For #1 and #3, the only objection I have is that the author writes those things as though they have to be faked.
As I wrote in my own opinion, #1 and #3 are absolutely things that that SHOULD HAPPEN -- but, they should just happen organically. They shouldn't be things that a woman (or man!) has to do *consciously*.
Like... for #1, yeah, she SHOULD have an independent existence, and, no, she SHOULDN'T be "eager" (except when it comes to fucking... that's another story).
And as for #3... honestly, if someone is always IMMEDIATELY able to respond to all messages, all the time, and if she is ALWAYS able to make plans at the very last minute... that means she has literally nothing else happening in her entire life. That's how stalkers and clingers are born.
@redeyemindtricks Completely agreed. And it isn't even a gender thing, this goes for guys as well - if you find yourself faking 1 or 3, you doing life wrong and need to go fix that before creeping on dates.
@redeyemindtricks I agree with what you're saying. All I think is that it should be 50/50 when it comes to effort and neither extreme is good whether it's clinginess or being super distant to the point where we think someone's lost interest.
And the same can be said about men. If you don't want a girl to play games with her then don't play them with her. Period. Men are never honest about what they want. And you can write me a whole essay and say that's not you, but I guarantee if we talked to the last 5 girls you talked to it would be a different story. Lay your shit on the table and see what's good.
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I don't even have to read the comments... I already know you're getting so much hate - just for the title.
If you really want 100 % guarantee way to make him chase you , just steal his phone/wallet/anything, then run ; p
lol :)
I disagree with everything. Sorry. I show my boyfriend that i love him and he reciprocated and its been beautiful ever since.
There's a difference between guys chasing down someone that's wife material, and chasing down a cum dumpster.
This advice is for the latter.
For #1 and #3, the only objection I have is that the author writes those things as though they have to be faked.
As I wrote in my own opinion, #1 and #3 are absolutely things that that SHOULD HAPPEN -- but, they should just happen organically. They shouldn't be things that a woman (or man!) has to do *consciously*.
Like... for #1, yeah, she SHOULD have an independent existence, and, no, she SHOULDN'T be "eager" (except when it comes to fucking... that's another story).
And as for #3... honestly, if someone is always IMMEDIATELY able to respond to all messages, all the time, and if she is ALWAYS able to make plans at the very last minute... that means she has literally nothing else happening in her entire life. That's how stalkers and clingers are born.
@redeyemindtricks Completely agreed. And it isn't even a gender thing, this goes for guys as well - if you find yourself faking 1 or 3, you doing life wrong and need to go fix that before creeping on dates.
Yep.
@redeyemindtricks I agree with what you're saying. All I think is that it should be 50/50 when it comes to effort and neither extreme is good whether it's clinginess or being super distant to the point where we think someone's lost interest.
Do you really have to let the secret out. Let's hope not all women see this
Step 4: Just be open about you want instead of playing stressful games like a spoiled child.
And the same can be said about men. If you don't want a girl to play games with her then don't play them with her. Period. Men are never honest about what they want. And you can write me a whole essay and say that's not you, but I guarantee if we talked to the last 5 girls you talked to it would be a different story. Lay your shit on the table and see what's good.
@cyndyrene
This isn't math. Two wrongs don't make a right.
The same naturally also accounts for men - but this topic was about women.
@cyndyrene you are a fool if you truly believe what you said is true.
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this should be titled "how to make him lose interest."
crap, someone already beat me to this punchline
Ladies, if you do all this, he'll just leave.
We don't like playing games.
All that a woman has to do for me is be a great cook everything else will fall into place
I wonder why these mytakes are always written anonymously.
Also, look like the girl in that first pic! That will definitely help!
Sorry, if you do that I'm done. No point in doing that, and if you do, it means you're insecure.
Yeah no... I don't play mind games.
I was just gonna say have dem Tig ol' Bitties
How to end up single.
How to make a guy pursue women other than you.
this is why you will die alone with 6 cats
As an old man, I'm not eligible for games anymore!
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