Act Hot and You'll BE HOT!

1. It is all psychology

In other words, if you make yourself valuable and unattainable, others will view you like this and treat you in the manner you want to be viewed in. Shoulders back and head high!

2. Fake it till you make it

Sometimes even on your worst days, you get up, get dressed, and put on a smile for the world to see.

3. You are what you think you are

If you believe that you are a strong, sexy person- then others will believe it too. You have to convince yourself before you convince the world.


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  • 1mo

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, confidence does help though. Another man may see that a woman is ugly and another man may see her as beautiful.

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  • 1mo

    She can tell herself she's beautiful as much as she wants... but she's not even close to even being average.

    www.thebodyisnotanapology.com/.../...qO1qkifb8.jpg

    Stop with the bullshit.

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    • 1mo

      Maybe her personality is likable. 😛

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    • 25d

      Omg is it ok that i just laughed at this i dont wana seem a bitch...

    • 25d

      @Kellibabe Nah, you're human.

  • 1mo

    Lol um no what makes you attractive at first look is looking attractive.

    For your tactics to work you'd have to already be physically attractive.

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  • 1mo

    short and to the point!

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  • 25d

    How do you fake it if you don't even know how to fake it in the first place? It's like telling me to act like a gorilla but I never heard of a gorilla or seen one in my life.

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  • 25d

    Meh, attractiveness is subjective. I doubt you can just make people find you attractive using pseudo mind tricks.

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  • 25d

    None of this is true and is just misinformation and feminist propoganda. Act hot and you will be hot is why so may girls that are at most 5s think they're 7s and so on which is why they can never find a man on their level and why they get used for pump and dumps and are still single in their thirties.

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    • 24d

      I know he's dressed up, but he should get a haircut, ditch the glasses, get new clothing and he'll look like 10x better

  • 26d

    There is something to be said for "acting hot." Indeed our attitude can affect how attractive we are perceived by others.

    Now, that said, there comes a point where acting hot will be to no avail. At that point, it might be best to think about changing one's appearance.

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  • 26d

    I'm actually not into those kind of girls at all. It seems more common than not. I prefer girls with humility and relatability. I've no interest in someone that thinks she deserves the world and one should be lucky to know her

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  • 27d

    That is absolute... BOLLOCKS. A girl could be introverted, shy and even have extreme social anxiety to the point of having panic attacks and still could land chad thunder cock if she is physically beautiful or even average. End of the day women are the ones being approached so they don't need any courage or confidence... just sit/stand there as usual.

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    • 25d

      I've never been approached... I really hate myself...

    • 24d

      @Lonewolf881 Women are so privileged today because of gynocentrism, you have no idea. You women can't see how privileged you are because you're so self entilted and spoilt for rights. Please just go away. Your saying men are not approaching you, well why don't you get approaching men why shouldnwe have to do it.

  • 27d

    Real world observations and experience would say otherwise. If you're hot you're hot. No one knows you're confident if they don't give you the time of day. To get them to give you the time of day you have to be naturally hot.

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  • 28d

    I'm so hot.

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  • 1mo

    Number 2 works only up to a certain point. Number 3 is mis-leading. You aren't necessarely what you think you are, but certainly defined by your actions.

    Number 1 is common sense.

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  • 1mo

    You can think that you are a potato if you want but people will see the way you look and judge you based on that

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  • 1mo

    I act cold because I am too hot.

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  • 1mo

    No. It doesn't work that way. You are either born with it or not.
    But a personality can move the scale to a pretty big degree.
    BUT, some people just aren't good looking. It is sad, but true.

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  • 1mo

    Great thread to write as a anon lmao. Where's your confidence?

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  • 1mo

    It takes more than just acting though, you have to actually be attracted to them, in order to "be hot"

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  • 1mo

    Act hot and you'll be hot... if you're hot.

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  • 1mo

    I sorta agree. Charisma and charm is important in attraction. Even the most unattractive people can be likable if they have charisma. This is what draws people to you and makes you likeable.

    Now replying to all the people who are going to post fat or ugly people and ask if they can be likable, they in fact can.

    My mom is overweight and she is liked by many because she possesses confidence and charisma, which are important in getting people to like and value you.

    Romantically speaking this may or may not be true, but in other aspects yeah it's true.

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    good4

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  • 23d

    Too right!

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  • 23d

    Exactly!
    Great MyTake!

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  • 25d

    4. Be an actual Jedi, so those mind tricks might have a chance of working.

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  • 25d

    All the women in your mytake are already physically attractive. I do agree with this somewhat but not sold on it entirely. Arrogance can turn a lot of people off and there's a thin line between that and confidence. If you are good-looking already but have low self-esteem anyway, every bad person within a ten mile radius will flock to you and try to exploit that. You can tell some people are obnoxious with the confident front. It's not working because they are overcompensating for their lacking.

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  • 1mo

    It's not working

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  • 1mo

    Yes! I've been saying this for a long time. Mostly to guys who are insecure about one thing or another regaring approaching girls but its so true for all of us.!

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  • 1mo

    great take!

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  • 1mo

    That is not true at all. Everything what you just wrote does not make sense at all. People have their own judgements and convictions about other people. Just because I see a person who is attractive, it doesn't mean I have to worship them or cater to them. Especially when they have a salty personality. Your hot because of sexual lust. And lust is in the dust. Real men are not worrying about who's hot. They want a person who sparkles in their eyes, who's different than the rest and not another soulless robot. You can't fake. Because there are people like me who sense and knows fakes from the first glance. You have to show and prove it for yourself when its fitting. But other than that, you only have yourself to prove. Not to other people.

    I gain respect because I dress and act in a respectable manner. I don't behave like other women. I don't have to prove to the world anything. I act according to how I want to be treated. You have to have character and personality. The looks is irrelevant. Because at the end of all of that physical is the heart. And if your heart is not right, no real man will be attracted to it to want to stay committed to you for long term.

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  • 1mo

    LOL, I doubt that... what if a woman looks like this?
    1000uglypeople.com/.../...Woman-With-Bad-Teeth.jpg
    No acting would help her :P

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    • 1mo

      I don't think this woman is ugly. If she gets her tooth fixed, have nice facial expressions rather than being goofy and keeps her hair down I think she would look fine.

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