I don't approach nice looking guys because: i assume they are already in a relationship, they are out of my league, I'm to shy, and/or maybe it's just that I'm more into people who i can relate to ( I'm a geek lol ) :/
If you are attractive, congratulation. Girls love attractive dudes. Ugly guys suffer miserably from rejection. People like attractive individuals. At least, you have the option to cheat on her. Ugly guys don't have it because nobody is willing to date them.
Exactly this guy is delusional. Ugly dudes have to struggle just to get one girlfriend. Girls assume your callus or you will cheat if you act like a callous douche. Thats all.
"Have you noticed? Good looking guys are the ones who are being left alone nowadays. "
No.
"Girls judge them instantly by their looks, they think they're not nice persons or that they may cheat on them."
If true, that's just stupid. Girls usually go for looks and/or confidence. That's why "ugly" guys get women, they have more confidence (I guess because they're ugly, idunno). A confident guy will get almost any girl, independent of looks.
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Yep, I see an attractive guy and I crush on him from afar and don't even bother trying. Why? Because I don't think I'm on his level. The fear of rejection is always there and when its an attractive male the chances are almost guaranteed rejection in my mind.
So personally, I don't speak for all girls but I don't really go for attractive guys.
well you're right, but in my country it is as I'm stating above, honestly you don't have an idea, If you lived here you'd see how many pretty girls are with ugly dudes, but it's like 90% of them, believe me
This is largely true because women prejudge most attractive men to be players or cads. And many attractive guys are very unpopular with other guys because of the massive inferiority they rouse in other dudes. This is the Tom Brady effect. He's better than Peyton Manning, but most guys like Manning better bec
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ause he's not as attractive as Brady and doesn't engender feelings of inferiority among guys. Brady dates attractive women only because he's highly successful, and women will date a serial murderer as long as he's famous and highly successful.
No, no. I just think the good looking guys that aren't nice get the more fake girls, whom avoid the ugly guys. The nicer and better girls go for whoever makes them happier. Regardless their looks. Seems to be the case where I am at least.
And some girls never get dates because guys are intimidated by their looks. Nonsense. If you're attractive and not getting dates at all it's because of the personality you are putting out there. Period. Beauty never goes out of style.
It has more to do with your appearance. Do you look like a douche bag with dog tags, long hair, and tight jeans? Then yes, you would be perceived as however people generalize it.
But to state that ugly guys have a better chance...
Most guys I know that are attractive aren't very nice so... I'll take my chances with the average looking guy. I'm not just going to go date an average looking guy if he's not nice to me though. I'd go for cute & nice if there was any.
i think you are wrong. i dont remember ever seeing a sexy girl go for someone uglyer than she is. maybe you're seeing ugly girls date ugly guys.
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I forgot the nationalities of the people here, well you haven't been to my country then. You have absolutely no idea of how many pretty girls are with less than average guys.
Honestly girls want good looking guys. I haven't seen a girl avoid a guy because he's good looking. I'm pretty sure when they see a good looking guy they don't assume that their a bad person. Sure some prejudices may arise but if a guy is attractive nine times out of ten they'll be given a chance by the person who's attention they caught and if that attractive guy is interesting and has good conversation skills then he will definitely hold on to her attention.
I'd say it finally dawned on men that looks aren't that important to girls and they shouldn't be too self conscious about them if they can offer real value.
I use to think this was actually happening, until I saw a decently average looking man approach, what would be considered, a very attractive woman. She shot him down so fast, before he could even introduce himself, saying he needed to "stay in his league." I don't buy this idea anymore. This just seems to be the case of waiting for an equally attractive mate.
Ummm, your completely wrong, sorry girls aren't falling all over you cause they are seeing the... not so attractive guys for who they are and like them
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I don't approach nice looking guys because: i assume they are already in a relationship, they are out of my league, I'm to shy, and/or maybe it's just that I'm more into people who i can relate to ( I'm a geek lol ) :/
Exactly
If you are attractive, congratulation. Girls love attractive dudes. Ugly guys suffer miserably from rejection. People like attractive individuals. At least, you have the option to cheat on her. Ugly guys don't have it because nobody is willing to date them.
Exactly this guy is delusional. Ugly dudes have to struggle just to get one girlfriend. Girls assume your callus or you will cheat if you act like a callous douche. Thats all.
You are just so good looking, you are out of everyone's league.
We're all standing around waiting for Angelina to dump Brad for you.
