1. Turn ons & Turn offs
Nothing will make your sex life better than knowing what the other person enjoys and could do without. Going into the whole thing blindly isn't optimal.
If one person expects it daily while the other monthly- problems will arise. Best thing to do is to sit down and discuss what each needs
3. Biggest Fantasy
Nothing is hotter than acting out each other's wildest fantasies :) So go ahead and talk about it because I guarantee you'll enjoy it!