly something fascinating.
3.) NATURAL STATUS
This is mainly a high school/college thing, but guys who have the natural talent of attracting women tend to be of a higher status than guys who don't. Let's break down the reason why: If guys can attract women easily then they will automatically get more girls, which will cause girls to be friends with him because they want him and it would cause guys to be friends with him because they want to give props, or respect, to him for attracting all these beautiful girls. In shorter terms, guy friends+ girl friends= status.
So there you have it ladies and gents, guys with a natural born gift are naturally going to be better at attracting women than guys who work their asses off to improve their selves. At 17 years old, I have seen a bunch of guys with this talent at my high school. It truly is annoying and frustrating seeing all these women attracted these guys that just have natural way of attracting women. All the girls cheering them on at football or basketball games, and then there is me, where every women is disgusted by me because I wasn't born with the gift of talking to women. Anyways, this concludes my myTake, if you guys have any questions or comments please feel free to leave it down below.
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