also, they say "those who can't do teach" and I think you are trying to tell us to "put ourselves out there" while you aren't even doing it yourself. I smell BS
well, you are attractive so youve never had to really do much but sit there since guys will just start hitting on you regardless if you're shy or outgoing... sorry but this advice doesn't work
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UwantME - that's an interesting theory, however it fails to then explain why my dating life improved.
Tell yourself that all you want, Breathe. Sounds to me like you are looking for excuses not to even try.
Great article, celestialdaeva. Actually answered a lot that I hadn't thought when presenting myself to other women.
I tend to be flirty if the person I am speaking with is flirty with me too.like I don't initiate but respond
So being approachable and putting yourself out there isn't an attempt at attracting and finding a mate?
What's the point of it then?
This method of "approaching" is so ambiguous. No guy should do this, you'll get friend-zoned.
I hope this is only for girls.
Funny, I thought I wrote an article about being approachable. My bad.
Great article! Just what I needed to read. I definitely need to put myself out there more :)
Call it whatever you want. The fact remains that it happens frequently.
LEARNING and PRACTICING and precursors to making an actual attempt.
Ill tell you why your dating life sucked. You are not attractive enough
What's the difference between "pursuing relentlessly" and stalking?
also, they say "those who can't do teach" and I think you are trying to tell us to "put ourselves out there" while you aren't even doing it yourself. I smell BS
well, you are attractive so youve never had to really do much but sit there since guys will just start hitting on you regardless if you're shy or outgoing... sorry but this advice doesn't work
Not a bad article... still say it's infinitely more easy said than it is done :P
You forgot one thing . Ugly guys are hated by girls . That's why girls don't talk to me and avoid me when I try to talk to them
This article was amazing. I'm hopelessly shy I'll try these tips out and see how it goes!
I was pleasantly surprised ... good article!
I hope it's OK I added you as a friend.
The nail in the coffin.