Quite the contrast to you then.
ok.. I'm not sure if I'm having a blonde moment or what..
but I totally don't follow what you are trying to say @ljx34c
"Have you noticed? Good looking guys are the ones who are being left alone nowadays. "
No.
"Girls judge them instantly by their looks, they think they're not nice persons or that they may cheat on them."
If true, that's just stupid.
Girls usually go for looks and/or confidence. That's why "ugly" guys get women, they have more confidence (I guess because they're ugly, idunno).
A confident guy will get almost any girl, independent of looks.
Yep, I see an attractive guy and I crush on him from afar and don't even bother trying. Why? Because I don't think I'm on his level. The fear of rejection is always there and when its an attractive male the chances are almost guaranteed rejection in my mind.
So personally, I don't speak for all girls but I don't really go for attractive guys.
I don't read takes much but I doubt they can get any more ridiculous than this.
it's gotten pretty popular though ^_^
So did Rebecca Black's Friday . Or Gangnam Style. Or What Does The Fox Say.
Popularity doesn't mean it's good.
well you're right, but in my country it is as I'm stating above, honestly you don't have an idea, If you lived here you'd see how many pretty girls are with ugly dudes, but it's like 90% of them, believe me
So what if pretty girls are with ugly guys? You're the one who is shallow for thinking pretty girls should stick to pretty guys.
no, i'm saying they shouldn't judge that's all
You shouldn't either, Take Owner.
after 100 cases I think i'm allowed to judge
Actually you're not. You can, but that doesn't mean you have the right to.
This is largely true because women prejudge most attractive men to be players or cads. And many attractive guys are very unpopular with other guys because of the massive inferiority they rouse in other dudes. This is the Tom Brady effect. He's better than Peyton Manning, but most guys like Manning better bec
ause he's not as attractive as Brady and doesn't engender feelings of inferiority among guys. Brady dates attractive women only because he's highly successful, and women will date a serial murderer as long as he's famous and highly successful.
No, no. I just think the good looking guys that aren't nice get the more fake girls, whom avoid the ugly guys. The nicer and better girls go for whoever makes them happier. Regardless their looks. Seems to be the case where I am at least.
And some girls never get dates because guys are intimidated by their looks. Nonsense. If you're attractive and not getting dates at all it's because of the personality you are putting out there. Period. Beauty never goes out of style.
You thinking girls who go for "ugly" guys are shallow is shallow, ever think that girls actually think that guy is attractive. :/ your the shallow one
It has more to do with your appearance. Do you look like a douche bag with dog tags, long hair, and tight jeans? Then yes, you would be perceived as however people generalize it.
But to state that ugly guys have a better chance...
Most guys I know that are attractive aren't very nice so... I'll take my chances with the average looking guy. I'm not just going to go date an average looking guy if he's not nice to me though. I'd go for cute & nice if there was any.
so you're looking for an excuse as to why you're single? gotcha budski :3
i think you are wrong. i dont remember ever seeing a sexy girl go for someone uglyer than she is. maybe you're seeing ugly girls date ugly guys.
I forgot the nationalities of the people here, well you haven't been to my country then. You have absolutely no idea of how many pretty girls are with less than average guys.
What country is that? im from the united states.
Honestly girls want good looking guys. I haven't seen a girl avoid a guy because he's good looking. I'm pretty sure when they see a good looking guy they don't assume that their a bad person. Sure some prejudices may arise but if a guy is attractive nine times out of ten they'll be given a chance by the person who's attention they caught and if that attractive guy is interesting and has good conversation skills then he will definitely hold on to her attention.
I'd say it finally dawned on men that looks aren't that important to girls and they shouldn't be too self conscious about them if they can offer real value.
Does not apply to my life at allll. If I don't find him attractive (and my standards are both obtainable and something else) he get's written off.
Same reason some extremely attractive women don't get dates, people are intimidated by them and don't think they have a chance so they don't even try
I use to think this was actually happening, until I saw a decently average looking man approach, what would be considered, a very attractive woman. She shot him down so fast, before he could even introduce himself, saying he needed to "stay in his league." I don't buy this idea anymore. This just seems to be the case of waiting for an equally attractive mate.
I've never had a boyfriend, no guy has evwe liked me and every guy I've ever had feelings for has quickly rejected me so I wouldn't know.
Disregard this post, bro this has to do with your past experiences. Anyone can date anyone bro stop being judgmental
Ummm, your completely wrong, sorry girls aren't falling all over you cause they are seeing the... not so attractive guys for who they are and like them